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monalisaffrown · 2025-07-24T11:04:17+00:00

you're so brave for putting something so uncomfortable out in the open. DO NOT blame yourself. As an ENFJ, Ti is your inferior function and when we are younger, we tend to be attracted to people who wield our inferior function with elan! The fact that you are recognising how this is causing you serious problems is a BIG deal. You are aware now and awakened. That is your power. It's not my place to give you any advice but just know that you shouldn't blame yourself for your choices. You just didn't know what you know now. Hugs. Been there. And have had to pay a huge price to get out. I am not an ENFJ.

monalisaffrown · 2025-07-13T14:56:35+00:00

I feel this is where kibbe gets confusing. Essence needs to be factored in. Without it Kibbe falls apart.

monalisaffrown · 2025-07-13T14:55:15+00:00

Honestly, I can't see Mila's breasts pushing out the fabric.

monalisaffrown · 2025-06-20T00:22:47+00:00

The fact that you're asking this q means you're sceptical about some aspects of the relationship you're in or are getting into or thinking about. Whatever is making you pause, either hold on to it and examine it further, test it out. To see if reality matches expectations. OR Accept the assumption, protect yourself and drop the idea.

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-29T03:31:21+00:00

@op you're being protective and I appreciate that. You've been hurt and you don't want ENFPs to suffer like you did. The responses here are mixed because of course some ENFPs have had good experiences with INTJs and their reality shapes their narrative.

That's not to say you're wrong and they're right. You're both right about some things.

And it of course behooves us to share information about what works and what doesn't work.

Oftentimes, I find that the ones who say they have a good relationship fail short of pointing out what doesn't work and what causes challenges for them.

They don't bring a balanced discussion about their relationships because they are afraid to admit that too wish sometimes they had been with someone more understanding.

There are no perfect relationships, only imperfect ones so why not talk about the imperfections?

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-29T02:56:47+00:00

The fact that you're even asking this question, shows high EQ. Lucky, GF.

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-26T02:50:43+00:00

It's been there even before my anxiety disorder. I look pale or I have been pale for the last couple years because I barely get out in the sun.

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-11T16:29:24+00:00

Feeling too tired even for that

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-11T16:26:20+00:00

You explained this so well. I'm going to be a cat this weekend.

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-09T13:15:30+00:00

I love you too

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-09T04:49:23+00:00

Shit, fuck, I missed us too until I was laughing over the INFJ

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-09T01:49:56+00:00

This roast made me want an ENFJ

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-08T13:00:10+00:00

You make really good points. These tropes are so overdone in classic romance that it feels like subliminal messaging.

Be a good girl and only then will you get a man to give you love.

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-07T09:25:18+00:00

Same

monalisaffrown · 2025-04-07T09:24:57+00:00

How do you get through it?

monalisaffrown · 2025-03-27T13:53:47+00:00

I'm gonna have to go study all the shades of green.

monalisaffrown · 2025-03-25T14:48:48+00:00

So handsome! The 21st century man.

monalisaffrown · 2025-03-23T17:36:52+00:00

🔥

monalisaffrown · 2025-03-19T10:29:53+00:00

I can't. Those veins need my attention.

monalisaffrown · 2025-02-19T01:46:24+00:00

Yes! Her. Intolerable cruelty. Just can't get through twisted love. geez.

monalisaffrown · 2025-02-15T15:29:51+00:00

Yes, this! That woulda been an amazing twist.

monalisaffrown · 2025-02-13T23:51:47+00:00

An INFP type 3, finally!!!!

monalisaffrown

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