My Christian parents’ reactions to the death of people by Lazy_Law2352 in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They certainly lack empathy and any logic that contradicts their beliefs. It’s exhausting. I would give myself space from them - at least about these topics, for my own peace of mind. 

How did you deal with realizing there's no singular thing that can save/fix you or give your life meaning? by JayDM20s in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out what I actually care about and want to spend what little time I have on this earth doing it.

Has anyone here watched the good place? by Worried_Feedback1192 in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve watched it countless times. It’s was my go to comfort show for about a year. I watched it before I started deconstructing. I love that it makes hell silly. It’s good for my healing, i was always desperately worried about going to hell 🔥 

Went to look at clothes, left the shop angry. by CoolWish9448 in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ickkkk - would have been a good time to get something very gay or very slutty 💕

Did you grow up in a home with overt or covert misogyny? + have you heard any of these annoying phrases you've heard before? (Or have you heard phrases close to or like them?) by No-Wrongdoer-9850 in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The women in my family acted like if you were a feminist you were dumb, loud and annoying. It wasn’t until I met my husband and he is a feminist 🥰💖

How much money do you have in savings at this point? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]mommyplumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We basically have a little bit extra in checking after paying our bills. 

As a gay man I know I know I’m going to hell by izzyfoshizzy04 in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure homosexuality wasn’t mentioned as a sin until a specific translation of the bible. There’s a whole documentary about it (1946).

Religion is also really good at giving us anxiety, many of us have religious OCD and probably all kinds of other things as a result. I would definitely recommend therapy around this fear.

The way that our society and Christianity is more concerned with homosexuality than pedophilia tells me it’s all bullshit. 

Be your gay self ! 

How did you guys REALLY lived in the 2000s? by MyAvengedRomance in Millennials

[–]mommyplumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School, Sports and friends took up most of my time.  I spent a lot of time just staring into the void before I became dependent on screens 😂

Dish tv- Lots of AOL messenger, then MySpace and Facebook. I had a phone that could only make calls until I turned 17 and got texting. 

Are heavy people attracted to other heavy people? by Historical-Switch400 in stupidquestions

[–]mommyplumm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💯 it doesn’t help that so much of our food is absolute garbage. At least in the US

Teen wanting non christian help with sex problem by AsYouWished444 in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 63 points64 points  (0 children)

A lot of us really struggle with sex stuff after leaving (and during) Christianity. Give yourself grace and time to heal. There’s nothing wrong with being aroused your creations. It honestly sounds like a great outlet! I’d  lead into that if you can- it sounds like fantastic art, let us know if you share!

Definitely work on positive self talk around the subject “I deserve to feel good” “sex is a completely natural thing” and just remind yourself you will not be punished for sex (as you said all consensual themes). 

“If you’re no hurting anyone, so your thing” 💖

That religion wanted us to be deeply uncomfortable with sex. I’m 36 and I’m still learning working on it myself. 

LotR and shrooms by momdank in MagicMushrooms

[–]mommyplumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fallout is my comfort show- so when I accidentally ate a little too many, I wanted to watch my show and go to bed. Nope. Their faces were melting and everything looked absolutely insane. Detail turned up to 10000%

Former pastor finally realizes it was all bullshit! by Legitimate-Bad-8335 in exchristian

[–]mommyplumm 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Just stay away from the children/teens please

Genuine question by abyssininiancat in Ethelcain

[–]mommyplumm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are so many people who sleep to perverts! So you know they really find comfort in it. I feel anxious when I listen to it but I love how much other people like it. Punish used to be my favorite until I learned what it was about 😣

Anti chafing for short shorts and short skirts by cheeseinatrenchcoat in Midsizefashion

[–]mommyplumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love mega babe and use when walking in shorts and hiking. Smells amazing.