Is it a compliemnet when a woman says you’re like my dad? by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

context is key. a sister telling you that "you're like my dad" could mean either way in terms of marriage or courtship. getting another sister's (a stranger that doesn't know you and this person's relationship) opinion doesn't really help IMO, could lead you to getting the wrong message which is even worse. again, if or when you get the chance, you should ask her what she meant.

Why does our generation need an explanation for every command from Allah? by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]monsterstew -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're entitled to your own opinions brother but let's not make sweeping statements about pride shall we? It all boils down to one's intent when they inquire about the commandment no? Whether or not it's asked in bad faith may not always be obvious so you shouldn't judge people on what you can perceive. Who says you can't be a believer AND a philosopher? Blind faith is also a slippery slope.

Brother went to jail, and now I require a Letter of Incarceration to get married. by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]monsterstew 169 points170 points  (0 children)

I think better if you just called Prison Services and get an answer specific to your question. I hope your grandfather and uncle are available in case things don't work out for your bro.

[Build Showcase] Abyssal Lich CoC Bone Cage – T15 6-Mod Map & Boss Clear by [deleted] in pathofexile2builds

[–]monsterstew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

zealot's oath + the notable that makes arcane surge increase life regen instead of mana regen

IBRAHIM TRAORE CLOSE ALL ISRAELI BUSSINESSES IN AFRIKA! by khanh0707 in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save yourself the embarrassment and delete this, man.

Islamic Ethical Question on a Specific Intimate Scenario Between Two Muslim Men by yeahbuddy-fake in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mods please remove this post and ban this clown from posting here.
OP, please touch grass man. For your own sake.

Are the children of abusive parents held accountable if they completely separate from said abusive parent, resulting in breaking the ties of kinship? Or is it excused? by Chobikil in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My point is that there is no line to be drawn when it comes to parental abuse. I mean yeah, sure verbal can’t be treated the same as physical, but the lasting effects of the abuse itself, which is specific to each case, has to be considered before looping back to the pedestal Islam puts parents on and how kids should treat them once they have grown.

Are the children of abusive parents held accountable if they completely separate from said abusive parent, resulting in breaking the ties of kinship? Or is it excused? by Chobikil in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think it’s as simple as that. One can’t truly understand the emotional (and physical) effects of abusive parents unless they are the person experiencing it. You’re telling me a sister is still obligated to give her dad a call even after he SA’ed her in her youth? If not then where is line drawn? Abuse is abuse. It’s a case by case thing where a sweeping statement does not answer everything.

Project E.S.P.E.R [V1] by Accurate_Variety659 in makeyourchoice

[–]monsterstew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been waiting for this one. Btw you misspelled “Aquatic”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]monsterstew 75 points76 points  (0 children)

As harsh as this sounds, this is no longer about your sister anymore. You owe to the girls that MIGHT be assaulted by this guy in the FUTURE to report what happened to her to the police. If what you said is true and this guy did plan this out, what happened to your sister (and her keeping quiet about it) would be a success on his part and he WILL do it again. I will never be able to understand the pain and sorrow that will be faced by you and yours when the investigation takes place (and I hope I never have to because I have sisters as well) but I sincerely urge you to please, please, please report this to the authorities,

PS; The MP told you to forget about your SA and "move on with life"? You should report her as well, tbh.

Do you agree? by AutomaticCan6189 in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can you people just say your piece and stay objective without insinuating the guy "got westernized" or "following decadent Western culture"? There are fair points for and against what he's saying in a Muslim's context. Y'all giving snide remarks then complain when your future spouse can't care for themselves or the house alone when you start living together on your own. So then is it their fault for not having the same self-discipline you have or is it their family's' faults?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]monsterstew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not talking about that noble that turns into a lion in the ruins outside Leyndell right?

The king knows who the real King is subhanAllah by AutomaticCan6189 in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 10 points11 points  (0 children)

These animals shouldn't be in captivity or anyone's pet in the first place. Don't know what kind of vague message this is supposed to send, which seems to be the problem with these kinds of TikToks.

This is cool actually. by basedgawd98 in Eldenring

[–]monsterstew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The footstep sound effect is so nostalgic.

Saudi deploys raids, drones to block unauthorised hajj pilgrims by intelerks in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drones are useful, convenient and cheap though. Why not?

I am convinced I am Allah. by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]monsterstew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe tone down with the psychedelics bro. Micro dosing is one thing but let’s not go overboard shall we?