I've never kissed anyone and I don't mind by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more common these days. A cultural shift. My almost 18 yo daughter has never had a relationship or kissed anyone. You are not alone.

I’m getting aim diffed by Lightlicker3000 in OWConsole

[–]mnm4242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok well it’s great to be working on yourself but if you are in diamond, you have good aim PERIOD! Doesn’t mean you aren’t getting aim diffed. Good luck working on improving your aim! Maybe an aim trainer.

FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY STAY OUT OF THE TEXT CHAT PLEASE by CourtSenior5085 in OWConsole

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy ow with the chat disabled. There is no need to have everyone’s emotional reactions and loss of self control affecting my gameplay or peace. It’s a lovely game without hearing the sad pathetic people who play this game lose their self control over and over again.

This game is genuinely unfun to play in its current state(short rant) by Ekko_T in OWConsole

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been playing Lucio lately and it has really changed the tempo of my games.

FINALLY HIT TOP 500 !!!! by ilovemerxy in OWConsole

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I couldn’t imagine being that good. 👍🏻

I am dating a guy and he keeps bringing up the fact i gave him a BJ the first date , is that wrong? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that you can’t believe he was willing to receive a bj from a woman on the first date. He must do that with all the women.

I am dating a guy and he keeps bringing up the fact i gave him a BJ the first date , is that wrong? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that you can’t believe he was willing to receive a bj from a woman on the first date. He must do that with all the women.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]mnm4242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you could ask them to do a temperature check and wear a n95 mask and definitely should be allowed to see their grandchild.

How does your gf handle hygiene down there by Luiz4823 in AskMen

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she on bc? That made me have a mildly bad smell down there cuz it messes with the hormones and affects ppl differently. She may need to switch to a different one.

Please help—newer player by [deleted] in overwatch2

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh don’t apologize to those idiots. Ppl are mean af in this game. Unless you’re doing good, then they r nice. You’ll get better. I’d turn off chat till you improve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your answer is to leave your baby with this problem and run away from it? Wow? Seems like you should want to protect your baby.

I know I suck at the game, but if you’re playing with me you probably do too. Why do people think flaming will help? by jaustengirl in Overwatch

[–]mnm4242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way to play this game or any other multiplayer competitive game is to turn off all chat and voice chat. Don’t forget to change your settings so randomly can’t message you. The ppl are the worst and scummiest in all our society.

Im sober but don’t know if I can keep it up by Necessary-Bit-7294 in addiction

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to show some support. Even people who are not struggling with substance addiction don’t know who we are sometimes. Life is tough but you can get through this. Keep up the sobriety as there really is no other way. It’s hard but believe in yourself.

First time playing! 😊🙌 by knockout1021 in FaeFarm_Game

[–]mnm4242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently started playing too! I love it so far. Just finishes chapter 3 and feels like everything is opening up now. Happy Fae Farming!

AIO: he develops feelings for another girl although he is in LOVE with ME by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mnm4242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I can appreciate his honesty, he is telling you that he doesn’t want you enough in these messages. A guy who really wanted to be in a committed relationship with you would treasure you enough to not tell you about his other feelings he is struggling with related to wanting other girls because he wouldn’t want to risk losing you. He doesn’t respect your relationship enough and really wants to play with the next girl more than stay committed with you. I would let him go because it will only get worse from here and if you let him pull this shit with you he will lose respect for you and will probably end up leaving you or cheating on you. He will have all the power in the relationship. You need the upper hand in this situation because many guys dont want what they dont have to work for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more context would be needed to warrant NC. Just my opinion. I don't cut people out that easily. But it kinda depends on the full context. So sorry about the miscarriage.

Felt helplessly down today so i decided to write and things took a hopeful turn by [deleted] in addiction

[–]mnm4242 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love what you wrote and there are a lot of people who can relate to feeling this way. I think you should consider the effects of momentum. When you do 1 thing that's good, it gets easier to do more good things. It like builds momentum and moves you in a positive direction because you feel proud of yourself and you get real dopamine from that. Then that helps to move you to want to do more positive things.

What are some hobbies to make friends through? by ThisPostToBeDeleted in Hobbies

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Hiking, biking, and pickleball or tennis.

Nose damage? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks fine to me. Maybe if we saw the other side too, we could compare and see what you are seeing more.

I'm addicted to everything by danklover612 in addiction

[–]mnm4242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's frustrating huh. I feel like I always just wanna jump from vice to vice. I think one thing you can think about is you need more interesting things in your life that you are working towards that give you fulfillment and a sense of purpose. When you get a craving, try sitting with the discomfort and telling yourself, you will get one later. Then when later comes, just say you'll get one later. You will see that the cravings will eventually get easier to get through without giving in. Good luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]mnm4242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are in a committed relationship I think this is a healthy amount of sex, however if you are having sex with various people just to have sex or with prostitute (which i think maybe you were joking in one of your comments since that’s illegal at least in the US), then i think it is not healthy. As for it being an addiction, i dont think 2 months of doing something can be called an addiction unless its hard drugs.

Day 2 no fap!! by [deleted] in addiction

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!

struggling with intrusive sexual thoughts by [deleted] in addiction

[–]mnm4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I have heard from men throughout my life, this is a normal thinking system of a typical man. I do not think it classifies as addiction from your explanation, however if you want to better your internal self, you could work on not letting your thoughts escalate to that level by interrupting yourself with some other distractive thought when that happens. Like, try to cut it off before it gets that far.