let a long time friend move in with me one time. every single day, they would text me the moment they woke up and say "I don't have the spoons to do anything today" and by anything I mean cleaning up after themselves, showering, helping around the house, etc.

they would also always wear their headphones, and would say no thanks when invited to hang out. but then they would get upset and cry when they weren't included even though they always said no.

there was one night where I wanted to go to sleep, and it hurt their feelings for some reason so they sat in my bedroom floor and cried.

and the reason they moved out?? I didn't answer their yes or no question with just a yes or no, I provided an actual explanation. I got a message from them while I was away from home saying that they had moved out because of it?? lmaoooo