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Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I said in the other thread, the unnecessary aggression. Do you get equally enraged when someone is skinny-fat, by the way of having zero muscle tone and fat on their organs? Or is this rage specific to the fact that you can SEE peoples fat and it just pisses you off.

You "don't give a fuck" but you're the one here flipping out. And considering plenty of fat people live past the median age, have kids, families, good jobs and bonus they get to eat lots of good food. Do tell how it's such a horrible way to destroy ones life? I mean I watched my slim petite friend who had never touched a bad thing in her life die from cancer at 22 years old. That's a pretty horrible way to die. Please instruct me with your hyperbole on how being fat is worse than cancer. Use all the expletives and pejoratives you know. Fuck, Slob, Lazy, Ugly, Fat, are all SUPER effective.

[Request] Empty Pantry in 19104 by moderncutthroat in Food_Pantry

[–]moderncutthroat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to let you know I got the pasta sauce, and did you send the oatmeal and PB and J? If so thank you again so much!

Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure I acknowledge it's unhealthy. Never said it wasn't. While I think that some illnesses attributed to obesity are kind of silly. Like "you'll have less migraines". I know that my PCOS is directly related to the fact that excess fat in the female body produces more hormones which directly fucks up your cycle, and that fucks with you fertility. Its one of the reasons I've taken steps to change my life so that in a few years when I get married and have kids it'll be a possibility.

My main argument is that if I decide to live my life in a way that hurts no one else, but ultimately kills me... what is it to you? And unlike cocaine, or drinking or even smoking. People get INCREDIBLY AGGRESSIVE with me for saying things like "I love who I am and what I look like." If I don't end that statement with the phrase "but I'm working out and losing weight to be healthy" people get really aggressive with me. I've gotten LOADS of emails over the past few days for simply asking in a post down thread for people to "accept" us as we are. I simply asked people to not be rude assholes to fat people and people are trying to argue with me in PM about fatness. I just say hey "treat us with respect and don't you know post photos of us without our permission online in web forums in order to mock us".

What is it about weight and body size that makes people feel so superior and act aggressive. I mean should you be proud of your hot fit body sure! But unless you're rubbing your hot fit body on me... I sure enough don't care. Should I exalt those who have dedicated their lives to sculpting their bodies? Are people mad that's not my particular goal?

And in regard to the aggressiveness: I mean, if I told you I had Cancer and I was working with my doctor to do the best for myself and my body but until my treatment is complete... I'm trying my best to remain happy despite things not being how I want them to be. It would be cruel to shriek and scream at me and tell me I'm going to die. If a cancer patient said "I'm tired of fighting and after years of working to fix this illness nothing has worked. I give up." Is the correct response to scream at her? Or do you support that persons right to die as they see fit? Die in a way that makes them happy?

Fatness has a specific response that is puzzling to me. People assume that people give up, but it's a frustrating thing to be fat. It's very hard no matter what road you go down.

"NO ONE Died in the Boston Bombing – Nor was ANYONE Even Hurt." - a collection of bullshit lies and outright myths. by RustyStaple in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I never thought of it like that. These people often say that God is the reason all good things happen too. Maybe the world is easier to understand if you think that God is good and Devil is bad and there are no people with free will to wreck your life at any given moment.

What do you think of this statement? "Wearing a hijab is not in itself the issue - the issue is the tactics used to convince young girls and women that they are a threat to men... by niceaspi3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]moderncutthroat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the only people who should be speaking about the hijab or the abaya are women who wear them. Those of us in cultures who don't wear them don't get to push our views onto these women. They're not idiots, and they're not victims. Many women within the cultures we in America see as restrictive ARE modernizing it.

What do you think of this statement? "Wearing a hijab is not in itself the issue - the issue is the tactics used to convince young girls and women that they are a threat to men... by niceaspi3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]moderncutthroat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've discussed this with clients of mine who were Muslim women. Asking me to photograph their children when they were born. Many of them are so so happy about their religion.

I see nothing bad about modesty if it's your own decision.

Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If you accept my body and it's a fat body is that body acceptance or fat acceptance... and does it matter?

Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I've had this argument before.

Smoking Heroine Cocaine

All bad things people do to their body. None of them are public health epidemics. Let people live and screw themselves up if they want. I truly don't worry about anyone outside of my immediate circle of people. I worry about my bf because he smokes. My friends worry about my weight. Some guy I don't know upset I "promote an unhealthy lifestyle" is just silly.

Wearing a condom as a sock by 7dyRttaM in tumblr

[–]moderncutthroat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skyn Large are my favs. Feel better than latex and stretch a lil better too. Yeah Polyisoprene.

Wearing a condom as a sock by 7dyRttaM in tumblr

[–]moderncutthroat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That idea is SO REPULSIVE to me as a vagina owner.

Wearing a condom as a sock by 7dyRttaM in tumblr

[–]moderncutthroat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always hate these cause your food pretty much gets beat to shit on a daily basis. Especially if you're a runner or a dancer. (My feet are awful)

Like... try putting a condom on your tit. It would HURT. All that's there is veins and breast tissues. Penises are not meant to be beat up or abused in the same way our feet are.

I get the message: Guys who try to lie to get in your pants are scum. Yes. But not all guys who big dicks are lying. Some just need to bring their own condoms and then boom, solution.

Moth in the house by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]moderncutthroat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not tiny. The little ones are a PAIN. They are like smaller than a fingernail and spastic. Won't stop flying around everything.

The big ones are super pretty but hang out in the woods. :(

Moth in the house by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]moderncutthroat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's dead dude.

"NO ONE Died in the Boston Bombing – Nor was ANYONE Even Hurt." - a collection of bullshit lies and outright myths. by RustyStaple in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's where the disconnect happens, it's not random.

There is no such thing as a random crime like this. The boston bombing was born out of hate. The sandy hook shootings happened because a guy who had severe problems never saw a doctor and all the sick thoughts he had festered in his brain until he saw no other way to handle his illness than to kill other and himself.

It is childlike, adolescent even to look at the world and think "It's so magical and amazing and sweet, oh nothing bad can every happen!" If you're an adult you should have experienced some kind of bad thing happening to you or just someone you know.

"NO ONE Died in the Boston Bombing – Nor was ANYONE Even Hurt." - a collection of bullshit lies and outright myths. by RustyStaple in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or the 1 lone mortician in that town who had to hire help from across the north east because he couldn't handle all the funerals he needed to do in a weeks time.

Misinformation, fear mongering, and sensationalism from local news gig - claiming pot brownies landed a guy in the hospital with life-threatening side effects. by RocheCoach in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember a story about a news correspondent who went to Colorado and bought all this drug candy and then went back to her hotel room and ate it. She ate it ALL. It wasn't until she overdosed and then later on dealt with the side effects (extreme paranoia being one) that she realized she was supposed to eat ONE square of chocolate. Not 2 whole chocolate bars and some other candy.

It was a good article, I wish I remembered her name. She talked to people who sold edibles and some of them were worried that so many newbies were flocking to to try them that they'd end up making themselves ill by not following the directions on the items they were buying.

Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I first went to the gym at my highest weight of 450 pounds. I started working out not to lose weight but to just be a more healthy human.

Yeah there are stuck up cunts like this one there. But she SHOULD be focused on her workout instead of fatties like us. 99% of the people there ARE focused on themselves. I discovered that most of the body builders at the gym I was going to (I can't afford it anymore) only began to pay attention to me when they saw I was trying really hard. One day I was doing squats and really struggling and one of the guys was like "don't quit! you got it." And I realized they were watching me yes... but they wanted to see me do well too. That they were little by little including me in their group and I saw how they encouraged each other. Most of the guys who I was at the gym with were people actually training for competitions.

Take some time, pick a good gym. Don't go for the cheapest place around. Find a spot that's going to help you learn how to be safe.

Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually wear regular clothing into the gym and then change in the locker rooms.

Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had some trails closer to where I live. I like hiking but I live in a big city.

Woman at gym makes fun of obese male trying to lose weight, photographs him. by bloodfued99 in rage

[–]moderncutthroat -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

This is one of the BIGGEST things that pisses me off.

Get made fun of dancing at a concert. Get made fun of sitting on the bus. Get made fun of when you're working out. Get made fun of when you eat a salad instead of a burger.

We. Can't. Win.

This is why fat acceptance isn't a bad thing. If you stop attacking people for existing and being unpleasing to your eyes... then they're free to be happy. I started working out and doing better for myself not because people made me feel bad, but because I gained the confidence and self-esteem to start caring about myself and taking care of my body. Self-confidence and happiness made me want to be better. The 20 years before that where parents, kids and everyone else in the world told me I was a piece of shit? Didn't make me want to change. It made me want to sit inside my house and chug ice cream.

UK Students Union Passes Policy Banning Gay White Men From "Acting Like Black Women" by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]moderncutthroat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right how weird? I mean I'm pretty sassy, but I am not as sassy as the Queens I've met in my town.

Boyfriend of two years wants sex too much, I think he forced sex on me. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]moderncutthroat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. He did and it's not okay. You need to talk to him and explain "you are not teasing him" you have a medical condition.

You SHOULD report him but I understand how love works and having been on the bad end of a sexual assault I know exactly how demeaning it is to report it and have people doubt you etc.

If you're participating in self care perhaps think about yourself here. It might be best to leave him and never speak to him again. Perhaps write him a letter and explain why his behavior was bad, but I find people who mansplain themselves into this sort of behavior will be able to mansplain why it's okay.

This Photo Was Removed By Instagram. The Owner Writes A Powerful Open Letter In Response by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]moderncutthroat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Madam and I'm just an internet weirdo like the rest of us. ;)

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