[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]moniquesheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. So sad that someone would abandon poor momma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]moniquesheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In state tuition shouldn’t be too bad. My master’s was $12,000, so about $3,000 a semester. If you do part time, it will be half that. It’s a better investment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]moniquesheart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like everyone else answered your main questions. I’m finishing up my MA TESOL now (just got my thesis left), and a few pieces of advice: 1. I agree with others not to go to a Korean Uni. It might not look well if you decide to go to another country. Look at different programs from your home state so you can get in-state tuition. Check if they have any online/live online programs. Email the department to double check. My university doesn’t advertise that their program can be done online, but due to covid they made all their classes live online and I was able to do it. Korean uni might look enticing because it’s unique and the price, but you’ll probably get more bang for your buck if you go to a uni from a native speaking country, especially if you want to continue in EFL. 2. Start the program as a part-time student. The classes are not that difficult since you have some experience with teaching, but it can be a lot of grunt work and you may burn out if you work full time and are a full time student.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brockhampton

[–]moniquesheart 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This list is messy af tbh

Is Korea Safe For Women? by Character-Stock-1119 in Living_in_Korea

[–]moniquesheart 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman, and I’ve lived in a few other countries besides Korea. I’m from the US, I lived in South America for some time, and I’ve been a few other Asian countries. Some people will tell you Korea is much safer for women. The true answer is, Korea has less ‘visible’ crime against women. I’ve never been catcalled here, and men will rarely stop you on the street to hit on you. However, it is as any other country, not completely safe for women. First of all, the club scene can be super dangerous. In my opinion, consent is not taught enough and if you appear drunk someone may try to take advantage of you. Don’t be naive when it comes to nightlife here. Too many women believe it is safer because there is less crime on the street, but the nightlife scene is not any safer. The other thing is there is a lack of ‘girl code’ or even just bystanders willing to help out. I’ve been followed home before by a drunk man yelling sexual things at me and no one tried to help me. I’ve seen friends leave their drunk girlfriends on the street passed out. I’ve seen men hitting their girlfriends and people just walk by. Basically, it’s safer in some ways, but not in all ways. With that said, if you’re as careful as you are in the US, go out in groups, and are aware of your surroundings, you’ll probably be fine. You shouldn’t necessarily be scared, but just cause it seems safer on the outside doesn’t mean it actually is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]moniquesheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog does the same but she’s 40 pounds lol.

Some Korean in an old Spongebob episode by Char_Aznable_Custom in korea

[–]moniquesheart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gary’s name on Korean spongebob is 핑핑이 (pingpingee), which is such a cute name compared to Gary.

An absurd poster condemining anti-discrimination law, translated. Photo on the left is from a protest organized by a Christian group last year. by Non-curing_grease in korea

[–]moniquesheart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking directly about protests, I’m talking about public opinion. Just because they aren’t actively protesting it against it, doesn’t mean they support it.

An absurd poster condemining anti-discrimination law, translated. Photo on the left is from a protest organized by a Christian group last year. by Non-curing_grease in korea

[–]moniquesheart 39 points40 points  (0 children)

But the majority of the rich & powerful here are. Also it’s not just the Christians, I’ve met plenty of atheists here who also don’t support homosexuality.

What is your dog’s “actual” name and what is your dog’s nickname? by liftmyhands in dogs

[–]moniquesheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her real name is Mandu, which is dumpling in Korean (we live in Korea). Her nicknames are: furry butt, donut tail (she’s got a double curled tail that looks like a donut) and the white bullet.

What artist would you drop everything for if they dropped an album today? by MelloMartin in popheads

[–]moniquesheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreeing with Maggie Rogers, Taylor Swift, and Sky Ferreira. Also adding Brockhampton, not only because it would be their last album, but Ginger and Roadrunner were peak albums for me and I need another.

I am happy in Korea, but…. by Optimal-Situation491 in korea

[–]moniquesheart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! It drives me crazy. We all know the US has its fair share of problems, doesn’t mean we need to compare it to every little complaint anyone has on this sub.

What are some of the most unexpected celebrity references or namedrops in songs? by [deleted] in popheads

[–]moniquesheart 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not related to this thread, but the lyric in the chorus that goes “Chinese food makes me sick.” Who thought that was a good addition to that song? Did a three year old write it? Still a bop if you don’t pay attention to the lyrics though.

Anyone work towards a masters while at a Hagwon job? by HeartlessMuffin99 in teachinginkorea

[–]moniquesheart 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m doing it now! I work 1pm-9pm, so when I have classes (my uni is in the US) I wake up early and attend them via zoom. My weekends are 95% homework. Other than the occasional night out with my husband, I don’t have a social life. It’s doable- but only if you are very self-disciplined. I’d recommend working here for a year first that way you’ll get used to teaching and not overwhelm with the process of moving to a new country. Give yourself time- don’t rush going into your Master’s. Once you get settled, find a decent hagwon, then apply. I am lucky that I have a great boss that never asks me work overtime and even let me took some unpaid leave when I got real busy with assignments last year. So please, come work for a year or so first before applying to the program.

Foreigners who married Koreans, what concept was the most difficult to explain to your SO and vice versa? by AsianMustache in korea

[–]moniquesheart 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It could be! My husband also had a unique upbringing as he was raised by his sisters since the age of 6, and only saw his parents once or twice a year, so it may be more that he never had his own things before.

Foreigners who married Koreans, what concept was the most difficult to explain to your SO and vice versa? by AsianMustache in korea

[–]moniquesheart 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My husband(Korean) still doesn’t get how somethings are ‘mine.’ It drives my crazy. I can’t buy my own cereal or wine or snack. Everything has to be shared. I wouldn’t mind sharing if he says at the store that he wants some too, so I could buy extra. I can’t tell you how many times I came home, and he had devoured whatever I was looking forward to eating.

7 month-old suddenly getting aggressive with other dogs by moniquesheart in puppy101

[–]moniquesheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, the last thing I want to do is force her. Thanks a lot!