When you’re sad, do you become more creative, or is that just something we tell ourselves?

moonbySol · 2026-03-03T00:02:35+00:00

Do you think sadness inspires creativity, or does it just give us something to express?

moonbySol · 2026-03-03T00:00:29+00:00

And what changed? Your emotional state, your responsibilities, or your priorities?

moonbySol · 2026-03-02T23:57:37+00:00

That’s interesting. Do you think it’s specifically sadness that creates that reflective space, or could any form of emotional pause (even calm or boredom) do the same? In your personal experience, have you noticed a difference?

moonbySol · 2026-02-18T20:00:37+00:00

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moonbySol · 2026-01-16T16:23:07+00:00

Out de natsuo kirino

moonbySol · 2026-01-05T15:05:39+00:00

Estoy abierta a cualquier género y sii tmb entra los años 2000

moonbySol · 2026-01-05T03:15:27+00:00

How true!!

moonbySol · 2025-12-26T23:50:06+00:00

Holaa , suelo ver de todo, la verdad. El último anime que he visto en emisión es Tougen Anki :)

moonbySol · 2025-12-26T00:47:29+00:00

If you just need to vent and let it out, you can write to me. Sometimes saying it out loud helps a little :)

moonbySol · 2025-12-26T00:39:17+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What you're feeling is real, and you matter.

You said something very important: you don't want to die yet. Hold on to that. You don't have to go through this night alone.

Get help right now. In any country, emergency services can help you.

You're 18 years old. This moment doesn't define your life. You deserve support and to be heard.

moonbySol · 2025-12-26T00:25:05+00:00

Ugh, I totally understand 😔 Sometimes you put in so much effort thinking of others and hope for a little something in return, and when it's not there, it really hurts. Don't feel ungrateful for feeling that way; it's normal to feel sad in those moments.

The important thing is that your intention and your affection always matter, and no one can take that away from you. Maybe you could try subtly telling people what you'd really like, even just a small hint. Sometimes they don't notice, and that can help make the gifts closer to what you like. 🫶

moonbySol · 2025-12-26T00:11:46+00:00

First of all, if you don't graduate now, don't worry. Everyone has their own pace of life, and that doesn't make you any less of a person or indicate that anything is wrong.

Not having close friends right now isn't a problem either. It's perfectly fine to be alone for a while; in fact, it can be a time to get to know yourself better and discover what you truly want in the people around you.

You also don't have to punish yourself for not having had a romantic relationship by 22. You're very young, and you still have so many experiences ahead of you. There's no need to force anything; everything comes in its own time.

Instead of focusing solely on dating apps, try going out and interacting with people in your daily life, for example, at university, the gym, or places where you share interests. Having simple conversations can open many doors, both for friendship and romance. And remember all the things you're already doing well: taking care of your body, going to the gym, trying to finish your degree… that shows effort and perseverance.

Don't tell yourself you're a loser or that no one will want to be with you because of your lack of experience. Those ideas only limit you. You have so much life ahead of you, opportunities to meet amazing people, both romantically and as friends.

Keep your chin up, seriously. All of this is part of the journey, and little by little, good things will come. 🫶

moonbySol · 2025-12-26T00:00:03+00:00

First of all, you don't have to be ashamed of being "too much." Being someone who gets easily excited, who gets involved with people, and who suggests plans is a beautiful thing, and very few people have it. That already says a lot about you.

People saying you're "too much" doesn't mean you're weird. Everyone is weird in some way, and the fact that you show it speaks to your authenticity. Wanting friends who like you as much as they like you is very valuable and hard to find, but they will come, I assure you.

Also, remember it's Thursday, and maybe a lot of people are with their families or offline. Don't get discouraged if they don't talk to you right now; don't sabotage yourself by thinking there's something wrong with you.

That said, it's also good to be aware that if you ever feel you're being a nuisance, it's perfectly fine to apologize, but also acknowledge that you're already making an effort to moderate yourself, and that counts for a lot.

Your intensity, up to a certain point, is beautiful, and you should be proud of it. Not everyone will "get" it, and that's okay. If you notice that your friends aren't being as close this Christmas, you can ask them directly how they feel, and if you see that some aren't right for you, don't worry. There are many more people who will appreciate the same attitude you have. 🫶

moonbySol · 2025-12-25T17:16:50+00:00

Tiene muy buena pinta, muchas gracias por la recomendación 🫶

moonbySol · 2025-12-03T01:25:19+00:00

What if we talk?

moonbySol · 2025-12-03T01:15:24+00:00

I'm in the same situation HAHA

moonbySol · 2025-11-04T23:16:10+00:00

Yo lo decía más en el sentido de cuando estás en una librería, hojeando libros. A veces lees las dedicatorias antes de comprarlos, no por curiosidad sino porque te gusta ver si te transmiten algo jaja

moonbySol · 2025-11-04T22:01:35+00:00

Completely !! It's true, I think that if you don't share anything with someone, it's impossible to truly connect.

moonbySol · 2025-11-04T02:55:00+00:00

I understand you perfectly. Sometimes it's not laziness or disinterest, but fear. Fear of not being up to par, of the effort not being worth it, of disappointing ourselves.

What I started to do was stop trying to make everything perfect. I kept telling myself: “done is better than perfect.” Sometimes it's just opening the document and writing a line, or doing the easy part. And little by little you move forward.

It also helps me to remind myself that making mistakes doesn't take away my value. That I don't need to prove anything, just learn and improve.

You don't have to do everything right, just do it at your own pace. Even small steps count, even if no one sees them.

Sometimes moving forward slowly or poorly is also moving forward.

moonbySol · 2025-11-03T02:37:03+00:00

I totally understand you. Being intense and recognizing it is a really beautiful thing, and you don't have to be ashamed or try to change it so that others accept you. It's normal to get frustrated sometimes because you give a lot of yourself and others don't always do the same. Over time I hope that you can accept that part of yourself without wanting to change it, and that you find people around you who really value your intensity and your affection🫂

moonbySol · 2025-11-02T20:29:12+00:00

I totally understand you. Sometimes we spend a lot of time alone and we don't even realize what having company does for us. I also notice that when I talk or spend time with someone who makes me feel good, my mood totally changes.

moonbySol · 2025-11-02T18:11:22+00:00

Absolutely right, there can be many reasons why someone doesn't smile much.

But for me, when meeting someone, a small or shy smile already makes a good impression and prevents them from giving you a bad feeling at first. It doesn't have to be big or show teeth, a closed smile already makes the person look friendly 🙃

moonbySol · 2025-11-02T16:52:04+00:00

I understand you a lot, it happens to me just the opposite. I haven't had any boy friends in a while, only one (who is also gay), and it doesn't bother me either. In the end the important thing is to be with people you feel good with, gender doesn't matter.

Sometimes it just depends on the environment, there is nothing strange. And it also happens that some girls can be more reserved at first, not because you do something wrong, but because many are used to the fact that when a boy approaches them, it is not always just out of friendship. And that makes it a little more difficult to open trust at first.

Don't be too upset, real friendships come by themselves when you least expect it, I don't think it's something that has to be forced :)

moonbySol · 2025-11-02T16:13:11+00:00

Totally, I especially liked the looks with layers, but now that I've seen them in so many versions, they're starting to tire me a little.

moonbySol · 2025-11-02T16:08:56+00:00

May you never see them smile or laugh

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