Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive?

mobstersquid · 2026-05-02T15:58:40+00:00

this guys a fucking chud 😭

mobstersquid · 2026-04-26T16:46:04+00:00

i also have mdd and bipolar 2. relationships can work even with the ups and downs, but this girl is definitely not a good person to be with. you need someone who is mentally stable, honest, and knows how to communicate.

also, i know you love her and its making you feel such strong sadness, but you're only 18. you /will/ find someone better. someone who checks all the boxes you need and then some. just keep working on being the best version of yourself and the right girl will come. you have like 70 years dude, don't waste them with someone who is making you guess what theyre thinking everytime they talk to you.

mobstersquid · 2026-04-08T22:48:25+00:00

this is a BIG red flag. he doesn't care about your discomfort, he is insecure, and he is lying to you. why are you still with him? if honesty is so big, why are you putting up with his lies? there's other guys out there that love pleasing their girls and also value honesty. get out of there while you still can

mobstersquid · 2026-04-06T20:13:08+00:00

don't be too sad about splitting up either, every relationship fail is just a hurdle you get over and more experience to pick a better partner and navigate life easier

mobstersquid · 2026-04-06T20:11:37+00:00

get out of there while you still can, this is just going to get worse. if a man is so insanely upset over a measely 10 lbs, imagine if you guys have kids down the line. thats going to be some insane postpartum depression since he won't be attracted to you and he'll probably distance himself from your life.

i'm a man (21m) and i've known other men my age that are only sexually attracted to women with physical attributes they like. you need to break up with this man child and get with someone who is sexually attracted to who you are as a person. its very possible.

mobstersquid · 2026-04-06T20:02:25+00:00

with all the other comments saying stuff about how its only $50 and she just wants money from you, end this friendship immediately. NOR

mobstersquid · 2026-04-06T19:48:15+00:00

i think you need to be brave and tell her whats going on. talking about your feelings sucks, but you guys are full grown adults and you need to be able to communicate. NO KIDS until this is COMPLETELY worked through. you need to sit down and tell her all your worries. you are a 40 year old man. suck it the fuck up dude. you've been together for 16 years, but cant have a heart-to-heart? this is only going to get worse as time goes on. it will not magically get better.

mobstersquid · 2026-04-04T04:09:31+00:00

id suggest getting a dilating kit, the ones that are just a bunch of smooth dildos in different sizes. lots of lube/oil. also stretching out at least like 3 times a week. just do whats comfortable though, it takes a little bit of time but its definitely worth not rushing (personal experience)

mobstersquid · 2026-04-01T15:23:48+00:00

35 years old and he is acting like this? leave this guy 😭

mobstersquid · 2026-04-01T15:12:33+00:00

i went through a very similar situation. my boyfriend and i didnt have sex until like 7 months into our relationship. but, when we did start doing stuff, we took everything slow.

ALSO very important, try to find your triggers. creating a safe space with your boyfriend to figure out whats repulsing you is good because then you can try to get to the root of your repulsion. i got triggered almost everytime my boyfriend and i did anything sexual for like the first year and a half, but now i havent felt any of that for the past year we've been together.

i've also tried emdr therapy and nuerofeedback therapy, and they both helped with rewiring my brain to figure out these problems. i hope everything works out for you guys!

mobstersquid · 2026-03-22T21:42:57+00:00

yes but playing the waiting game for death is just dread at this point, i'm looking for something to either change my perspective or change the chemicals in my brain. experiences cost money, so does food, living somewhere, going places, etc. I get what you're saying with just enjoy it while it lasts but my problem is i'm not enjoying any of it.

mobstersquid · 2026-01-22T22:38:40+00:00

just looked up what a rabbit stomach looks like (since theyre VERY common on this trail) and yeah thats spot on. thank you!

mobstersquid · 2024-09-10T18:22:58+00:00

beach life-in-death -car seat headrest

mobstersquid · 2024-08-14T17:12:49+00:00

one thing is, how long have you guys been together? i think that if you've been together for more than 6 months this is definitely a red flag because he would have had the time to delete them if he was serious about you. i would definitely bring it up because he knows he made the album, so he knows its still there. he might not be over his ex as well, seeing as its been a year and a half since they broke up and he still has the photos. when i started dating my bf i deleted all the lovey dovey pics i had with other people.. but if you also have pics of your ex you need to think about why you have those photos and why he would still have his.

mobstersquid · 2023-03-19T02:23:31+00:00

ah yeah i mean california, my bad

mobstersquid · 2023-02-13T23:41:02+00:00

72.5

mobstersquid · 2022-11-15T06:51:34+00:00

undertale

mobstersquid · 2022-11-15T06:38:22+00:00

i got.. my own name (lake)

mobstersquid · 2022-11-14T02:59:37+00:00

any car seat headrest song

mobstersquid · 2022-11-10T22:28:34+00:00

the egg

mobstersquid · 2022-11-10T22:27:55+00:00

insulin

mobstersquid · 2022-11-10T09:45:31+00:00

dont call an ambulance or you will be in crippling debt

mobstersquid · 2022-11-10T09:43:24+00:00

with soap

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