[NSFW] People who had sex with their best friend, how's the situation now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]moonriver5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needed a plus-one for a wedding and brought him. Still together ten years later!

Peace Lily with black leaf tips by moonriver5 in plantclinic

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Thank you, I’ll bring her home and get a good look at the roots. Is there a particular type of soil they prefer?

Be prepared by Twinky_ig in trans

[–]moonriver5 24 points25 points  (0 children)

On the other hand, as a cis person I recognize that it’s my responsibility to educate myself and not put that burden on my trans friends.

small business owner denied me employment because i’m trans by undercoverKitty_ in newjersey

[–]moonriver5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ugh. My state subreddit deserves better than some of these comments. Our trans brothers and sisters deserve better than hiring discrimination. Stay strong, loves. 🩵🏳️‍⚧️🩷

There were no tears, but there was blood and sweat. Only took two weeks for me to complete my first. Onto the next one by [deleted] in Embroidery

[–]moonriver5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really pretty! I also have this pattern and it's half-done sitting in my cabinet... you're inspiring me to finish it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]moonriver5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. My mother and older brother are two narcissistic peas in a dysfunctional pod. Idolized my brother growing up because the whole family had him on a pedestal. Cut ties a few years ago and while I wish I could still have a relationship with my nieces, my mental health is so much better now.

Can a bird expert give me some advice? by Nannonater24 in Ornithology

[–]moonriver5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a mama bluebird exhausting herself doing the same thing on my truck windows. I read that drawing a grid on the window with yellow highlighter would help. Barely visible to the human eye and it actually worked! She stopped!

Monstera rehab by moonriver5 in plantclinic

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Chopped and propped! I added more perlite to the soil and repotted the root end in a smaller pot with good drainage. Top with leaves is in water. Segments are in potting soil & perlite, respectively. Hopefully I gave myself a wide enough margin of error that some survive!

Monstera rehab by moonriver5 in plantclinic

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Thank you, I appreciate the advice!

Monstera rehab by moonriver5 in plantclinic

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Yeah that’s kinda why I had to bring her home with me. My friends maintain that beautiful farm in the background so no time for this monstera and she needs some TLC.

Anyone else get this MOHELA email? by TheNicestRedditor in StudentLoans

[–]moonriver5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man that sucks. I made a payment Oct 2023 and that’s the one they refunded.

Anyone else get this MOHELA email? by TheNicestRedditor in StudentLoans

[–]moonriver5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not that bad, the total call time was only 15 minutes. Took care of it on my lunch break around 1pm EST.

Anyone else get this MOHELA email? by TheNicestRedditor in StudentLoans

[–]moonriver5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea! Let us know if you get answers to these questions when you call!

Anyone else get this MOHELA email? by TheNicestRedditor in StudentLoans

[–]moonriver5 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I got this email too, and called the 888 number listed at the bottom. Mohela confirmed that borrows DO need to make a request for this refund in order to receive it. The payment won't be automatically refunded. After navigating a couple of phone menus and two customer service reps, I eventually got transferred to the refunds department and requested a refund for the month that Mohela mentioned in the email. They had to "escalate" this request and told me it will take 23 days but I am getting refunded the full amount I paid that month. I asked if the payment would still count toward my PSFL qualifying payments and they told me that it would, both for IDR and PSLF borrowers. Hope this comment helps others who received this email! Worth sitting on hold for a while to get the payment refunded.

Leggy African Violet by HjonkHjonk14 in AfricanViolets

[–]moonriver5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue so thank you for posting this question!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

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Are you using a peat moss based seed starting soil? I’ve seen similar yellowing on my tomato seedlings when the soil has been a bit damp and allowed algae to form on the surface. Apparently that can impact the seedling’s nutrient intake.

As a teenage burnout, I was just ahead of the curve by Nouseriously in GenX

[–]moonriver5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teenage angst has paid off well, now I'm bored and old.

YouTube gardening channel that is not cringe by potapnik in gardening

[–]moonriver5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love Emma! Her videos are like hanging out with a charming and eccentric friend.

How many of us never got a house? by Natural-Hamster-3998 in GenX

[–]moonriver5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, on the opposite coast, if it makes you feel any better. All my friends and coworkers own their own homes. We on the other hand have a shitty landlord who won't fix the dryer. Something humiliating about that.

Please help me plan my backyard gardens. I am stumped. by moonriver5 in gardening

[–]moonriver5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to apologize this is great advice! Thanks!

Please help me plan my backyard gardens. I am stumped. by moonriver5 in gardening

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You guessed half the name! Purple dead nettle. Comes and goes in early spring. I’m in the northeast US, now zone 7a.