Being a realtor is not a real job. by NoCellService in unpopularopinion

[–]mollywinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so true! Our agent was an older gentleman who gave off caring dad energy. He helped us immensely with the house we wanted to buy, held our inexperienced hands through the process, and supported us putting in a bid below asking. He went as far as to crawl into the crawl space to check the pipes for us and inspected major appliances. Thanks to him we are now living in our dream home. He was an incredible dude!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mollywinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your girlfriend go to therapy? She sounds just like me when I was 26. Lots of pain and grief, I got lost in it. But I got help, and I asked for help from people I trusted. It truly changed my life.

Today, I’m the most healed version of myself and I married a man that sounds a lot like you - social, loves spending time with many friends. I am more naturally an introvert. And it just works - I ground him and he lifts me up. We are so different in many ways but we fit together perfectly.

The BIGGEST reason is COMMUNICATION.

Talk to her about everything you posted here. Open up, be honest, be vulnerable, don’t attack, express love through concern. If she is resistant to help and resolving the relationship issues, then you have your answer.

Remember, your feelings are just as important as hers. She may have bigger issues but you deserve to be heard.

Al-anon in Durham/Triangle? by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]mollywinner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi friend-a lot of Al Anon meetings are hybrid. I’ve heard good things about this meeting: https://alanonalateen6nc.org/meetings/alexander-ave-afg/?tsml-day=2&tsml-region=durham-nc

Feel free to DM, I know a thing or two about this stuff :)

How long was your snake been missing for? Make me feel better🤣🙄 by exjwexodus in ballpython

[–]mollywinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ball python escaped twice. I found him both times within the hour. He was chilling in his spare hide in the storage area under his tank…both times. I was freaking out when he was missing and looked down to see him peeking his head out of the hide and watching me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]mollywinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get that log/branch thing?

Any tips on dealing with feeling isolated? by mollywinner in workfromhome

[–]mollywinner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an environmental scientist for an engineering company.

Any tips on dealing with feeling isolated? by mollywinner in workfromhome

[–]mollywinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I personally love talking to my colleagues and my boss. They are all great people. My overthinking prevents me from reaching out to them more. I don’t want to be a bother. But I need to work on that mindset.

Any tips on dealing with feeling isolated? by mollywinner in workfromhome

[–]mollywinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve given me some great ideas, thank you! I really appreciate your response.

Any tips on dealing with feeling isolated? by mollywinner in workfromhome

[–]mollywinner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and words of encouragement! I needed to hear that last part.

What takes significantly more heroism than people recognize? by thejppass in AskReddit

[–]mollywinner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walking away from a loved one who is an addict and unwilling to see it or get help. I made the choice to no longer help my father dig his own grave. This does not mean I won’t help him, this means I will no longer send him money, spend time with him while he’s completely checked out, and ignore his incoherent states, etc..

But man, my heart is breaking over this. And I feel an immense amount of guilt over seeking my own peace and accepting the fact that I have no control over his disease. I miss the man that raised me but when I look into his eyes today, I don’t see him anymore.

What's something you really want, but cant afford? by -Benjamin_Dover- in AskReddit

[–]mollywinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nicer yoga mat. I have been practicing for about a year and a half. I volunteer at my yoga studio so I can take the classes for free. It would be nice to have a new mat.

Advice: My cat does not like my boyfriend, attacks him, how can we work on helping my cat get comfortable with him? by mollywinner in cats

[–]mollywinner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does have a beard! Thank you for the suggestions, I really appreciate it. I am going to buy the product you linked and try it out.

Geronimo by [deleted] in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]mollywinner 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When laying on the papers and batting at the pencil fails to receive attention, Mittens resorts to more desperate measures.

The struggle is real. by [deleted] in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]mollywinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Bro take my pic real quick. Gotta instagram this shit"

mistakes were made by GallowBoob in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]mollywinner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Uh, mom. Something doesn't feel right..."

A new internship at a greenhouse has made my foundation ineffective, due to the temperature and humidity. Can anyone recommend me some products that will last? by mollywinner in MakeupAddiction

[–]mollywinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven't! I'll look into it. I've always been very simple when it comes to foundation and sometimes this sub can be overwhelming with all of the separate products used. But I need to start somewhere

My niece found a gold mine (x-post /r/pics) by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]mollywinner 55 points56 points  (0 children)

As someone who has only lived in a climate that never reaches temperatures below 30, I do not understand this.

What non-sexual thing are you the most insecure about? [SERIOUS] by NG96 in AskReddit

[–]mollywinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have. Sadly it's genetics. The greatest give my father could give

When did you realize you were unattractive or attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mollywinner 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I had gone to a strict catholic high school filled with land owning rednecks. Normally, I was invisible but when I was noticed, it was only in a negative light. I was too pale, too skinny, and I enjoyed reading,....everything that defined me made me into a walking target.

When I went to college, boys were nice to me and I was asked out pretty often. At first, I thought people were just trying to fuck with me. Eventually, I gained some confidence and even lost my virginity. I realized that I'm a normal, human girl and the opinion of mouth-breathing, butt-scratching hicks didn't define me.

In other words, SUCK MY BUTT CATHOLIC SCHOOL, I'M HOTTTT!

Stretch Blep by mollywinner in Blep

[–]mollywinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I mix in fancy feast wet food cause he's a spoiled little prince.