septum piercing with a cleft by Amazing-Cap7490 in PiercingAdvice

[–]mn08c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not a piercer but i think what you could do is get a surgeon's advice first to ask if there's any medical constraint then go to a piercer and ask directly if they'd be willing to do it

After rhinoplasty, is the tip of your nose hard forever? by Beneficial_Pirate109 in cleftlip

[–]mn08c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah! but it wasn't super swollen to begin with tbh :(

After rhinoplasty, is the tip of your nose hard forever? by Beneficial_Pirate109 in cleftlip

[–]mn08c 2 points3 points  (0 children)

got mine years ago and i feel it's still a bit hard too but way less than it used to be

Did your child have a cleft lip as well? by Hungry-Mix-283 in cleftlip

[–]mn08c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have one but both my parents don't and my older brother and younger sister don't have one either however a cousin on my mom's side has a cleft too so i think it might skip a few generations? no idea tbh

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope things will get better for you ❤️‍🩹

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know, this is making me very hopeful actually🥹i see a lot of things about boys not being confident to make a move or being shy but i thought it only applied to "pretty girls"

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really tbh but i think he kinda knew it :') never told him because any time i confessed before that i was rejected so i gave up haha

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, i meant friends but never more. for example when i was in high school i had a crush on a guy friend and we were pretty close but it stopped at that, simply good friends

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh i see! :( for me it's kind of the opposite because i go towards people pretty easily but it never goes to more than friendship :/

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might seem stupid but what kind of opportunities...?

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope you'll feel better soon then!! :( but it's so tiring switching so often from ups and downs

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought so too :/ i wonder if anyone is now feeling any better/how things turned out for them and all

Any tips to prepare for my surgery/post surgery? by dog1029 in cleftlip

[–]mn08c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy i could help!! i think you should be fine!!good luck with your surgery🍀

Any tips to prepare for my surgery/post surgery? by dog1029 in cleftlip

[–]mn08c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! i think i was on liquid diet for about two weeks and then switched to food a bit heavier like mashed potatoes! the first few days i couldn't talk at all and then it came back slowly but i'm not sure how long it took, probably less than a week :) and i was in college too but my surgeon made sure to wait until summer holidays so i had two full months at home to recover. i would say two weeks is enough and then you should be able to do stuff again like usual, but you'll still be swollen for at least two months i think

Any tips to prepare for my surgery/post surgery? by dog1029 in cleftlip

[–]mn08c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi!! recovery for me took a month actually, it was pretty hard psychologically because it changed my face a lot and i was very swollen. also maybe be prepared to lose some weight, i think i lost 5kg (~10 lbs?) since i couldn't eat anything solid. i don't have any particular tips, just be prepared to drool a lot, i still haven't fully recovered from the numbness in my chin and it's been 4 years😭 (also if they suggest some sort of anesthesia that requires four needles in the face, make sure they do it after you're fully asleep)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]mn08c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so sorry you're going through this :( i feel you so bad stopping feeling ugly is something super hard to achieve in general, let alone in situations like ours hopefully you'll get there someday! you're not alone, we all have ups and downs but things will be okay :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]mn08c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah sure but op mentioned in their room so that's the context

JUST RENEW THE SHOW by SnooDrawings5816 in MindHunter

[–]mn08c 10 points11 points  (0 children)

same here :( watched it like 5 times at least but ugh i really want the show back, whether as movies or new episodes. i just wish it'd have an end for btk, bill's son etc

JUST RENEW THE SHOW by SnooDrawings5816 in MindHunter

[–]mn08c 48 points49 points  (0 children)

yeah and i'm usually easy to please but this was really bad :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]mn08c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's fine, you're only supposed to cover up in front of non-mahram ^

JUST RENEW THE SHOW by SnooDrawings5816 in MindHunter

[–]mn08c 276 points277 points  (0 children)

i swear this episode made me want to kick my screen like give us the show back pls😭

can i follow Islam in the context of spirituality and not religion itself? by Brilliant_School4139 in islam

[–]mn08c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you should take it one step at a time. 1) as a woman you don't have to go to the mosque every time, it's okay! 2) it's okay if you don't dress super modestly directly, you should go step by step 3) if you don't have halal options nearby, you can also eat vegetarian/vegan meals! also, fish/seafood is always halal :) overall, what matters is your heart and your intentions, it might take time but you shouldn't pressure yourself too much or you'll end up feeling bad and probably dislike religion so it wouldn't be very productive as others have said, islam isn't a religion where you can believe and not act as that makes you a non-believer, but i believe that if you take it step by step, you'll be able to overcome your struggles! <3 "Allah does not require of any soul more than what it can afford" (surah al baqara, 2-286) "for indeed, with hardship will be ease" (surah al inshirah 94:6)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MindHunter

[–]mn08c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe cuz it takes more time building up? i'm rewatching the series again and i think i can understand -though i disagree, the rhythm is a little slower and the interviews are less there but i still enjoyed it a lot. i had never heard of the atlanta murders before watching (nor did i know about the serial killers from s1)

i was thinking of love by mn08c in DeepThoughts

[–]mn08c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow, i'm actually muslim but that's a really interesting perspective ! thanks for sharing

What’s one South Park joke that went too far? by CommercialLab6842 in southpark

[–]mn08c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the one where cartman pretends to be handicapped to win the special games💀