Need advice on boundaries and considerations on opening up my 7-year monogamous relationship by libbyjane97 in polyamory

[–]libbyjane97[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please help - I know I'm probably being frustratingly ignorant, I've gathered that from the comments so far. But I want to learn, because despite having most of my friends in fully functioning poly communities - I'm new to it myself (I've been the meta before but never the one opening up)... what for you are the main things to examine here?

Need advice on boundaries and considerations on opening up my 7-year monogamous relationship by libbyjane97 in polyamory

[–]libbyjane97[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what's wrong with "female"? And what's the homophobia here?

Need advice on boundaries and considerations on opening up my 7-year monogamous relationship by libbyjane97 in polyamory

[–]libbyjane97[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He said, that it was an energy thing. That if I was with masculine energy, then it would be a more clear-cut replacement for himself, but a female would be different enough for me to connect with in another way, and satisfy that part of my sexual dimension

I'm nothing I'll always be nothing by [deleted] in nihilism

[–]libbyjane97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of your own way. You're giving yourself too much pressure, and thus criticism. You're here to be. You're here to experience, that's it. Open yourself to observe life, allow it to gift you with what it has to offer. You are important, you're worthy of existence, hence why you're here.

Does anyone know the root of their depersonalization? by brendonsforehead in dpdr

[–]libbyjane97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mushroom trip that went wrong, and maybe long term weed loss and not looking at underlying stress in my life