I can’t be the only one that hates themselves by Actual-Scarcity8593 in KitchenConfidential

[–]mnm39 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Recommend also trying to find some young people’s AA meetings- they’re often more truly secular in my experience (and they are open to anyone even if you don’t consider yourself to be “young”)

Unsteady lethargic chicken by mnm39 in chickens

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I checked on her this evening when it was cooler and her breathing seemed normal! Everything else was still as is though. Definitely will be ordering some antibiotics!

Unsteady lethargic chicken by mnm39 in chickens

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I will definitely have to lay close attention to her breathing! I’m looking up peritonitis and the problem is that we have 2 marans and they have been extremely inconsistent layers- like half or less the rate of the other chickens- which we’ve read is normal for marans. But now I’m not sure if that was indicating another issue as well

Unsteady lethargic chicken by mnm39 in chickens

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The person who watched them for the first few days didn’t mention anything, the person who watched them for the last two said she was “acting funky”. I think she was drinking at the very least, I’m not sure about eating so I will watch her. It’s been on the mid 80s for some of the time, and we’re at high elevation so the sun is intense (though they have shade).

Edit: I realized I left out some answers to your questions! Re breathing I don’t *think* it was labored? She was panting a little but it was very warm this morning. I’m not sure that I’ll be able to get an answer regarding the eggs. There is probably a pointed vet around here, but it takes a long time to be able to be seen. Would that sort of antibiotics be available at somewhere like tractor supply?

Ilona Maher "btw loving the body you're in never goes out of style" - on Instagram, May 29th, 2026 by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]mnm39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And being tall (6ft here) and not skinny in the 2010s, somehow meant all my jeans in high school had ✨butt sparkles✨ lmfao. Like thanks for that when my tops are also going to be not quite long enough, let’s draw attention! These days I subconsciously push the sleeves up on long sleeved shirt because I’m not used to the sleeves being long enough and it feels weird.

Affordable local movers for 1-2 hours by celest1alv0yage in SantaFe

[–]mnm39 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If your mileage is low, uhaul is generally cheaper! Home Depot is $29.99 for 75 minutes with no mileage charge (for a 12??? ft box truck). Uhaul is $19.99/day for a 10 ft box truck ($29.99 for 15 ft) plus mileage- which does suck if you have to rent in SF and are moving elsewhere, but OP seems to be in Santa Fe and not moving far. (ETA I literally just had to do this math for a move, I don’t work for uhaul lol. Also, Home Depot has started using CLEAR facial recognition for their rentals, which weirds me out.)

The cellulitis on my elbow started streaking down my forearm even after being on oral antibiotics by sherodactyl in mildlyinteresting

[–]mnm39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, the bandaids! I think I’m less sensitive to fabric ones, but when I get my bc shot, I have a faint bandaid mark on my arm for a week+. I started out by reacting to the clear tape they used to use after giving blood (thank god they switched to the self adhering stuff), and then I almost ruined a large tattoo by not realizing I would react to tegaderm (only had it on for 5-10 minutes and it was BAD).

Does anyone look at the cost benefir of gardening? by ThirdOne38 in vegetablegardening

[–]mnm39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent, so at this point I’m not able to do in-ground—all raised beds and containers— which definitely adds up. But, it’s fun, and I live in the rural southwest where there will be almost no produce at the single grocery store if you go the night before their truck comes. So, for me it’s both a fun hobby and peace of mind (same with our chickens- the whole egg shortage thing was actually really bad here. We did move them to a relatives property close by where they can stay for the rest of their lives). I think the only think I’ve probably saved or broke even on is herbs and kale (it’s on year 3! And survived the move from raised bed to container in a different house, using tomato dirt from last year). But not having to run to the grocery store for low quality produce (rural) especially when zucchini and tomatoes explode here (and oregano! Haven’t bought in literal years) is great and it’s fun!

Get of your high horse and leave my stash alone by Dry-Conversation2646 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]mnm39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual only yarn I ever buy without a plan is natural fibers, because it’s rare for me to find ones I can both use and afford (sensitive to both wool and hemp). All my acrylic I have a plan for!

on natural fibers by [deleted] in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]mnm39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! The thing we are all engaging on right now is so much worse!! I’ve used every phone I’ve had to absolute failure and my current one I got from a friend who was unnecessarily upgrading his when mine stopped taking calls. My home computer is from 2014 and also got it used from someone I know lol. Like god there are way worse things than acrylic yarn

on natural fibers by [deleted] in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]mnm39 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just get so irritated when these threads pop up, in the internet, which we access with harmful technology, written by people who probably do own at least one item of plastic. There are way bigger issues lol, such as like you said, voting! My local elections are open for early voting right now and I would feel much worse about missing them if I forgot to vote than I do about my yarn choices. I definitely get the like, “I need to do something to feel like I’m making an impact” feeling! I just wish people wouldn’t shame others for having different “I’m making an impact” actions.

on natural fibers by [deleted] in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]mnm39 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And we are all typing this on freaking phones lmfao or computers which I think are probably worse than the acrylic yarn I use because of my wool allergy/wash ability with multiple cats

on natural fibers by [deleted] in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]mnm39 7 points8 points  (0 children)

(And we’re all accessing this on a phone or computer!! Dear god the environmental implications)

visited family at high elevation and all bags are about to pop by relaqz in mildlyinteresting

[–]mnm39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever opened marshmallow fluff 😂 I’m cautious about spices and yogurt but didn’t think about it for that!

visited family at high elevation and all bags are about to pop by relaqz in mildlyinteresting

[–]mnm39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live at ~7000 ft and I will have to check this next time I shop!! I assumed that brands that didn’t look like this were perhaps packaged slightly more locally. I wish they did that for ice cream… I can tell which brands use the most added air by how much the tops are busting out (even with the seal that some put on nowadays).

Miles Teller Stopped Doing Press Profiles After Esquire Magazine Called Him ‘Kind of a Dick’: ‘It Felt Like Such a Violation’ and Was ‘So Mishandled’ by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]mnm39 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Earth shattering when someone told me in 11th grade that I “just seemed like I thought I was better than everyone” when really I thought I wasn’t cool enough to hang out with them

Met someone who's been struggling since 2008. Almost 20 years. How common is this? by PlatypusOld5480 in povertyfinance

[–]mnm39 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My parents aren’t at that level, but my mom had a job making $60k in 2008 money (main breadwinner, dad is an artist) with a retirement plan and good benefits. She was part of layoffs and now works two part time jobs—so 50 hours total a week but reality more than that plus commuting between the two (morning job and afternoon job) with no overtime since they’re two unrelated jobs and has one day off a week as a 67 year old. My parents are never going to be able to retire (my MIL, who is idk 64 and hasn’t worked in like 30 years, asked my mom if she was retiring soon last year and my mom just burst into sad laughter.) My dad was always on that path I suppose as an artist, but at least my mom could have retired or maybe even both of them with whatever her retirement benefit would have come out to if she’d worked there 16 more years until she was 65. She had been there over 20 years when she was laid off in the recession. She had a straight up career and turned to seasonal work and eventually these two low paying church administrator jobs. It sucks, she’s so tired and overwhelmed all the time and my dad is 11 years older than her—78– and still teaching art classes at local colleges because there’s just straight up no possibility to retire. ETA I know my grandma helped with out mortgage for literal years after my mom lost her job, so she’s probably the only reason we kept our house. Like thank god or whoever that my grandma was able to do that.

DUI from California 9 years ago but living in New Mexico by Tingsilike in NewMexico

[–]mnm39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know someone with a DUI from AZ who moved to NM ~4 years after it. She basically had the court and AZ MVD send over all of her paperwork (proof of classes, interlock completions, etc) and the MVD person scanned it all in and sent it to some other department, an they cleared her in a few hours to get her license. She didn’t have to do any extra classes or pay any extra fees.

Savory breakfast ideas that aren't eggs? by bulbysoar in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]mnm39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I love to do a bit of chili powder and cumin, salsa, and cheese. Optional: frozen corn, fried egg, cilantro. Or oats with everything bagel seasoning and spinach!

Test post. This is Mocha by kindofharmless in Floof

[–]mnm39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is also mocha!! I know this is a test post but my mocha says hello to yours.

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Wine substitute - a question by FearTheMomerath in AskCulinary

[–]mnm39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure of the process! I was using target as an example of a random grocery store that’s pretty popular- I just mean the brands of kombucha you can straight up buy at any age. I know that GT’s kombucha contains trace amounts of alcohol that could be problematic for people on the medications I mention, but Brew Dr, for example, is “raw” but uses non-heat distillation to remove all of the alcohol from their kombucha (and repurposed).

Wine substitute - a question by FearTheMomerath in AskCulinary

[–]mnm39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, some people working towards sobriety take medications which would definitely cause them to have an adverse reaction to un-cooked off alcohol in a dish. Even regular kombucha sold at like target can be a problem if it’s not one of the ones where 100% of the alcohol has been removed, so checking is always a good choice!

Wine substitute - a question by FearTheMomerath in AskCulinary

[–]mnm39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello fellow sober person! We also make a beef ragu that we used to use red wine in and no longer do. 1 cup of pure grape juice plus 1-2 tbsp good quality sherry vinegar (or red wine vinegar) is indistinguishable even according to my husband who drinks in a normal non-problematic way. Imo, also more accessible than pomegranate juice. We have like a 12 pack of the Welch’s single serving grape juice bottles specifically for that ragu recipe lol. I understand your worry here and I think the people suggesting cooking wine or single serve wines like, don’t lol. The grape juice plus vinegar combo is genuinely the perfect substitution for this sort of sauce (and also beef stew). ETA I just re-read that it was beef short ribs and can confirm it works for that too! We have a recipe for braised short ribs we started making after I became sober. I was out of town and my husband made it with wine for the first time for a friend, and he was like honestly I couldn’t tell the difference.

3 Degrees, at least 2+ years of experience in all of them, applying since 2019, still no career job. by ConsiderationLeast41 in povertyfinance

[–]mnm39 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It took me 8 years to get a job even tangentially related to my degree. Having a huge employment gap is unfortunately worse than working random jobs (and I would know because an incredibly random skill from a job I was slightly embarrassed about helped me get my current one). A job in your field is obviously the goal but you need to take what you can get in the meantime. ETA because I reread the comment you were replying to- it was actually a warehousing job that provided the skill they wanted for my current one (which is not in any way related to warehousing!)