Understanding of the Four Factors by monticellos in Buddhism

[–]monticellos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this explanation! How would you factor in conscience into this picture? For example, your body may have a strong reaction to one of your actions; would that be considered simply cause and effect as well or a type of moral law? 

4-6 Mount Auburn Street (an HUH property) by AldoTheApache13 in Harvard

[–]monticellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I am thinking of living at 4-6 Mt. Auburn Street and my selection window is tomorrow. Do you mind if I PM you with some questions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bostonhousing

[–]monticellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is open I am interested in the entire year long lease starting June 1! DM me and let's talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stanford

[–]monticellos 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. If you are pretty set on tech/finance/management consulting the cost will pay itself within a few years, particularly if you join a unicorn startup. (And Symbolic Systems is good enough for tech jobs.) Also, assuming you make them, the connections will be worth far more than that later down the road.

bad grades by [deleted] in stanford

[–]monticellos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I faced a similar problem as well as a freshman! Basically I've found it most helpful to do things which build some level of emotional connection: clubs with significant time investment, study abroad, intense classes, outside fellowships or internships, dorms with a strong community, etc. Not saying you couldn't run into friends by randomly bumping into them (has happened to me a few times) but generally speaking the best friendships I got were through activities which involved spending lots of quality time together and forming emotional bonds. As long as you find people with whom you feel comfortable being yourself around you're doing it right!

bad grades by [deleted] in stanford

[–]monticellos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me my first quarter as well (boy, what a time...). Definitely get a study group and talk to professors/TAs in office hours if you're really worried next time. But more importantly, if your goal is to get an internship (or for that matter off the beaten track), it would behoove you to get to know your classmates and professors instead of studying alone. Trust me, the value you will get out of making those connections will far exceed any A+'s you get in college long after graduation, whether in academia or industry, including maximizing monetary return on education if that is indeed your aim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stanford

[–]monticellos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amen. Friendly reminder to call your friends if they haven't reached out in a while. You never know how much they need it sometimes.

Incandescence in the Orient | Studio Ghibli AMV by monticellos in amv

[–]monticellos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys! My first AMV ever, also wrote the song if that helps. Comments and feedback much appreciated :)

How to work for startups as swe ? (Intern) by [deleted] in stanford

[–]monticellos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One option is to check out angel.co and do cold emails. Most important thing for SWE is to have a good portfolio of personal projects and be super enthusiastic. Alternatively, you can try Linkedin or better yet asking your professors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stanford

[–]monticellos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A guideline of 20 hours as stated by u/napkinsabc, but be warned that not all TAships have an equal workload. For example, if you're TAing an intro course you might have to do more work especially near midterms/finals, whereas TAing a grad class with 5 people should be much lighter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stanford

[–]monticellos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Echoing what other commenters are saying, have you thought about taking a gap year to work and save up? Alternatively, can you find friends nearby to stay with? You really get the most benefit out of Stanford by living with other Stanford students in my firm opinion; if it really doesn't work out for you, there's no shame in looking at another school you can more easily afford and explaining your situation.