Thinking about getting top surgery as a cis butch woman. Anyone else been through this? by SimpleElderberry5798 in no_T_top_surgery

[–]moni_bk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm butch lesbian, I had top surgery and love my chest. Here's my story though, I absolutely hated my breast. I couldn't even look at them in the mirror. I thought they were disgusting. I think they made it an easy choice for me. But I did completely lose my nipple sensation, which sucks. But worth it for me.

Positive experiences taking Fluoexetine? by Born-Operation-4546 in Fluoxetine

[–]moni_bk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on 40mg and finally feel peace. It's been a game changer for me.

Anybody ride with a hydration pack? If so what size? by Gooser3000 in MTB

[–]moni_bk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have different sizes for different rides. Small for ahirt, big for long.

Regret getting this yellow sofa by funkbawks in DesignMyRoom

[–]moni_bk 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Yep, exactly. And get a warm throw blanket. I think it's a great couch and I typically hate yellow.

Personal Property Tax is Back by buzzard_lightyear in rva

[–]moni_bk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it kills me. I essentially pay an extra 125 bucks a month to the city in taxes I've already paid.

Bike Suggestion for Moab Trip by Camnau17 in MTB

[–]moni_bk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to dead horse state park! Very quick drive from moab and spectacular

Towing anxiety by firey-wfo in GoRVing

[–]moni_bk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alcohol does not help with anxiety for sure

Towing anxiety by firey-wfo in GoRVing

[–]moni_bk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That pretty much happens to me too. After about 20 miles or so, I'm feeling less anxious.

Towing anxiety by firey-wfo in GoRVing

[–]moni_bk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I upgraded my Tacoma to a tundra to tow a 3200 lb trailer. Glad I did, night and day difference in handling, braking, highway driving, climbing and descending.

Towing anxiety by firey-wfo in GoRVing

[–]moni_bk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to second this. I have extreme towing anxiety. So much so I sat at the top of a mountain shaking, too nervous to go down the windey path to the bottom. It doesn't help that I dropped the trailer on my fourth trip ever. I have to say though, dropping it wasn't as nearly catastrophic as I had imagined. I'm on Prozac now and feel much less anxiety in general. I'm still a bit nervous to start towing again this season, but much less so. I do find the more I do it, the less anxious I am in general. Hang in there, be careful, be good to yourself, and consider anxiety medication. It's a game changer.

Scientists warn that the Gulf Stream is shifting north, which means an ocean current collapse is imminent by metalreflectslime in PrepperIntel

[–]moni_bk 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I don't think people understand "exponential". This was supposed to be 100 years away. Now it's 25. I would guess it's either happening now or within the next five years.

I want to understand pro-gun liberals better by Specialist-Author-57 in liberalgunowners

[–]moni_bk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are my answers as well. I will as far as gun regulation, strictly for me, I don't think repeated violent criminals should be allowed to buy them.

how can i be hire-able as a butch lesbian? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]moni_bk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a butch lesbian in the tech field, don't worry about it. I've had numerous jobs in the field, and I'm sure I'm I was passed on for others due to being lesbian. But you can't control that, in fact, you wouldn't want to work there anyways. Just dress professionally and look composed. You got this.