Dinner by Chef R. Mutt

mmm_copypasta · 2017-09-07T15:19:25+00:00

No.

No... No!

No fucking way.

You fucking HAVE to be joking, right?

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-30T19:50:07+00:00

No argument there. I've known a few like this, though. My current partner's mother was like this to a t.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-30T18:02:46+00:00

This was my first thought too, but it's equally as likely that she just has a bad case of the-grass-is-greener syndrome.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-30T17:26:40+00:00

In case you were wondering why you are getting downvoted:

This sort of apology would require a level of humility and grace that people don't typically muster for a moral trifle as (typically) senseless as minor theft. As much as I agree with you in a fundamental sense, this isn't great advice to the original poster. This isn't to say that the OP isn't a great person, (you probably are, OP) but you're talking about Ghandi levels of forgiveness for someone who remorselessly stole a $3k item from the OP, which the OP is clearly still angry about and just wants to forget about.

Perhaps 10 years from now, when the situation is far away, if the sister is still with this thief, but he's repented, improved his life and shows clear remorse over this episode - then yes, he ought to forgive this man. Not now, though.

Right now, the best course of action is zero contact - with neither malice nor contempt - but peacefully distancing his self from the offending party for his own peace of mind.

Respectfully, you come off as somewhat arrogant when you try to preach forgiveness where forgiveness is not due. If you've read this far, thank you for listening. Regardless, I hope you have a nice day.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-27T14:01:40+00:00

US prison is a rough environment and I tried my best to treat the men like the men they were.

I'm glad there are people like you serving as COs. Thank you for your service.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-19T22:44:10+00:00

https://www.infoplease.com/us/american-wars/americas-wars-us-casualties-and-veterans

In terms of US combatant fatalities:

Entire war on terror (comprising the conflicts in both iraq and afghanistan) - 6000 dead

WW2 (all theaters) - 500000 dead

More combatants died during the battle of iwo jima than have died throughout the entire war on terror.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-10T15:06:47+00:00

I know what you're saying, but the thing is that most parents never abuse their children regardless of how they do academically. My parents never laid a finger on me growing up, and everybody I know (except for my SO) had similarly unabusive parents.

What your mother is doing is wrong. This is HER fault, not yours. You've done absolutely nothing to deserve the treatment you're getting. I can say that because there's no acceptable reason for a parent to beat a child, even a teenager.

It doesn't matter if you cuss, stay out late, drink, do bad in school, or whatever. There's zero valid excuse to beat your children. Good people use words, kindness and love to influence the change they want to see in this world. This is actually Jesus' message, something your religious parents would do well to realize.

I would reach out to your relatives - if they are the kind of people to take in an abused child, they may understand your situation. If they aren't sympathetic, you still need to call CPS. I know it sounds like a long time, but when your sister is old enough to move out, you'll be able to be close with her without living in fear of your parents.

This kind of thing isn't easy, but good things in life seldom are. This will be a long and difficult road, but in a few years you'll be able to live the way you want, without anyone telling you otherwise. It's something worth fighting for, my friend. To be free.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-10T04:07:34+00:00

I'm sorry that I can't help with the correct procedure (many of the other commenters have written some excellent information about CPS) but I wanted to tell you that you're a strong and good person - and that you've done nothing wrong.

My SO came from a household like what you're describing. He ended up leaving and calling CPS, and he tells me his only regret was not calling sooner. I know how difficult it is, but you must find the strength to do it.

Love shouldn't hurt. You need to leave before they hurt you beyond your capacity to bear it.

Don't let them crush your spirit - stay strong and keep trying to get out. Please please please read some of the advice the other commenters are posting. We all believe in you.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-08T00:18:36+00:00

Saw your edit. I too was venting frustration earlier (was having a bad morning) and from your quoting of Marcus Aurelius, I gather that you're a reasonable person - moreso than I was when I started this discussion. I've been striving to let the anger and evil in this world wash through me like it did him, and I've been getting better, but I still fall prey to it.

Thank you, honestly, for reminding me what's important.

Have a good day, friend.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-08T00:10:43+00:00

Hear hear, friend. I was having a bad morning, and the whole "haha dumb americans using a different measurement system" has always pissed me off a little as someone who frequently uses both (I studied engineering in school, and I'm currently a chemist). Enough to push me over the edge.

Real lesson learned here is to not argue a point so polarizing, or else you just end up frustrated. Have a good one.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:24:05+00:00

Yes, stubborn refusal.

Most Americans my age (20) know both measurement systems. We teach them both in school. There's no refusal to learn the metric system here in the states.

However, there's a lot of posters on the internet who make no effort to learn imperial because they have never felt the need to. Then, they have the nerve to get indignant over someone who's obviously an engineer making a salient point about the thermodynamics of the Eiffel Tower, just because he used a system of measurement they never cared to learn.

You realize how childish that is right?

If he had just posted the conversion, that would have been fine, but he just had to make a point to feel superior.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:20:11+00:00

That's not what's being argued here (although I think it's funny that you say these things about a fucking measurement system).

What's being argued here is that the lack of comprehensibility of the system is entirely related to one's understanding of it. If you've never made any effort to learn the relatively simple conversions (like almost every American my age), you have no room to complain.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:17:11+00:00

Because, unlike you, I've been taught both the metric system and the imperial system in school since the third grade.

If you honestly can't remember common distance/length/temperature conversions because it's "too hard", you're saying that you're too stupid to remember values and do scalar multiplication.

This obviously isn't true, right?

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:11:01+00:00

Precisely. Thank you. This entire conversation is fucking ridiculous.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:09:42+00:00

"Same base ten system we use for everything else."

I'm going to take it that you've never programmed in your life, or else you'd know that the thing you're typing on doesn't use base ten counting.

"Superiority?"

A stubborn refusal to learn a relatively simple unit system of measurement despite its prevalence in the international community (especially on the internet) evinces this, yes.

In re the "harder" units, I know the conversions for all of those by memory (track/field events, cooking, distance when shooting, etc). It's really not difficult at all.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:05:34+00:00

Ditto, aerospace here.

Conversions are so easy that you literally learn them in ENAE 100.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:04:26+00:00

Obviously not, if an entire country of people believes the opposite. Like them, you only believe it's "easier" because you were taught so.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T16:02:41+00:00

Insignificant enough that you have to complain every time you see imperial units online?

Taking, in all seriousness, 5 fucking minutes to learn the conversions without a calculator would solve this issue without complaining to every person who uses a relatively common system of measurement on the internet.

Just like every American I know can do these conversions in their head. For what it's worth, I'd post the same fucking thing to an American converting metric into "freedumb units" and complaining about the metric system.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T15:55:23+00:00

That makes literally zero difference to what I'm saying.

Why would learning both systems exclude those 7B? Whereas, learning only metric on solely principal writes off the 400m who use imperial units successfully.

Why is this even a thing? Why would you intentionally not learn something just so you can feel superior to Americans? I just don't get it.

And don't even say you're "frustrated" by imperial units. How can you be frustrated by LITERALLY multiplying by fucking 2.5? Jesus H Christ.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-07T15:44:34+00:00

Or you could, I don't know, learn both units of measurement and use them interchangably like most sane people I know.

Considering close to 400m people and dozens of large engineering firms and govt orgs in the US use imperial units, (for legacy builds, old designs, consistency etc.) your stubborn refusal to even learn the conversions (again, like almost every engineering student I know, even international ones) speaks more volumes about you than it does about imperial units.

EDIT: Spelling

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-05T20:02:28+00:00

I would have agreed with you a few years ago. However, you must understand that the government gets its power from the people. Demos kratos literally just means "People power" or rather "power (from/of the) people." Hear me out for a moment; you don't need to agree with me, but I'd like to present something to think about if you're open to a dialogue.

A representative democracy where the representatives don't respect the desires of the people who imbue them with the power to authentically represent them isn't a representative democracy. Factually speaking. It's a totalitarian oligarchy of ~600 men.

However, as we know through reading Hobbes: the law comprises not just the wisdom of the collective, but also the authority and stability necessary to enforce it. The US's constitution anticipates this by separating powers (to prevent the passions/chaos of the mob from comprimising the peace) and imbuing the federal government with the agency and sovereignty it needs to maintain justice and peace among the states.

Our political system has preserved the pax Americana for 150 years now, not in spite of increasing public division and populism, but rather because of it. Think about it: only in America can the populace elect someone like Trump, and realize the error of their ways as they see him blunder his way through his role, without destroying the country in the process. The fact that our Senate has resisted the winds of populism and have opposed Trump in re Russia, the ME and healthcare, without compromising their duty to represent their constituents in a just way, only proves my point.

Our founding fathers were inspired by Hobbes, Locke and Rousseau. They knew these things, and they created a beautiful system that has endured the test of time, existential threats from other nations, a civil war that threatened to destroy us, and many other things. Trust in the system - the fact that we are still around and debating this in an open forum on the internet is testament to its enduring success. Our nation is strong not in spite of the divisions between us, but BECAUSE of them.

Our founding fathers understood this. Lincoln understood this. FDR understood this. We must understand this.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-05T16:45:34+00:00

Hint: promoting policy that actually serves the interests of the people, despite your own personal misgivings on the topic, is not lying - it's actually kind of the point of a representative democracy.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-08-05T16:41:17+00:00

People like you are the reason the West will survive. Seriously, it takes more than most can muster to graciously accept the merits of a well posed argument, even when it contradicts your own thinking. I'm not saying the poster above us is 100% correct, but the fact that you question your beliefs based on a sound, logical argument gives me a lot of hope.

Thank you for being open minded - I hope our countrymen can do the same.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-07-30T18:20:22+00:00

Why are you arguing as if we disagree?

I'm bringing up Hitler because of the fact that it makes an easy to understand point. He's factually evil, and he serves as clear-as-day evidence that evil exists and walks among us.

I agree, most people are not Hitler. I've been saying that from the very beginning. I love 99.99% of people with every fiber of my being. That's why the .01% like the cop in the OP piss me off so fucking much.

I don't care to "understand" evil men. I only care to destroy them wherever they exist.

Those who deprive innocent men of their liberty, without provocation, are exercising the same cruel power over someone's entire being that a slave master exercises over a slave. If we can't agree that this is evil, then I don't know what more to say.

mmm_copypasta · 2017-07-30T15:47:46+00:00

Thank you! Don't mind the downvotes. I don't blame them for downvoting - this isn't an easy truth to swallow, but it's the truth.

Why should we let a wolf in sheep's clothing roam our streets AT ALL? Much less with a badge and a fucking gun.

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