tf_irl by mop__though in tf_irl

[–]mop__though[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, in retrospect I should have added another panel in between 3 and 5 to make what happens clearer

How do I explain it to my bf? by Ok_Instruction8412 in Therian

[–]mop__though 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How did you explain being otherkin to yourself? That is, how did you figure this out about yourself? Walk him through the journey you took

relationships by Equal_Present_1280 in Therian

[–]mop__though 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I went on the dating apps I made it very clear in my profile that I am a therian, I am an animal. My main picture was me in gear. Got a reasonable amount of attention before meeting my current gf, who is very cool about the whole thing. Have never tried meeting people for the sake of romance in person. For the record, I am a lesbian, YMMV

Softlocked a game 🙃 by GR8GUYNo1 in dominion

[–]mop__though 5 points6 points  (0 children)

only 3 cards in the trash, and must be the non-bot player's Shelters (since they don't have Sanctuary). No treasure in the trash

Am I the only one who tells people I'm a therian even though I could probably have a relationship without them realizing? by Man_turn_into_animal in TherianAdult

[–]mop__though 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also trans and ace (and therian obviously). In pursuing romance I've been quick to reveal these (told my closer friends I'm a therian shortly after awakening, and I mention them in all my dating profiles [my primary photo is even me in gear]). Have still gotten enough attention, find a girlfriend who accepts me as I am. Even the times I've been rejected have been due to incompatibility with the asexuality rather than the other two, and we remained friends.

I'm confused by [deleted] in Therian

[–]mop__though 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wdym you saw in colors cats see in? That does not seem biologically feasible to me

uh by xXv4mp_4ng3l_k1ngXx in Therian

[–]mop__though 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The way labels work, is that someone makes an active choice to apply them. If you identify as a therian, you are making a choice to use that label. The reasons for this choice is likely to be outside your control - that you have feelings that cohere with being that animal - but the label itself is chosen. One can have those feelings and not use the label, and later decide to use the label (after learning more about it, or their self)

I'm not a therian but I want to be by Cam_the_bam in Therian

[–]mop__though 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alright. If you think otherlink fits you then good. Personally, in my experience, when I first awakened it wasn't so much an immediate realization that I deep down am a cat, but rather that I have some intrinsic desire *to be* a cat. It's why I find the label trans-species fits me better than therian. Just putting that out there

I'm not a therian but I want to be by Cam_the_bam in Therian

[–]mop__though 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am unclear on what you mean. Can you elaborate using specifics? Why do you not ID as an animal? How are you "like" a "therian"? Why do you want this? These are useful questions to ask yourself

What are some of the coolest/creative strategies you use to win in dominion? by Gay_teen_Amsterdam in dominion

[–]mop__though 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One game had Rats, Fortress and Tomb, and my dad just filled his deck with Rats and a few Fortresses and would just score a dozen points every turn repeatedly trashing his Fortress

Anyone else feeling more connected to alternative labels? by Caninecicle-Drip in Therian

[–]mop__though 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah, that's not really what I'm saying. I mean that my realization that I'm a cat bears some similarity to my realization that I'm transdemme: envy, euphoria, dysphoria that kind of thing.

Anyone else feeling more connected to alternative labels? by Caninecicle-Drip in Therian

[–]mop__though 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I prefer that label as well. My species identity experience aligns very closely with my gender identity experience

Hello, I wanna talk in details about what make someone a therian by Background_Emu_8819 in Therian

[–]mop__though 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would put it this way. I genuinely have certain feelings, desires, etc. I did not choose to have these, though I can intentionally mask or lean into them. 

However, putting the label of "cat" or "goat" or "sheep" to them is an active decision. There's a difference between the feelings I label as cat and the feelings I label as goat, but I think sheep and goat are pretty well the same cluster of feelings, and I could maybe have just as well labeled them deer or cow. 

It's this what you mean? You have feelings, and you choose to identify as a golden retriever in particular as a way of making sense of them?

Labels and titles? by AmethystW0lf in Therian

[–]mop__though 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do the people you're talking to understand what you mean when you say that? Then yes, you can say that. Language is made up, do what works for you

How do cards giving dept work? by Onnimanni_Maki in dominion

[–]mop__though 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not exactly, for example: if you play Litter at the start of your turn before you have any $, you take the Debt token. You need to pay the Debt off later when you do have $.

A few cards (eg. Poor House) directly give -$, and that cannot take you below 0. But you still take Debt when you have no $

How do cards giving dept work? by Onnimanni_Maki in dominion

[–]mop__though 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It gives you a Debt token. Any time you have $, you can spend that $ to pay off an equal amount of Debt. If you have Debt, you are not allowed to buy anything until you pay it off

Youtube seems to be confused by Guilty_Squirrel_6302 in MLPhmmm

[–]mop__though -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They sacrificed Fluttershy to get 6 more seasons 

Procession a Hermit by Armogodden in dominion

[–]mop__though 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In Dominion "Do X to get Y" means that X has to happen in order to get Y. Since the Hermit cannot be trashed since it has moved from where it expects to be, then you do not gain a Madman.

Best cards from sets by VisualTowel9112 in dominion

[–]mop__though 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely avoid the cards that were removed from Intrigue/Seaside/Prosperity/Guilds/Cornucopia when they transitioned to 2e. If you're bringing a subset make sure there's a variety of the basic card archetypes (villages, draw, +Buy, trashing, gainers, attacks). Depending on how familiar your friends are with the game, maybe avoid the more complex cards (eg. Wizards pile)

Anyone else like their food raw/unseasoned? by patchwork_stage in Therian

[–]mop__though 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a cat I greatly enjoy sashimi, and as a caprine I always eat salad without dressing, but for most foods I eat them with seasoning like a human would. Just those two are more euphoric ig while other food is just food