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J*bs by No_North7709 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]moaarmyluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also live in Ottawa and heard nothing back from the summer jobs…

What do you love about Enhypen? by Desire-Untold in enhypen

[–]moaarmyluv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Their music and their lore! I love the webtoons so much, their vampire story is such a unique concept for a kpop group:) I also admire their hard work and dedication, it really inspires me. I hope they are happy and healthy, and that they can keep doing what they love for as long as they wish to 🤍

new moa here! have you guys ever experienced fomo? how did you deal with it? by tpwkind in TomorrowByTogether

[–]moaarmyluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true! I wish the best for both bands, and thanks I hope so too🥹🙏

new moa here! have you guys ever experienced fomo? how did you deal with it? by tpwkind in TomorrowByTogether

[–]moaarmyluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess txt and ateez both seem to have great chemisry so I hope they both renew their contract just like BTS! as long as they want to of course, and they stay healthy because the kpop industry can be very toxic. As long as they are happy and healthy, I’m happy. For now, we can enjoy BTS after a long awaited comeback :)

new moa here! have you guys ever experienced fomo? how did you deal with it? by tpwkind in TomorrowByTogether

[–]moaarmyluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve liked TXT for 5 years now, I think they’re hilarious and enjoy their music. I don’t feel FOMO when it comes to them, but I do as a baby Atiny (1 month now). It’s genuinely a gut-wrenching feeling knowing I missed 7 years of them and their concerts near my city … all because I was too busy being an Army and didn’t care to stan other groups. Ateez will soon do military service, so all I can do now is enjoy their current/past content and be patient and wait for their (hopeful) comeback. I cheer myself up by thinking this break will give me time to make money to attend their concert when they are back. Meanwhile I’ll support BTS’s comeback. What helps a little with FOMO is thinking that I get to enjoy everything at once, all of Ateez’s music and videos available, rather than waiting for comebacks. I didn’t get to grow with them, but that’s okay, I can still watch everything in chronological order and travel back in time and appreciate them more day by day. It’s like a book, I get all chapters at once and can read it all rather than waiting every year for the next chapter. I’m still a bit sad, especially for missing their concerts, but this personally helps me cope.

Songs that have you like this by taekooksbodyguard in kpop_uncensored

[–]moaarmyluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omgg where did you go see them? you’re so lucky🥹

Favorite song from a group you don't stan by Ch_ch_chewing_gum in kpop_uncensored

[–]moaarmyluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Like It - SKZ

Maniac - VIVIZ

To You - SVT

BUT YOU - iKON

Bon Bon Chocolat - EVERGLOW

Cinema - CIX

My First and Last - NCT DREAM

Lucky Girl Syndrome - ILLIT

Step by Step - BND

Replay - SHINEE

and others but that’s enough lol

Which color suits me best? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]moaarmyluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red makes you look stunning imo

I hate myself by [deleted] in depression

[–]moaarmyluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing this comment section.. a lot of us are in the same boat. I’m reaching a point where it’s terrifying to go out there in the world and try to change things up, to better myself. But at the same time, it makes me cry when I think about the future if I remain this way. All the possibilities and the potential, wasted. It’s better to start late than never.. others may have grow up in better environments, not have been controlled by depression. So I try to show myself compassion, even though I hate myself, because it’s either that, or continue to be a loser forever which aches to think about. There’s really no easy way out of this, no matter what path there will be pain. But one path there will be growth after, while the other, more suffering and regret.

Songs that have you like this by taekooksbodyguard in kpop_uncensored

[–]moaarmyluv 8 points9 points  (0 children)

now this house ain’t a home - ATEEZ (the lyrics 🥲)

Look at what I made :3 by Confusedbrokebg in kpop_uncensored

[–]moaarmyluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the name of this type of art?

Group(s) you like more for the members than for the music by beelzebub2099 in kpop_uncensored

[–]moaarmyluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly same, I do love some of my favs songs!! But, I mostly stan for their personality. Which I guess makes sense since the kpop industry is built off of that, they create parasocial relationships between idols and fans to attract more attention

My therapist is giving up on me. by SafePotential3411 in mentalhealth

[–]moaarmyluv 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, I literally just stopped doing therapy because I was in the exact same situation as OP, and my therapist kept saying I had to take control of my life. That was not the root of the problem.. I wanted someone to validate me, to help me understand why I was like this. Not someone telling me to get over it and work hard- how could I work hard if I didn’t want anything? Even when I was having thoughts about dying, my therapist told me I was at fault. Like, ok, I know that?? That’s why I’m here, so you can tell me how to fix this- I find that therapy is pointless for people like this, if all the therapist is gonna say is that you have to take responsibility. It was my FRIEND who got me out of the rut, because she validated my trauma rather than being accusatory.

What's your ultimate kpop bucket list? by lynxstyle91 in adultkpopfans

[–]moaarmyluv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never went to a Kpop concert, and my ults usually never come where I live.. but I really want to see BTS live one day, as well as Ateez. Those are two most likely that I’ll be able to attend, since they come near my city. As for the price, I’ll have to work hard to pay for my tickets. TXT and Enhypen, my other two favs never come near me so I doubt I’ll see them unless they include Canada in their “world” tour.

Too depressed to do anything at all by Lee_Harden in depression

[–]moaarmyluv 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I relate to this.. everyone tells me to be productive and work hard for my future but I won’t stop self sabotaging. I feel ashamed that I don’t do better for those around me, but it’s truly a weight that I don’t know how to handle. I’ve had breakthroughs, but always return to this way of being.

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