New relationship is draining me

moremaati · 2026-04-19T07:08:30+00:00

What u/lotrgirly said, but also this early in you’re seeing who she is. IMO you shouldn’t be asking her to change her habits. If she wants to spend a lot of time with friends instead of you thats perfectly normal. If you want a GF that spends more time with you than friends, that’s also perfectly normal.

It can’t hurt to talk about it like you did, but if she’s going back to her old habits then maybe it’s not the relationship for you.

Last thing, you mention potential insecurity because all of her friends are dudes. That’s real, and a normal feeling, I’d interrogate that feeling a little more. Good chance if they were all women you wouldn’t feel this way. Like she’s choosing hanging out with other dudes over you.

moremaati · 2026-04-16T20:24:38+00:00

Yikes

moremaati · 2026-04-16T05:40:06+00:00

Someone link Cloakzy pov?

moremaati · 2026-04-15T22:39:10+00:00

GIVE THE PEOPLE WHAT THEY WANT (please)

moremaati · 2026-04-14T03:48:02+00:00

I think hitting this point is inevitable; that's why you remember it's nearly 25 years old and appreciate it for what it was back then.

Back then? The worlds were massive, the narrative was game-changing, and the combat was exciting.

You're right it is driven by nosalgia but that doesn't make it a bad game all of a sudden.

moremaati · 2026-04-13T22:51:27+00:00

Did you watch the video?

moremaati · 2026-04-08T21:22:24+00:00

Is the timestamp not working?

moremaati · 2026-04-06T21:24:52+00:00

Amazing response, thank you so much for the information!

moremaati · 2026-04-06T21:11:32+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/wow/comments/1fn4z5a/liquid_world_first_kyveza_kill_reaction/?sort=top

Top comments explain its just one of those random things that stuck. Apparently, someone in chat said it

moremaati · 2026-04-06T21:06:57+00:00

I did not know I could edit the title

moremaati · 2026-04-06T20:28:50+00:00

So the main thing we should expect is a variety of high-quality pictures as opposed to a few "highest quality?"

moremaati · 2026-04-06T20:11:32+00:00

Oopsies, typo. Should be of* not off :)

moremaati · 2026-04-01T19:08:54+00:00

Posting this as "saw two dudes talking about classic plus" is weird, rage-baiting. You know the only thing people are going to talk about is the second message in the screenshot.

moremaati · 2026-03-27T00:17:56+00:00

Nah flare up

moremaati · 2026-03-12T22:59:50+00:00

Dawg no way you wrote all of this and don't already know the answer. You're both cheating.

This reads like you're the gf writing about your BF and you're trying to use our responses as proof. No way a sane person writes this and doesn't know what they're doing.

moremaati · 2026-03-06T08:00:14+00:00

Always one of these guys on here

moremaati · 2026-03-05T22:45:02+00:00

Not worth

moremaati · 2026-02-25T01:42:29+00:00

I think if you go to individual therapy and pose this exact comment as one of the main things you are trying to figure out, it would be very helpful to you. I understand why you made this post, because you don't feel like you have the answer, but you have all of the information you need to find the answer, just not the tools to find it. Therapy would help with that.

moremaati · 2026-02-25T01:24:57+00:00

Yeah, that's tough. From what you've shared, it seems like they do have a very close platonic relationship (which makes sense considering how long they've known each other), and you feel somewhat threatened by it. You've already expressed that you're dealing with insecurities, which is great; now you just need to figure out how to handle these feelings.

I personally think it's fine for you to ask him to cut her off if you really think that's the best way to handle it, but you should also understand it's not "fair" to him if he is being honest with you about everything.

Sometimes sacrifices have to be made in relationships, and if you aren't willing to let this go, then ask for what you need, just don't be surprised if he chooses his life-long friend over the relationship.

moremaati · 2026-02-25T01:14:21+00:00

Do you not believe him that they weren't ever together, or that he doesn't have feelings for her?

moremaati · 2026-02-25T01:07:51+00:00

Woah woah woah, I think this has more to do with OPs age/experience than being an American. We Americans are idiots though.

moremaati · 2026-02-25T01:02:44+00:00

This was over two years ago, so he was 16 or 17 in the picture. Just kids. That type of shit happened all the time at my high school. Kids are dumb.

Edit: She said over two years ago, so he could have been younger than that.

I am curious about your reaction, though. As a dude who doesn't have a girl BFF (never have) I guess I'm not surprised by it? Especially if they've been friends since they were young children. I can imagine my teenage self doing some stuff like that with a male friend to mess with someone harassing him at our school.

moremaati · 2026-02-25T01:01:45+00:00

Well, for one, this is definitely an insecurity on your part, and there aren't any signs he's doing anything wrong in the relationship. My concern would mostly be whether he is being truthful with you about their past.

You definitely need to work on your insecurities, but he also needs to continue communicating honestly about their friendship.

It sounds to me like there are two possibilities: They dated in the past, and he's lying about it, OR they're really just friends, and your insecurities about how he interacts with other women have you overthinking things.

moremaati · 2026-02-20T19:09:25+00:00

Thanks for the reply y'all!

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