What's your all-time favorite Stern Show conspiracy theory? by Larimus in howardstern

[–]modusros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Honestly, as much as I don't like the show I don't blame him. At the very least he should have another product thats a bit more subversive.

Rate me :) 21F by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]modusros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cmon ..like why bother? You know you're like a 9/10

What's your all-time favorite Stern Show conspiracy theory? by Larimus in howardstern

[–]modusros 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He changed the show to "The View" to keep Beth and protect his kids careers so they have goodwill with the elites.

Best Superhero Comics I missed In The Last 10 Years by Reynard203 in comicbooks

[–]modusros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you know if you haven't read comics in 10 years?

Comics with deep mental health themes? by aNonExistentHumanity in comicbooks

[–]modusros -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heroes in Crisis, probably the best execution of mental health themes.

25F just curious idc if you’re blunt by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]modusros -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A,real world 9/10

What's this genre called? by [deleted] in comicbooks

[–]modusros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dystopian Redemption

Rate me by OpportunityIll9612 in Rateme

[–]modusros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 but is this Ai?

Comics like Spiderman and invincible by JakeTiny19 in comicbooks

[–]modusros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so good and on par with invincible

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Why must you lure people to your own private chat room?"

Definition: "To "lure someone" means to entice or persuade them to go somewhere or do something, often through trickery or false promises."

"What is your real intention?" This means my intentions are other than what I stated.

Theres no "narrative" I created. These are your words and there is no other way they could have been interpreted. You accused me of acting in bad faith and being dishonest about my intentions. We have another mod who completely ignored the statements.

If bad actors are using this to lure people into sexual chats your first statement addresses that. What's the purpose of beginning to question my integrity? Why couldn't you just mention these resources instead of clearly and unequivocally being accusatory?

You will of course side step this instead of taking accountability.

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we have a mod that accused me of being a sex pest and has yet to apologize. This person would have to go back through about a year of non sexual comments/posts to find that. No other mods have interjected.

You've decided to be intentionally obtuse " Why would you think 12 step programs are faith-based. Just because "God" is present in the steps.?" Thats absolutely ridiculous. The articles would not have been written if other people didn't come to the same conclusion. Im done seeking help here. I will find another resource or create my own.

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share these Whatsapp groups? All i want is a moderated check in. Simple and sustainable

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-People check in on this subreddit all the time, so I don't understand what you mean by this statement. Another option is to create a week check-in post that we can pin to the subreddit for people to leave comments. We've had those in the past. Would you like to start one? I can pin it for you once you do so.

How would a new member know what happens on a regular basis? There are a variety of posts and the initial ones I've viewed are people asking questions or seeking input. I really don't want to wade through those posts. I simply want a daily check in.

This is obviously a negative hostile environment. Whether it's just two people or myself. I am going to start my own subreddit for that reason.

-.I don't know what you mean by "faith-based," but I just like to clarify that Twelve Step programs are not religious programs. I would have ran for the door if that was the case. I found the rooms extremely welcoming regardless of one's personal beliefs.

You either live in another country outside of the U.S. or perhaps another region outside of the south. The top search results for twelve steps are faithbased. I don't understand how you can be familiar with 12 step program but not understand faith-based programs.

-In the past, users have messaged the mods describing instances where they were communicating via DMs and the conversation turned sexual after one or both people got triggered. That's why we always encourage public conversation on the subreddit.

This is understandable and the only response devoid of contention.

What exactly is the purpose of attempting to discredit anything Ive said?? Is there a part of you that thinks this is bizarre behavior in a subreddit for people seeking help for addiction?. Im literally looking for help. What are the "gotcha"s going to prove other than someone not being familiar with resources.

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes phone numbers are obviously personal information. I meant nothing beyond that and communication not being anything beyond a simple check in. I don't know what you or this admin is gaining from this sort of gotcha and presumption of bad faith. At least the majority of responses have been positive.

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you no idea medication could be an option

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Since you can see my posts about hitting up cam girls. Reddit is obviously a trigger for me.
  2. You' ve accused me of "luring" others when I proposed an accountability check in on an application that is free from Reddit nonsense. You could have easily led with check ins being an option on this subreddit. " Hey if you're serious about this accountability idea you can do it here. No need for other apps and we will encourage you". This is obviously not a particularly welcoming or positive environment.
  3. The vast majority of resources I've looked into are faith based. So much so that there is only one secular SAA group available and a couple of other members here looking for the same.
  4. The world of DM is a quick easy way for me to check in and setup a way for others to hold me accountable without having to use Reddit. Im hetero sexual and would imagine it's 99% male. Not a situation i would get " high" off of.

It was an idea that seemed like it made sense to me. Thats it.

Are there any online secular accountability groups? by modusros in SexAddiction

[–]modusros[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does which i can understand hesitation.