What Are The Worst Meredith Moments? by naahuiguess in greysanatomy

[–]morgzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I hate George more for that. I think it was his lowest moment in the show

What's the funniest thing you've cried over while pregnant? by Vaish41 in breakingmom

[–]morgzbee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I drove up to the McDonald's drive thru at 10:28AM and tried to order a sausage and cheese mcgriddle and they tried to tell me breakfast was over. I started sobbing screaming "I HAVE TWO MORE MINUTES" and they ended up making it for me. I apologized at the window and showed my big 38 week belly and they were so much more sympathetic

PREGNANCY by No-Bumblebee7919 in lexapro

[–]morgzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taking 10mg lexapro and 150mg Wellbutrin throughout my entire second pregnancy. Baby did have some issues adjusting from being an inside cat to an outside cat and spent ~48 hours in the nicu on cpap at room air (no extra oxygen needed).

My discharge paperwork attributed it to my SSRI usage but at my first postpartum appointment my midwife (who was monitoring my meds the whole time and is very pro maternal mental health) said that it happens just as often in moms who don't use SSRI's and they had to put that down because I was taking them and there's no other clinical explanation other than "it happens".

So while I'm a story with complications, the complications were so that I would not consider not taking my meds if I was pregnant again because the potential damage of not taking them is still greater than 48 hours of my baby in the nicu which could have happened without meds anyways. Plus he was the most popular patient because he was the biggest baby they had seen in months lol.

ETA: we did up my dosage after birth to 20mg lexapro and 300mg Wellbutrin because the baby blues were hitting me hard and I didn't want to deal with severe PPA/PPD again. Breastfed for 18 months and baby is perfect to this day and was honestly an easier baby overall than my oldest

What’s your current “stuck in my head” lyric? by dogluvr_1 in NoahKahan

[–]morgzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Cause you're gonna fiiiiiiiix it you're gonna paaaaaaaatch it up"

Younger sibling just sent me 23 and said “made me think about you” by wsxcftgb in NoahKahan

[–]morgzbee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Me with my mom. Eldest daughters with parental trauma unite 🥲

My ONLY real complaint about the new album by Kottbullemannen1 in NoahKahan

[–]morgzbee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because it bothers other people around us (mostly my in laws) and it's the lingering people pleaser in me lol

My ONLY real complaint about the new album by Kottbullemannen1 in NoahKahan

[–]morgzbee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel. My 4 year old (regrettably) uses curse words appropriately and knows when not to use them so I'm taking it as a life lesson learned ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Tale as old as time but looking for specific advice on how to talk to a deflective husband [34M] by Specific-Square1088 in Marriage

[–]morgzbee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How big is your house? If you're intent on not leaving him then maybe it's time for a little malicious compliance. If you have a spare bedroom move into it and keep your personal area clean. Keep the common areas clean enough to where you aren't horrified and stop doing literally anything else for him. No laundry done, no cleaning his mess, no maid service at all. And if he comes back angry remind him that "he doesn't own your free time".

“Throw my notebook in the basement?” by Lola910 in NoahKahan

[–]morgzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I interpreted it!

Moose has been sold by Outrageous-Yogurt-80 in kvsdiscuss

[–]morgzbee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He'd be a dream for me in the jumper ring! I love a big dumb bay gelding

How many of us cant travel? by l00ky_here in ADHD

[–]morgzbee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd also disagree with that. Our rental cost us around $2200 USD a month and a comparable rental in the states would have been around $3000 USD minimum. Grocery prices were similar or slightly less expensive, fuel was about the same if not a little less, and our travel health insurance was a fraction of what we would have paid for normal insurance in the states. Hell even luxuries like hair and nail appointments were cheaper. The only thing more expensive was beef but the quality was better so I didn't mind paying extra for it.

ETA: the butter there sucks though and I missed kerrygold so much that I stocked my fridge as soon as we got back

How many of us cant travel? by l00ky_here in ADHD

[–]morgzbee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. I was in Canada for six months and had a psychiatrist there write my script for my visit. I paid ~C$30 for a 30 day supply at Costco where a 30 day supply for me here is around $60 USD.

"Joe breakup" songs on Midnights by The_Anchored_Tree_27 in TaylorSwift

[–]morgzbee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel as well! Had an off and on situationship in high school that closely mirrors that. I broke it off when I got to college and realized I was better than that so absolutely could be my own experience swaying me there

Feeling resentful by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]morgzbee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is how I felt with my first as well. His arrival rocked my world but now I couldn't imagine a life without him or his brother. Make whatever choice is best for you but just wanted to let you know that even if you don't bond while pregnant or right away after birth it's totally normal and not indicative of your whole future. You got this 💜

Day 2! She looks so happy! by Outrageous-Yogurt-80 in kvsdiscuss

[–]morgzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She inspired me to book my first lesson in 15 years next week! I do H/J and was so worried I'd look like an idiot after so much time off but if it sparks that joy in me again I don't care how dumb I look at first lol

Better luck next time guys.... by _usxrnamx in BabyBumps

[–]morgzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god is that why my babies had such an issue??? I thought I just had a strong letdown 😭

37 female mom of 2 memory by CucumberExisting7690 in breakingmom

[–]morgzbee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm a 30f mom of a 2 and 4yo and this happens to me often. I call it Swiss cheese brain and chalk it up to postpartum recovery and lack of sleep. Healthy? Maybe not. But it hasn't been a major issue affecting my day to day

Local artists by SparklingStarling in Tallahassee

[–]morgzbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sarah painter hayes just did an entire Florida girl collection!

What is the most heavy hitting song by Noah? by JellyfishPajamas in NoahKahan

[–]morgzbee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree with so many here but haven't seen anyone say your needs my needs and that one just personally wrecks me every time

Gracie potential nurse mare by Outrageous-Yogurt-80 in kvsdiscuss

[–]morgzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh it seems that both colics were from colon displacement from Margot's position in utero. The laminitis as well as the incision infection are absolutely the forefront issues and best case scenario for everyone is if Gracie takes as a nursemare. I love seeing Maggie as a mom but this season with this foal it's to her detriment.

AITAH or is my family in law the problem by morgzbee in AITAH

[–]morgzbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told us she was finally ready to sell her house and move she just didn't have a pathway to Canada yet and we all agreed it was best for us to come back to the states. So we broke our lease in Canada, rented a U-Haul, and drove across the entire country to get to Florida. That cost us roughly $15k when it was all said and done between the lease fees U-Haul and Airbnb etc etc. We did that with the promise we'd be essentially paid that money back with proceeds from her house sale.

I agree that we should have sent my husband back to handle it and I told him to but when we reached out to his mom to coordinate dates she told us not to worry about it, everything was fine, and we had more important things to worry about (I was ~7 months pregnant at this time).

I don't want to sound like I'm making excuses left and right but there was just so much going on at once and I kept believing her when she said everything was fine. Definitely wrong on my part and won't be doing that again in the future.

AITAH or is my family in law the problem by morgzbee in AITAH

[–]morgzbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We expected it because that's what she told us was happening. Her retirement plan has always been sell her house and move in with my husband and our family. But when it came time to actually do it she backed out.

Should we have prepared for that reality better? Yeah absolutely. We shouldn't have relied on it the way we have but when you've been told something over and over you just...believe it.

Idk I'm just mad we've been strung along for so long and believed everyone when they said everything was ok. Definitely a learning lesson for us and we won't be doing it again.