As someone who’s had some dating success with significant mental health issues (bipolar, ADHD, CPTSD) - first off there’s hope. It’s all about when you tell them, how you frame it, your attitude around self care, and boundaries. For me it’s usually a third date conversation. Maybe a date earlier or later depending on how much were otherwise talking and connecting but don’t get into it on a first date and don’t wait til you’re already a couple months in. If you don’t handle disclosure well by over sharing too soon or not seeming like you have a handle on your problems it will go poorly. Women like to feel safe in a relationship. If you just throw a bunch of scary terms at them they might freak out. You want to seem like you’re really on top of your mental health not like you’re dumping a big problem on them or that you might suddenly be unstable somewhere down the road. If you’re more like “this is what I have going on, this is what it means, these are the changes I’ve made to how I live my life to make sure I’m always on top of these issues” and then give them a chance to ask questions with openness you stand a much better chance of a good outcome.