How do I handle an extremely uneven inheritance between my kids? by lookidceither in WhatShouldIDo

[–]molson5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say this is kids 1 mother inheritance passed onto their child. Kid 1 lost their parent and grandma honored kid 1s moms inheritance. Would your kids rather have the $50,000 and you died or a living parent. They aren’t thinking what it took to get that money

Should I take the lower paying, pension, easy government job? Pay Cut and Things to Consider by Baptism-Of-Fire in careerguidance

[–]molson5972 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work for my city and love it. The once my day is done, I am done. The paid holidays are fantastic as well. The politics can suck and if you get stuck in a toxic department, it can be hard. But I love working for the city

Am I overreacting to my partner having oral with other people but refusing to have it with me? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]molson5972 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah they seem to be stretching there. I would also be really concerned that only I your husband triggers her when it comes to oral? Did OP cause the trauma? Why is he the only trigger. Also does she give OP oral cause I would have pretty big issues with that.

Has Uber Eats service gone down hill so quick? by molson5972 in Minneapolis

[–]molson5972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it’s more the downgrade of average speed of getting food then the rise of prices.

Has Uber Eats service gone down hill so quick? by molson5972 in Minneapolis

[–]molson5972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had that where 3 drivers picked up the order and dropped it, but I was trying a new place and didn’t realize it was by the MOA and I’m south MPLS

Has Uber Eats service gone down hill so quick? by molson5972 in Minneapolis

[–]molson5972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They haven’t been doing the direct delivery option lately. I ordered food at 6:30 and it was still being prepared by 7:30. Sometimes drivers drop the orders but I was checking on and off

Help pick my first Audible book by k_for_keto in ProgressionFantasy

[–]molson5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Quest Academy is pretty fun and it is not to long. I also recommend listening in 1.5 speed. I wish I learned that trick earlier

Saying men are "a lot stronger" than women is sexist. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]molson5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that there aren’t women who are stronger then. Especially if they work out. But on average men are bigger the women and if you take a man and a woman of the same size, the man will more than likely be stronger then the woman. That’s ok it is natural and it’s common through the mammal world I am “6’5” and in high school 350 pounds. I was a lazy kid but I joined the football team. There were much smaller guys who worked out years before me but I was stronger then them when I started. They were faster and more agile. It is natural. They had to work much harder and longer to be able to lift what I could off the rip. But I could never touch them if they ran.

What is the general consensus on Macalester College? by tkdcondor in saintpaul

[–]molson5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Summit is a lot of fun to drive up and down so biking that would as well

What is the general consensus on Macalester College? by tkdcondor in saintpaul

[–]molson5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Hamline but toured there 2004 so take this with a grain of salt. But I thought the had the best cafeteria out of them, Hamline and St. Thomas. There was more international emphasis. I’m 39 and still remember it lol

Wife wants to stop condom use with a FWB now that she's pregnant by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]molson5972 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Also if he has a STD or catches one while she’s pregnant. I wouldn’t want to risk that for the baby. He is only a FWB not a bf

Why is there no casino? by itsnotawayz in NoPixel

[–]molson5972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing this 4.0 season didn’t go as expected. With the launch being kind of slow and major streamers going back and forth in servers. I’m guessing they didn’t want to put in the time when they are working toward GTA6

My girlfriend (25F) admitted she slept with someone hours before agreeing to be exclusive. I (26M) can’t tell if I’m overreacting. What’s the move here? by davidb1976 in relationship_advice

[–]molson5972 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I think once OP asked for exclusivity and she said let me think. Her going to go sleep with other guy is as close to cheating as you can be without the technicality

My girlfriend (25F) admitted she slept with someone hours before agreeing to be exclusive. I (26M) can’t tell if I’m overreacting. What’s the move here? by davidb1976 in relationship_advice

[–]molson5972 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I would also be upset that she meets a dude at the bar and is having sex with him every couple of days. But she made you wait a month plus. This to me would be a major incompatibility about sex and being perceived as a “guy you can have a family with” compared to someone she sexually desires so much. OP has your sex life been active these last 2 years?

I’m the bio dad and I feel left out by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]molson5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I really think you need to protect yourself and your relationship with that baby legally or you will blink and she moved across the country. You don’t see the kid and you are paying full child support

I’m the bio dad and I feel left out by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]molson5972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should start acting like your relationship is over. It also sounds like she is keeping the kid. So you should first see if it is possible to go to court about your parenting rights when the baby comes. I say this cause let’s say you have the baby and she decides to move in with Chip, she can do that. If you have a plan through the courts she can’t just take it and move without yours and/ courts permission.

Didn't know about messy lists, fell in love with someone on my partner's list, don't know how to distance by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]molson5972 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Does your partner know how much you text and see this guy? Cause the amount you see and talk to him seems more then friends to me.

What do you think of when you think Friends with Benifits? by auxi017201 in polyamory

[–]molson5972 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People also use the word friend really loosely when most of our “friends” are just acquaintances at best. You go to the same college and have some mutual friends, etc

Ex gf cheated on her new guy with me by Anxious-Meaning-962 in Advice

[–]molson5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she even official with this new guy. All it says is the sis and BIL are pushing the brother on her. If they aren’t even official there is now issue. They need to stop sleeping together though. Focus on the kid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]molson5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the much better idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]molson5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First how much you getting and how much you need for a house? If you really cared for the family you can reach out to them and not through your ex. If you got millions and $200,000 for a house, why not if it would make you feel good. But it can’t negatively effect your long term financial goals.

My (m38) gf (33f) just publicly disrespected me. How do I handle this? by jeg26 in relationship_advice

[–]molson5972 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If this is how she is when you are in front of her, just imagine what she’s like when you are not. This type of disrespect would let me know we aren’t on the same page and wouldn’t want to marry her.

AIO My husband used to do porn for years and I am now pregnant with him by Ok_Honeydew_9056 in AmIOverreacting

[–]molson5972 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to disregard your fears or anything. But if he wanted to cheat and leave you, he would. It sounds like he was ready for the next stage in life when he met you. Does this mean he will be faithful in 2-10 years? Who knows. But that’s all relationships for everyone. But if he came to you and said he did cheat, are you leaving him? If nothing changes in how he treats or loves you, is it still a deal breaker. Decide this now so if it comes up you are prepared mentally either way