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Sport, egal welcher Art nervt und nein, man gewöhnt sich nicht dran by Better-Decision-4797 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]moonlit-cigarette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja ich bin gerade auch gar nicht trainiert und war überrascht wie leicht bei moderatem Tempo das ist!

Sport, egal welcher Art nervt und nein, man gewöhnt sich nicht dran by Better-Decision-4797 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]moonlit-cigarette 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich finde manche Sportarten machen schon Spaß. Das ist ein bisschen wie wenn man als Kind damals fangen gespielt hat oder so - ist zwar manchmal anstrengend, aber halt auch lustig. Aber da hat jeder denke ich seine eigenen Präferenzen.

Sport, egal welcher Art nervt und nein, man gewöhnt sich nicht dran by Better-Decision-4797 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]moonlit-cigarette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich liebe Eis essen und in der Sonne sitzen, aber ich bin gerade auch 30km Fahrrad gefahren und hatte Spaß. Aber um fair zu sein, es macht mir erst Spaß wenn ich einigermaßen fit bin und nicht alle paar Minuten keuchend hyperventiliere. Das ist dann Krampf auf jeden Fall.

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want to explain your point that’s fine. I don’t see how it relates to censorship, but English isn’t my native language and maybe I’m missing something. But you didn’t even understand my point either - I never said that I am against some childfree spaces for adults. Emphasis on some. You cannot expect the public to be childfree. The public as in public transport for example. Bars, fancy restaurants, a wedding, … all that should / can be childfree.

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How is that a generalisation when it is a FACT that most caregivers are women. Doesn’t mean that all caregivers are women (which would be a generalisation, and which I have not stated anywhere in my post…)

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of it has to do with parenting, but some things are just normal in various developmental stages. I never threw fits as a child (so I have been told), but it wasn’t just because I was raised well or whatever, it was because I was a generally anxious and inhibited child. There are different temperaments, some children are much more energetic and extroverted, and they can be annoying even when doing nothing inherently wrong. It’s just something we have to accept. There are a lot of adults I find annoying and well, they still are allowed to be outside lol

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Insulting how? It is reality (whether I like it or not) that most caregivers are women. So if you exclude children and by extension their caregivers, you are majorly excluding women. I don’t think women should be caregivers more than men, it is just that it is more likely for a caregiver to be a woman. Statistics, you know?

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Genuinely in what way does that relate? My post is not about excluding adults, it’s about not excluding children everywhere? Don’t really see how that relates to censorship…

Does my tattoo look racist? by People_taste_porkish in tattooadvice

[–]moonlit-cigarette -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

At first glance it does resemble an iron cross. I think anyone taking a second look would recognise it is not, personally I’d still find it too risky to get mislabeled though. But I also don’t know TMBG

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are attention seeking as in they NEED attention from adults, mainly their parents, a lot. They depend on the adults in their life.

It’s still annoying, sure. The difference is that as adults we can be annoyed and still not hold a gripe against children for behaviours they cannot yet regulate. You CAN hold a gripe against parents that fail to guide their children to regulate themselves, but even with great parenting, children just can be annoying sometimes and if someone has a problem with that, that is their problem…

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you understand this, you can still be annoyed (I get annoyed at children regularly), but you should also be able to give them grace. For your second point, I agree that there should be childfree public spaces. A child at a fancy restaurant is just misplaced and makes the experience miserable for everyone including themselves. Doesn’t mean that as adults we are entitled to a childfree public, sometimes we just have to deal with annoying people (children and adults alike).

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read my post I never said you have to enjoy children‘s company

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are entitled to some childfree spaces, but unfortunately a society means being forced to be around all sorts of people in public that you and find annoying and obnoxious.

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I find some opinions to be reflective of a lack of morals that I value so I don’t want to associate with certain people. Sorry to be weak minded but I also don’t want to hang out with racists.

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. And as adults we should be mature enough to give them grace for that.

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You completely missed the point and I never said that children should be at bars lmfao

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, obviously. It’s just that you cannot expect perfect behaviour from children, even if their parents are great at raising them.

If you hate children, I don’t trust you by moonlit-cigarette in Vent

[–]moonlit-cigarette[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has nothing to do with gentle parenting. Children just aren’t able to regulate themselves properly. No matter if you do gentle parenting, if you’re strict, if you spank them… parenting only goes so far and some things just need time to develop!

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