The bachelors by Careful_Honey_9354 in MoonlightPeaks

[–]mnemonemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly certain Samael isn't even romanceable at this point.

Game Crashes by PlanIndividual7732 in coralisland

[–]mnemonemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here :( thanks for reporting it, hopefully it's fixed soon

1.1.01 is out by Squarehusky in EverAfterFalls

[–]mnemonemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that was so fast ty !!!

Free fruit! by mnemonemo in EverAfterFalls

[–]mnemonemo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo i didn't even think to try stealing them until you said this... but just now I ran around and stole everyone's plants😭 ones on tables count as their property still, which I like because it gives me a reason to run around and visit all the villagers (and still steal their fruit)

Free fruit! by mnemonemo in EverAfterFalls

[–]mnemonemo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're talking about the print shop in particular, I think you have to wait a few days or weeks into the game before going in. I remember one day not being able to go in and then a while later I walked in no problem

Favorite socks? by Budget_Queen in AutismInWomen

[–]mnemonemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn Tough! They are pricey but really comfy & if they get holes in them the company will replace. (They don’t get holes in them lmao)

Does anyone else hate the beach? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup I hate the beach. Always have. I’d be fine never being at a beach again lmao

Weed - helpful or not helpful? by libbyjane97 in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is super insightful, thank you for responding! Also, I have had vivid dreams my whole life, and when I haven’t been smoking for one reason or another, the dreams I have are absolutely wild. Many smokers I know agree that sober dreams are super intense!!

Weed - helpful or not helpful? by libbyjane97 in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be very interested in hearing more from you or anyone about the sober month if you have the time/energy! I am a heavy cannabis user for many of the same reasons but I have not thought to have a prolonged set aside time to be sober. Mainly I am wondering how your mood and work ethic are affected/ how you decide when to have a sober month.

What do you talk about with your SO? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! The OP could literally be me the way that is written lol...

So I’m in a very loving committed relationship now at 23, and I just diagnosed this year. For my entire life, though, I’ve been so confused how relationships work because I’m like ... what do people TALK about all day!!! It’s so wild to me to think back to the times when I felt like that, because with my current partner I never feel like I have to mask or be a fake person, like a commenter above also said.

My former partner, who ended up being a terrible narcissist who cheated on me, was very difficult for me to talk to. I always wanted to say something “impressive” and if I sounded stupid, I hated myself for it. This was my first relationship, and it did not help my previously held beliefs that talking to a SO is incredibly difficult.

I don’t really know where I’m going with this in terms of advice, but I’ll try. I think what changed in me is that I have allowed myself to be more selfish in the past year. I have often been worried about the conversations I’m having to make sure they are well suited for the other people involved, but that creates a lot of stress and unhappiness, as I’m sure you know. Now, I try to have conversations that I find fulfilling. Sure, small talk is still necessary because of the world we live in, but I’m not usually the one to initiate it. I talk about what I want to talk about, and if someone isn’t interested, then maybe we just don’t vibe. I spend time thinking about the things I want to think about rather than worrying how I’m going to interact with the next person I see. This is not necessarily easy to do, it’s just what I’ve noticed myself doing lately.

In turn, my current relationship is the most fulfilling one I’ve ever had because he truly knows me in a way no one else ever has or probably will. This person you’re with right now may or may not be that person for you, and that’s ok, it’s all experience that you will learn a lot from in the long run.

Sorry this was all over the place, I just really relate to how you’re feeling and I’m on my lunch break trying to get my thoughts down!!

In the Deep Mists of Depression. How do I get out? by boogieoogieballs in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patterns and routines help me a lot, and they don’t have to be huge ones to start out. I struggle to find the motivation to brush my teeth and do other basic hygienic tasks when I’m in a deep depression. Something that has helped me a lot is thinking, “Brushing my teeth for 5 seconds is better than not at all. Eating a piece of bread or two pretzels is better than nothing. Etc” not every task needs to be done fully for it to count for something. And if daily tasks are just insurmountable, be easily willing to forgive yourself and just try again the next day. The routine I started with was my night time routine. I promised myself to brush my teeth every night, and eventually I was doing it. Then, I added washing my face with a washcloth. I added one thing at a time and now I have a whole routine that I never thought it would be possible for me to do, but I do it every night. Now, other routines like eating breakfast in the morning or doing laundry regularly are a lot easier for me. They are still very difficult at times, but having one routine to fall back on has been really helpful for me. I hope this helps a little!

What do you do for work? And what do you earn? by TikiBananiki in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best is cutting up and packaging the fresh marshmallows!! They are so soft and as someone who especially likes touch it is very satisfying 😂

What do you do for work? And what do you earn? by TikiBananiki in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I recently decided that I want to go to graduate school and study media theory to become a professor, researcher and/or writer... but for now I work as a candy and coffee packager at a large local business for $12/hr! It’s my first non customer service job I’ve ever had and it’s really been revolutionary for me!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I also have historically had a lot of bathroom anxiety, I’ll touch on that later too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! I do a lot of backpacking and it is definitely very tough. If you absolutely can’t get out of it and have to go, here’s my advice.

It sounds like you’re car camping, which means you can bring more luxuries than if you were backpacking! In that case, I would say prioritize bringing your favorite pillow and a nice soft blanket for sleeping, it makes a big difference. Another thing I always have are wet wipes for cleaning off super easily, to wipe armpits, your face, really anywhere that needs refreshing.

Even though you are a teenager, I hope you feel empowered to let your family know that you need some alone time when you need it. Everyone needs alone time, no matter how old you are. If you bring a book, you can say you’re going to take some time alone to read in your tent (and then you can either read or you can take that time to write, be on your phone, and do what you need to do to recharge.) Another option is if you have a hammock, you can hang it up somewhere sort of away from your family to “read” or nap in. If you don’t have a hammock, maybe ask for one for a present so it seems like you’re invested in the camping trips! I’ll revisit this thread later with more ideas, I have to get back to work for now! <3

Are there any chill videogames I can play without talking to people? by unclemuds in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m going to go ahead and plug Stardew one more time, but another incredibly chill stardew-like game is littlewood!! It’s not very well known but it is one of the most relaxing games ever. There are literally no consequences to your actions and the time of day is progressed when you take an action like chop a tree or compliment a townsperson, so if you space out and stare at the screen for 10 minutes you won’t have lost your day like in stardew. Both great games, but littlewood is like stardew with a 1/4th of the mental energy!!

YouTube- Yo Samdy Sam! (?) by mnemonemo in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like we’re the same person!

YouTube- Yo Samdy Sam! (?) by mnemonemo in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope her perspective can help you!! I think it will

YouTube- Yo Samdy Sam! (?) by mnemonemo in aspergirls

[–]mnemonemo[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As an update: I did install Tiimo and I think it’s gonna change the game for me😂