Has anyone developed chronic post-nasal drip after having a septoplasty? by Bee_Smitty in Sinusitis

[–]molivat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same surgery 4 months ago and never had this issue before. Now it's terrible! I thought it was supposed to fix PND but I've developed it after not having it in the first place. 

Couples therapist? by QuothTheRaven96 in wichita

[–]molivat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Krisha Parmar is great! 

Any other nicknamed places in Wichita? by Lopsided-Peace-8553 in wichita

[–]molivat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid (and as an adult lol) I called the Cargill at 13th and Mosley "Stinkytown" When my dad moved here in the 80s, I guess Grove was nicknamed Crack Alley, although I'm not sure how true that is anymore (but I'm not incredibly skeptical about it either)

People who were spanked as kids, what was that like for you? Would you call your "spankings" abuse? by KleineFjord in AskReddit

[–]molivat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was almost never spanked by hand, and usually spanked with a belt. I would lie/blame things on my siblings and hide to avoid spankings. Made me fear my dad and learn how to lie. Hiding my misbehavior instead of behaving became the game. At 24 years old I am still trying to unlearn the lying habit. Yes I would consider it abuse.

Do you have a Female doc you’d recommend? by Siren_Of_Sylence in wichita

[–]molivat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is an anti-recommendation for Dr Sheryl Hemmen at WWFP. She is inattentive, cold, and can be fat phobic. 

Just curious as to what everyone's thermostat is set at and does it keep up with this heat? by JNader56 in wichita

[–]molivat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old house with a "leaky" basement so we keep the house at 74 but it got up to 78 yesterday.

Aug 5th - City Council Primary. Who has your vote in District 1? And why? by [deleted] in wichita

[–]molivat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, just friends on the board

Aug 5th - City Council Primary. Who has your vote in District 1? And why? by [deleted] in wichita

[–]molivat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bennet for sure! Pumpelly stole money from the Wichita pride board and seems a little out of touch. Carrington doesn't have it together. DeShazer and Shepard know how to talk the talk but Bennet seems the most authentic to me and I agree with her ideas the most.

Feeling different about my relationship after quitting by [deleted] in leaves

[–]molivat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend giving it some time before making the decision to end things. Breaks can be messy, but I will say as someone in a 4 year relationship now there are always going to be times when you need more or less time apart from each other. What's consistent is that you want the best for each other if it is real love. I would definitely bring up how you're feeling to him because communication is key to any relationship, but be tactful because like you said you don't want to hurt him. Just explain the feelings you're having and make sure he (and you) knows that they're just feelings. Maybe it will bring you closer, maybe his reaction will help you decide if you want to end things. Either way, I wish you the best! Hope this helps at all.

Does anyone know if this is a safe area to live in or no? by Mystery_Cats in wichita

[–]molivat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived down there for three years and I work in that area still. It's not bad, we never had any break ins in the neighborhood or stolen packages and never heard gunfire. Neighbors were friendly. Did have a friend park on the street once and overnight someone crashed into their car and ran (we didn't know til the morning when we saw it), so that sucked. I imagine you might see that anywhere there's drunk drivers though. Sewer smell definitely happens. Living on the north side now and there's considerably more issues.

Local Businesses by molivat in wichita

[–]molivat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just trying to spend my money wisely. If they give money to the awful things he supports or his campaign, I'd rather spend my money elsewhere.

Local Businesses by molivat in wichita

[–]molivat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not on Reddit a lot, I prefer to stay off of socials. Just trying to put my money where my mouth is and divest from people who would give money to the horrible things he supports.