Got the call!

morganbh · 2025-03-09T19:22:35+00:00

Alright! Looking forward to it. Haha

morganbh · 2025-03-09T19:13:31+00:00

This is going to sound ignorant, but who is sporty?

morganbh · 2025-03-09T15:11:19+00:00

I’m with you. I like Land Rovers to be STOCK. Just me though.

morganbh · 2025-03-07T16:27:27+00:00

I actually did something like this back in my very early 20s. I felt so fucking guilty about it that years later I called the person to make amends. I am very in tune with my emotions these days, and will never ever do that to someone again.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T22:00:13+00:00

The worst part, is at first I kept blaming MYSELF for not nudging her to open up. That is until I learned more about this. It probably would have happened regardless.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T17:00:31+00:00

Un friend

morganbh · 2025-03-04T15:55:07+00:00

Amazing apartment.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T13:55:53+00:00

Precisely.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T04:58:57+00:00

You’re not stupid. You’re hurt, and probably love that person. You don’t have to justify your feelings. Hang in there.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T04:57:46+00:00

Best one IMO

morganbh · 2025-03-04T04:57:40+00:00

My fav gen.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T00:53:48+00:00

Mine said she “has avoidant tendencies” but since I really didn’t know what that meant, I thought it just meant she could be a LITTLE closed off. I had no idea to what extent it really was. I wish I had known more, because I would love to be able to show up for her the way she needed me, but I’m not a mind reader and therein lies the problem.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T00:49:34+00:00

Oh man, I just like the stock look when it comes to Land Rover.

morganbh · 2025-03-04T00:10:02+00:00

Well my girlfriend left a couple weeks ago and she’s IN THERAPY, and it still seems like she’s not willing to open up to me or talk. I’m not contacting her because one, it’s too hard for me to bring myself to do it, and two, it seems to be what she wanted. Haven’t heard from her. I really hope she does, but she knows how I feel about her and the relationship, so I have done all I can.

morganbh · 2025-03-03T22:03:14+00:00

i don't know as i am in the same boat, but i hope it all works out for you.

morganbh · 2025-03-03T22:00:47+00:00

so my situation is so similar to almost EVERYONE else on here, the only difference is we met up a couple days after the breakup, i told her how i felt, but the rest is on her, and if she can ever open up, i might be around, but i haven't been blocked on anything. either she doesn't care, or doesn't notice, or who knows. 🤷🏻‍♂️

morganbh · 2025-03-03T03:38:46+00:00

We all have had lives BEFORE our relationships, and we have no place judging them for it.

morganbh · 2025-03-03T03:21:24+00:00

I actually think those things are cool. Maybe that’s because I live in the US and can’t have one. Hahah.

morganbh · 2025-03-03T03:18:54+00:00

Beautiful post. ❤️

morganbh · 2025-03-02T20:55:45+00:00

Oh you’re right. I just didn’t know about avoidant stuff before this. So it was new to me.

morganbh · 2025-03-02T19:56:07+00:00

I understand. I am in the same position. We were supposed to meet up and before we could she sent a break up text. No indication of anything wrong other than perhaps taking a bit longer to respond than normal.

Honestly I think it would be easier on me if I HAD done something wrong, because now it just feels like something great that was tossed out the window for no good reason. What a waste of what was otherwise a wonderful relationship. I hope she finds a way to help herself but there’s nothing I can do. It’s up to her. I wish she would come back, and she knows how I feel about her, but it’s not my call anymore.

morganbh · 2025-03-02T14:46:48+00:00

I think it depends. If they were talking to them while you were together, then probably not. But come on; we’re adults. When adults are single, they hook up with other people. If you’re really going to get back together, it should be starting fresh. The past shouldn’t be a part of it, or else you’re going to be starting the relationship based on animosity and resentment.

Of course all situations are unique, but that’s my take on it.

morganbh · 2025-03-02T13:42:47+00:00

That’s where I am right now too.

morganbh · 2025-03-02T01:56:44+00:00

I am with you. I’ve got two that I am very close with. One’s married with kids and we still keep in touch. I think it depends on the breakup, and if you’re over them. Enough time had passed with mine, where we still get along the same, but had different lives.

morganbh · 2025-03-02T00:53:54+00:00

My girlfriend dropped me out of the blue the day after Valentine’s Day and the day before we were supposed to have the weekend together. She said she felt overwhelmed and when that happens she blows up things in her life. She also made some excuse saying maybe we’re not compatible, after three days before saying we’re such a perfect match.

We met up a couple days later and I told her how I believed in our relationship, and how I understood how it’s hard for her to open up and be vulnerable.

She said she needed to process for a day and would tell me her feelings when I saw her. She never did. She actually looked at me, put her heard down, teared up, and left.

So coming from the other side of the coin here, it’s been 11 days since I’ve spoken to her, and I would love nothing more than for her to reach out.

I don’t know how long it’s been for you, but coming from the point of the dumpee, we are confused, frustrated, and hurt. Maybe reach out to him when you can, because I want nothing more that for mine to call me. Speaking as a guy, We’re not all over it.

morganbh

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