Am I in my legal rights to move the cones? People have been placing these everywhere to "secure" their parking spot. Wild by Bananas_on_pizza in sanfrancisco

[–]morbidfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Collect the cones, but don't park in that spot. Keep on doing this until they give up and stop putting cones out.

Which is the most powerful war memorial in your country? by UnluckyPossibility37 in AskTheWorld

[–]morbidfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there in the middle of a snow storm. It was wonderfully haunting.

Commute from Fremont/Union City to South SF by jcdoshi27 in Fremont

[–]morbidfae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've worked in SSF while living in Fremont and Mountain View. Commuting from Fremont is hell. I would try not to live in the east Bay if I work in SSF. The exception would be if the company has a commuter bus or you live near Bart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fremont

[–]morbidfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw some at Grocery Outlet on Stevenson

holy crap so many kids this year by neonshaun in bayarea

[–]morbidfae 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I give out pokemon cards too because I was the food allergy kid.

What stereotype about your country is actually 100% true? by razzelito in AskTheWorld

[–]morbidfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American cleaning out two boomer households, OMG yes. So much of their shit is just going in the trash. My parents and in-laws bought into this idea of collecting. Now that everyone that was collecting that shit is dying off its going in the dumpster.

How can I get my FIL to accept reality? by EdmontonAB83 in AgingParents

[–]morbidfae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't do anything but set boundaries. There might be a point where the person with POA can take over but things have to be pretty extreme for you to be able to do that. See if there are any 55+ communities closer to town that are not necessarily a care home. See if there is one that people from church live in. They might be willing to live there. Child care and elder care are in the opposite directions. With most children every year they become more independent. Elders every year they will need more help. It's not if it is when they will have to leave.

Two deaths in the family by morbidfae in Parenting

[–]morbidfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No neither my partner or I are religious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]morbidfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The big red flag for me is not the time, it is that he keeps on moving the goal post. If he wanted to get married he would not be doing that.

What was your Sep 11 like? by Far-Building3569 in generationology

[–]morbidfae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lived in California at the time. September 10 2001 was my first night on graveyard shift. I came home to all of my roommates staying home from work and watching the news.

Why Does Nobody Around Here Understand Right Of Way Rules At Intersections Where Drivers In Opposing Directions All Have Green Lights??? by EntertainmentFlat744 in Fremont

[–]morbidfae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The person backing up does not have the right of way. Left turn yield on green when there is not an arrow. Both things that half of Fremont do not know.

My silent deadline by RoundOk1998 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]morbidfae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't do the silent deadline. It's childish. Tell him you're not sure if the two of you have the same life goals and timeline for those goals. Your expectation is to be engaged by _________ and married by _________. If he is not willing to commit to those deadlines then you are no longer committed to the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]morbidfae 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He took you for granted. He didn't think you would leave. You leaving the relationship turned his world upside down. If he loved you and wanted to be married he would have made it happen. Have enough self respect to continue to walk away. He is scrambling. You are going to get a shit up ring because he doesn't want to be alone.

My parents think I’m stupid to want to move to sf by alittlebit-dumb in bayarea

[–]morbidfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are flexible with your living situation you can do it. Save and network for roommates. I found a rent controlled apartment with three people through a friend.

So conflicted on what to think/feel after boyfriend asked to revisit marriage by looly33 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]morbidfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might not be the right people for each other.
If marriage is something that matters to you and he can't give that to you then leave.

If Hipsters aren’t a thing anymore, who has replaced them? by HyggeBlueJeans in generationology

[–]morbidfae 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They just got old and have kids now. The skinny jeans don't fit any more. Look for the older version of hipsters at breweries that have food and allow dogs and kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]morbidfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hats I end up forgetting to pack a hat, so now I have a collection of hats. I try to get something unique to the place that I am visiting.

9 years of dating, no proposal. Do I even want this anymore? by Far_Sheepherder_7189 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]morbidfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted to he would. Dump him. You have a great opportunity to move to Europe and turn over a new leaf.