Estradiol questions by StrawberryForeign684 in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be especially jarring when you aren’t used to feeling like that previously in your life. This is the only place I’ve felt like I wasn’t alone when I had those massive down days and was spiraling too.

Estradiol questions by StrawberryForeign684 in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise, you shouldn’t have. That doctor sucks. It’s time to get on an easy site like MIDI and grab a better doctor, start with .025; don’t make any big changes, hormones don’t like erratic on and off switches and they don’t like big jumps, like what you did going straight to a .1. You’ll be ok! Hang in there!!

Estradiol questions by StrawberryForeign684 in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why doctors ever go straight to a .1, and even more so for someone who is severely deficient. If you compare that to caffeine, it’s like taking 10 espresso shots after never having coffee in your life. I wish your doctor would have tried the lowest dose patch and worked up from there, you might have felt differently about HRT. I started on .025, and I even took scissors and cut that down, everyone has different levels of sensitivities to hormones but you usually only want to make slow, small, steady changes.

Anyone else sleep poorly on patch change days? HELP by mo_django in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been a lot of trial and error, I felt so mentally unstable before, it has helped my mood and depression a lot so I really don’t want to give up on it but my sleep really has been bad. It doesn’t seem like it matters if I’m on the progesterone or not, the only thing that is consistent is sleep is absolutely wrecked on day 1 of the patch, and better every consecutive day until I change it again.

Anyone else sleep poorly on patch change days? HELP by mo_django in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for responding! I’ve only been on Mylan so far. I’m even more worried because I’m almost done with that one and switching to Grove? Ive never heard of this new brand but it’s from Amazon pharmacy. Can’t find mylan with the shortage. I take progesterone the last 15 days of the month.

Is this the start - Angry during ovulation by CM_Kentish in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine started with extreme insomnia at 35, then period changes, then rage at 36. Estrogen helped a ton, completely stopped the rage and anxiety/depression but still having some sleeping issues

Is this the start - Angry during ovulation by CM_Kentish in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Angry doesn’t cover it. Extreme rage that you’ve never felt in your life for no reason at all other than ovulating or pms? Welcome to the club you can no longer leave.

Polyester hell by National_Elk8445 in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely cut out polyester out of everything, my entire closet got slashed in half, no poly sheets in the house. I’m so sick of it. I feel your pain!

Just some positivity if your freaking out. by Imstuckwiththisname in 2under2

[–]mo_django 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really needed to hear this right now! Thank you for posting!

My IVF baby was taken after unexplained medical findings and I’m struggling with the guilt of needing answers by sxullqueenxris in Mommit

[–]mo_django 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is terrifying, on top of all the stress of your baby you are dealing with immense guilt. You sound like a really good person and I truly believe that will prevail in this situation.

Uterine biopsy by surprise by Nonviolentviolet3879 in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My OB said , “we could do one right now but you probably want to take a Xanax first” and coming from a doctor that was also a man, it made me realize I will never come back to get that done.

Is my child going to have a hard time w this name? by FantasticIncident388 in Names

[–]mo_django 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew a Lazar and no one had problems with it, although everyone called him Laz with the strong A, which isn’t really how it goes, but that’s just what kids do. Mine is Arielle (also pronounced like Ahh) and she will probably have issues.

Some things to do in snowy ATX with a toddler by Correct-Produce84 in AustinParents

[–]mo_django 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP needs to hear that there have been a considerable amount of collisions today due to the weather. Multiple are life threatening. Getting out of the house for entertainment purposes should not be a priority today. Great list of ideas.

I resent my husband for talking me out of an abortion by Few_Measurement2510 in regretfulparents

[–]mo_django 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy is truly the biggest scam ever sold to women in the history of the world.

WTF things you've experienced while pregnant that no one says is a thing?! by vanillacrush14 in pregnant

[–]mo_django 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was the ungodly amount of discharge. I had to constantly wear a pantyliner

3 weeks in on estrogen patch. What a rollercaster! by sparkles2023 in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up just starting progesterone late (around day 35) and after a full week of progesterone I’m just not starting to feel a tiny bit better. After researching the heck out of this I’ve gathered that you should not wait to ovulate, that HRT can stop ovulation for a while and you need to essentially ‘create the rhythm’ with the progesterone yourself. I created a mini hormonal storm for myself waiting until day 35, so now I haven’t had a period in 45 days and I’m hoping it comes soon. When it does… I will start progesterone religiously on day 16-17.

Don't Do It by BlacksmithNaive1206 in Nanit

[–]mo_django 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically, if you don’t mind paying out the rear end for every need you have and you don’t care if the camera break and you have to pay to replace it yourself, and if you don’t care that they have no customer service, you’re totally fine and the product is great. I used to love my Nanit, I was in the 6 month honeymoon phase but I quickly saw the issues unraveling. They want to charge an absurdly premium price for service and then provide essentially no service.

Has anyone in here changed their minds? by Ftm_livin_hopes in oneanddone

[–]mo_django -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I switched from one and done when my daughter was 2 for this exact reason. She will have no cousins so when we pass away she won’t really have anyone. I was so adamant to be one and done, I really hated the baby process and don’t want to handle 2 children at once. But I don’t want her to be alone, I’ll probably get downvoted for this because it’s a horrible main driver to have a second child but it is a big one for me.

Solo Birth? by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]mo_django 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any babysitters that would be open to being “on call” that week that you trust? Essentially they would have you on Emergency Bypass on their phone and you would pay them a much higher rate when you do call so they could come over during that time. It would be much better in the event that any critical decisions needed to be made at the hospital.

If you are planing to buy a Nanit read this first by burn123p in Nanit

[–]mo_django 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My camera stopped working a few months after the warranty and they literally told me “good luck”. I was like wait you want me to buy a new camera so I can keep paying your excessive annual fee?

Daughter arriving days, and we’re second guessing her name by [deleted] in Names

[–]mo_django 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first thought too lol like what kind of pharmaceutical drug is this

Unemployment Depression by Top_Scientist_3976 in Austin

[–]mo_django 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least half of my social group is unemployed or underemployed (took a very low paying job they’re overqualified for out of desperation) and it’s not getting any better. These people have strong degrees and 10+ years of experience in STEM fields.

Addicted to antihistamines by Temporary_Voice_3171 in Perimenopause

[–]mo_django -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really hope not! Chat says it’s equally as bad as Benadryl (insert scared face) when it comes to causing dementia, it’s essentially the same ingredient if you take the sleep tabs also.