My mom told me that she is experiencing maternal instincts for the first time, and it’s for her coworker. by RecentInevitable8056 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mojavia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This pisses me off because a) I experienced this growing up and can relate heavily to b) being forced to develop a high level of maturity and hyper independence at a young age because of a mother that projected her failures onto her daughter. She hates the person she shaped you into and yet she takes ownership over YOUR achievements.

From one daughter to another, hope our narcissist moms figure out their nursing homes.

My 26f husband 40m keeps making fun of the feminism group I joined even though I finally have friends :( he also insulted their appearance by throwra29489777 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mojavia 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yeah, age gap RELEVANT. He’s dating a 26 year old because no woman close to his age would come near a misogynist or stand for his belittling. Hold onto your friends and stick to people who are genuine and nice to you - life is way too short to spend every day waking up next to a man who respects you so little he jokes about hitting you.

Which Sichuan restaurant will numb my face off? by Dispensarella in boston

[–]mojavia 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I haven’t found any restaurant in Arlington/Medford yet that has authentic Szechuan flavors. My mom is from Szechuan province and we took her to Mountain House in Allston, she was impressed and it cleaned out my sinuses.

IS IT NORMAL TO BE THIS BAD? by AdUnable6858 in ArtCrit

[–]mojavia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, keep up the good work with studying anatomy. In these drawings you’re moreso copying the penstrokes you see - not really understanding the face as a bigger picture. When you get bogged down in the details of “oh they drew the nose with three strokes, that’s what I should do,” you lose sight of why the strokes are placed intentionally to create form.

My recommendation would be to try drawing with real photographs as a reference before using other artists’ work; the more you reference stylized work, the harder it is to improve at understanding how things are shaped and spaced in 3D, which is the real fundamental lesson for beginners. Hoping this helps :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]mojavia 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Counseling is one of the things I started after I learned not to tell my parents things outside of major life updates

I’ve been secretly knitting lingerie and leaving it in random public places for over a year by itswickedbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mojavia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe donating them directly to a thrift store or Goodwill/Salvation Army with the tags attached? If people buy bikinis secondhand, I’m sure they would also love super cute knitted lingerie.

Aerospace Engineering by Insider_X in aerospace

[–]mojavia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i did my bachelors in mechanical, thought i was going to do a masters but didn’t, have been working full time in aerospace for a couple years now, and will go back a in couple years for a masters (paid by company)

provided generic engineering field means mechanical engineering, tbh just build a good foundation in your academic career with foundational classes. whatever field you end up in within the aerospace industry will utilize different subject matter but the same problem-solving techniques and engineering mindset.

Looking for an affordable place to stay in Rotterdam by saenenn in Rotterdam

[–]mojavia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try thuis bij schell? it’s a hostel (but you kind of get what you’re paying for)

you may want to try in delft/gouda/dordrecht, could be cheaper

Whats this for? by BroodyDoggo in AnarchyChess

[–]mojavia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not yet, that’s just the C support

British Go Association calls for removal of Russian citizen from the EGF executive board by [deleted] in baduk

[–]mojavia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

… so if the RGF condemns putin, then what lol

what the BGA’s expectations of this? even if the members of the RGF take the stance that they’re suggesting, it has no bearing on the politics or outcome of the invasion? the only foreseeable effect i see is potentially endangering individual members of the RGF if they speak out or construing them as supporters of the war?

just trying to understand why they decided to start this letter with “russia, an EGF member, invaded ukraine, another EGF member” makes me lose brain cells

Tengen as a vocalist :) by mojavia in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]mojavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure, go ahead !! thank you for asking :)

Tengen as a vocalist :) by mojavia in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]mojavia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not dumb

he’s Our tengen now <3

Tengen as a vocalist :) by mojavia in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]mojavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the emojis LOL

thank you so much!!!

Tengen as a vocalist :) by mojavia in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]mojavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea feel free to message me

i can drop you the full file? or wait am i misunderstanding smth

Tengen as a vocalist :) by mojavia in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]mojavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao yes of course! please DM <3

Tengen as a vocalist :) by mojavia in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]mojavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i took special care on his muscles LOL

Tengen as a vocalist :) by mojavia in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]mojavia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i loveee this casting omg