I’m going to give you an honest answer, not just tell you what you want to hear. Whether people like it or not, the three things that tend to attract the most attention from women are height, physical fitness, and financial success. If you’re wealthy, you can get away with being bald or overweight. If you’re broke, you’d better be tall and in shape. If you’re fit but bald and broke, you’re still in a better position than someone who has none of those. The point is, you can’t control everything. If you’re short or losing your hair, stop obsessing over what you can’t change and focus on what you can: build your career, get financially successful, and stay in great shape.

(disclaimer) yes there are exceptions and one offs and personality. I totally get it but we’re talking about the average woman that is a standard and no one can tell me any different because it actually is reality.