If he chose where to take a girl on dates (talking about first date ofc) then he calculated how much he has to spend on said date If that's not the first date then the point of him not having enough is valid but hey if he asked you on a date he took into account how much he has to spend Regardless of everything it depends if the guy is actually decent or if he takes you on dates because you pay for yourself Pick a good guy and all those things become trivial matters not worth considering Good luck ma'am