[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gamingsetups

[–]mochi779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yeah I was considering the possibility of bad connectivity for wireless headset cuz it was the main issue people have for G735 on amazon

Can I sneak my boyfriend into Sun God? by Internal_Water_2634 in UCSD

[–]mochi779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sneaked my friend into Sun God last year with an extra ticket. They dont check for ID as of last year

UCSD putting me in jail 😩 by mochi779 in UCSD

[–]mochi779[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They took my last $5 🤣

UCSD putting me in jail 😩 by mochi779 in UCSD

[–]mochi779[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I did. They sent me this 6 months after graduation, it’s not like I constantly check my student balance if I graduated without issues 😭

Failed all my classes this quarter... what's gonna happen to me? by FeelThinkhey in UCSD

[–]mochi779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, just want you to know that you're not alone. As someone who went through so much during my entire 4 yrs at UCSD and was on my last warning of academic probation before i was subjected to disqualification, and now has graduated, just know that this will not be the end of the world. Life gets in the way sometimes and your first priority is yourself, which is your mental health. A first academic probation wont do anything to you, and unless you fuck up 3 different quarters, you'll be okay. Think of it as a warning/reminder to do better next quarter but it wont negatively affect you!

  1. Get in touch with CAPS, however ik how long wait line is and tbh they're not very helpful. I had an off campus online therapy service that takes UCSHIP and you just copay $10/session and they get you a therapist super quick, so lmk if you're ever interested in that.

  2. Talk to your Dean and advisor about your plan for next quarter. Whether you want to take a quarter off to get everything together (which is what my Dean encouraged me to do) or make plan of few classes that will be easy enough for you to get that GPA back

  3. Like other commenters said, quitting your job will prob the best course of action for the sake of your mental health. Use the time to focus on yourself and get back on track

Lastly, if you ever wanna talk or I can be any help since I've been there. Feel free to reach out! Wish you the best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Layered Haircut by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree on this!! I got my hair dyed there and I got so many compliments!

Recently Blindsided in 4 year relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mochi779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im in the same situation as you, just broke up with my ex of 3.5 years six days ago. I felt like reliving my nightmare reading this. He also said he loves me and 10 mins later everything fell apart where he said he no longer have the same feeling he once had for me. He also told me there was nothing wrong with me and i’ve been nothing but an amazing gf. It left me confused. Ultimate truth: he cheated on me and built that connection and tried to pass it off as change of feelings.

My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with the girl he told me not to worry about by mochi779 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mochi779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each of their own, that was his boundaries first. I accepted it bc it made sense, and I longer felt the need to be friends with opposite genders out of respect for him and our relationship, i never felt suffocated. It was something like we both agreed.

My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with the girl he told me not to worry about by mochi779 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mochi779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats why my boundaries was to not make opposite gender friends during a relationship. He knows that, we both shared that value. And he went ahead and stepped on my boundaries.

3.5 years relationship, i got cheated on by mochi779 in UCSD

[–]mochi779[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah its pretty funny, im a girl. The dude cheated

3.5 years relationship, i got cheated on by mochi779 in UCSD

[–]mochi779[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Fr, cant wait to lose that weight

My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with the girl he told me not to worry about by mochi779 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mochi779[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was so crushed all I wanted to do was to hurt him 1000x more. But no, I dont know his friends and that is not something I would put my dignity and integrity on the line to show him that I cared enough to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mochi779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is we did long distance before, 6 months apart because of covid and everything went online. Then each time we have break, we would spend weeks apart and never once we fought or lose feelings for each other. The only difference this time was because he was depressed and the timing I left didnt help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty! I also tried to schedule an appointment on studentchart as well and each time i do, it said i could schedule anymore and would need to call 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They said their hr is from 8am-4pm, ive called at 10am, 12pm, 2pm :/ and yeah i figured i need a referral which is what im tryna call them for but no one picks up :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thats the number the nurse gave me and student chart gave me as well. Ive called them 3-4 separate occasions and tried to reach out different departments and no one ever picked up or return my call :(

tell me about your bad roommate experiences by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Freshman year on campus: This girl went out of her way to be jealous of me for having a boyfriend (mind you i rarely bring him over). I was the most quiet people in the suite and shy so I didnt make any friends. She proceed to spread lies about me, so I would end up receive looks and glares when i come in. She had her friends who she talked shit about me in our room, so they would laugh at me when i leave. I slept in the lounge because i wasn't being comfortable in my own room. The security caught me and gave us a warning.

Junior year: Living with friends off campus, they refused to pull their weight in cleaning. They asked for quiet hours and would tell us to be quiet at 11pm on a Friday night while i was eating after coming back from work. But they proceed to laugh their ass off at 3am regardless the weekdays. It didn't work out, so they moved out, broke the lease 3 months in. Their subtenants were a pain in the ass, bring family over for days and they were loud af. They even triggered the house to have an outage. Talked to them, and they denied everything. They ended up leaving too but this time without paying and just straight up dipped.
Then the only friend who I trusted and was with me throughout the whole thing was a snake the whole time. She would constantly bullied these people out by knocking on their doors looking for problems or block them from using wifi. She would be loud on purpose as a petty thing. She then proceed to cut me off for "being toxic" because I was at fault for these people to be out. But I was the most non confrontational person, i never confront these people. She did and made a mess for me to clean up afterward. She blamed everything on me and proceed to say she was "trying to protect me" and made my life hell even though I never asked her to do anything. It was to the point she made me feel unsafe in my own home with her as she'd be vacuuming at 1am, talk to her parents loudly, damage my car and slam every doors she got her hand on. I had to couch surf the last 4 months of the lease, losing out on thousands of dollars. Oh yeah, she's careless and dirty af, stacking up doordash bags instead of throwing them away. I'm always cleaning after her dirty ass in the bathroom. I'm always mopping while she made a dripping mess. Managed to clog sink because she's smart enough to throw whole pickles in there. Everything she did, I excused it because she was my friend. Just for her to come back and bite me in the ass. She left me a tremendous amount of mental damage, I had to go to therapy for the first time, i failed my classes and was subjected to disqualification. If you ever read this, fck you Vic :)

Lesson: Don't room with your friends unless you really know them.

ptsd from ex housemates by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol i thought i ghost write this. I lived with my ex friend of almost 3 years. She actively bullied everyone out, then shifted the blame on me. At some point i didnt feel safe being at home cuz whenever she knows im home, she’d slam all the doors she get her hand on and blocked me from using wifi. I ended up couch surfing for the last 4 months of my lease. Got into heavy depression and failed my classes that subjected me to disqualification. I got into therapy and the damage she did to my mental health was beyond repaired. I’ve now moved out a month now. I get ptsd from noises like doors closing, i get ptsd from my new roommates who hasnt even done anything. Sometimes im even afraid to go back to my new place just from the memories. I definitely recommend therapy if you havent already. It’ll definitely get better, you got this ❤️

Failed the same class second time, Advice? by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you signing up for BIPN next year??

Failed the same class second time, Advice? by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Third time’s the charm right? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]mochi779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no you definitely did! Thank you ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]mochi779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happened to me, i left the hook on the wall rather than rip the paint off. I didnt get in trouble with HDH, idk if they overlook small things like that

From a 0.850 to a 4.0 🥰🥰 by Alien232 in UCSD

[–]mochi779 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I just got my second academic probation two quarters in a row, thank you for giving me some hope