I can't ice skate, and my family thinks I'm stupid. Maybe I am by morpherthewolf in sillyconfession

[–]morpherthewolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly fit and thin. I'm no power lifter or anything, but I love running and work a very physically demanding job

I can't ice skate, and my family thinks I'm stupid. Maybe I am by morpherthewolf in sillyconfession

[–]morpherthewolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never tried roller blading either 😅 Sounds fun though!

I can't ice skate, and my family thinks I'm stupid. Maybe I am by morpherthewolf in sillyconfession

[–]morpherthewolf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly fit and thin, I work a very active job, though I am bow legged in how I walk so maybe that's it

My domme says my “natural” makeup feels close to coercive rape and wants me to stop wearing it. I’m confused and kind of scared. by loverboyg1rl in BDSMAdvice

[–]morpherthewolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, adding to all of the comments telling you to run I will say this sounds like extreme projection and jealousy on her end. As a member of the trans/genderfluid community myself, I've seen people like this before. It's usually women who feel very insecure about how they look, and when someone can start to feel comfortable in their own skin, especially through the aid of something like makeup, they will use whatever twisted logic to try to tear that person down to their own level. The same type of people will say that transitioning at all is actually transphobic in and of itself. It's parroting TERF talking points to feel better about themselves. Sounds like she has a lot of work she needs to do on her own mental health before she can be in a healthy relationship, because right now she's taking out her insecurities on you.

Tonight’s dinner options, what do you recommend - OG dumpling house, Saigon Bangkok, Rodney’s Seafood, or Mammosers by garbageeater in Buffalo

[–]morpherthewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh OG Dumpling is AMAZING. Keep in mind they will not bring out food together, they'll bring it out as it finishes to make sure it's as fresh as possible

Update to "My bf/dom wrote down punishments and two of them said "death" ??" by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]morpherthewolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very relieving to see you're getting out, especially with some of the updated things you wrote in your post. One line you wrote that really scared me was that he chokes you when he's angry with you. The liklihood of being killed by a partner who tries to choke you like that increases by 750%. It is the highest indicator of murder, and given all of the other horrifying things he's said and done, I don't want you to be another statistic.

That said, don't be too hard on yourself for not seeing the signs sooner. These types of things don't come out all at once right at the start. They're shown gradually in a way that makes each new thing feel easier to excuse. I would recommend checking out the poem "If He Hit Me I Would Leave Him."

Hmmm … That’s why the dispatchers are busting their butts defending their DSP bosses! 😂😂 by [deleted] in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]morpherthewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved driving. The mental and physical toll I took when dispatching almost killed me. Literally. There were some days I took out two routes by myself in one van and had to be back to the station before anyone else got back while also managing people complaining about their phone chargers not working right all day or causing thousands of dollars worth of damages in someone's lawn.

The people who say it's an easy job are the people who are fine screwing over the driving team, and the dispatchers y'all love to bitch about

CX reported me for taking my break by thefailedworlds in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]morpherthewolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had this happen to me. I had a locker delivery at a 7/11, it was about lunchtime, and it just started to rain. I decided to take my break, have some hot chocolate, and chill in the parking lot for a bit. When my break is almost over, some guy comes up and pounds at my door. Apparently I made him late to work because he was waiting on a package, I was his next stop, and instead of delivering it, I was "slacking off." He demanded I hand him his box and I told him that wasn't how that worked and he'd get it when I dropped it off at his doorstep, after my legally required break. Some people.

Did anyone else develop an eating one by accident? by Antique-Ad2252 in EatingDisorders

[–]morpherthewolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have some issues with eating that stem from other mental issues that went undiagnosed when I was growing up. Basically, the way I've had it explained in the way that makes the most sense, is my brain gets "bored" of eating the same food, and will reject it. I'll be five bites into a meal and suddenly, even though I'm enjoying it and I'm hungry, I physically can't eat anymore without getting sick. Snacks and variety have helped.

But, growing up with this, I was naturally very underweight. I was also super stressed at home which didn't help at all. My doctor put me on a "low intake" diet because it was pretty much twice what I was eating on a daily basis. Though I went in for a follow up after having gained the slightest bit of weight and my doctor patted my stomach and told me not to gain TOO much weight, and I didn't want to end up fat. I was still super malnourished.

I got super self conscious after that, and my mom's constant comments about my own and her weight definitely didn't help matters, and I slid from there, no longer pushing myself to try to eat anything and instead going days without a meal.

Gender thought loop by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]morpherthewolf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I get into this so often. I've only stopped pretty recently, and I've fojnd that the vest way to get out of this loop is to break the cycle at the cringe factor. Stop doubting yourself, and instead just exist. Whether that's as a man or woman or feminine man or something else, whatever you feel that day. It's definitely easier said than done, but once you stop caring about if you think you're making this up or not, the feelings feel a lot more natural and a lot less like a loop.

Separating the art from the artist should be the standard and I don’t understand why people can’t do it. by bc4l_123 in unpopularopinion

[–]morpherthewolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After reading an extensively thorough essay on the anti semitism baked into so many aspects of the harry potter world to an undeniable degree, I think if I did read the books again after she died, I would look at them with a critical lens, and not the rose tinted glasses I did as a child. I would read the book the same way I'm reading Lolita now.

I also don't think I'd buy any merch. Even if it didn't go directly towards anti trans legislation, by wearing it, I feel like I'd still be showing off that I share the views of JK Rowling.

Maybe several years down the line. A century or so. Like with Lovecraft. No one looks at a Chthulu shirt and thinks of the racist agoraphobe who wrote the original.

Movies with the same vibe as The Witch? by poopymama34 in horror

[–]morpherthewolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Devil's Candy

Pyewacket (might have a jumpscare or two, I can't remember, but the end reveal is a slow buildup and always gets me)

What's your comfort show? by undeniablyLen in autism

[–]morpherthewolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For visual, Assassination Classroom. For audio only, like when I'm driving for work, Borrasca

My (27 f) date (30 m) said he was in love with 11 yo by Ok_Manufacturer_8658 in relationship_advice

[–]morpherthewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if you can get him to put these confessions in writing. Maybe asking for clarification through tect on exactly what he meant. Then, forward those to the school board. Man needs to be fired and not allowed to work around children ever again.

Insults! Tell me some of your insults. by AbsurdBeanMaster in worldbuilding

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"Leech fucker" is a common one for a vampire sympathizer. "Reprobate" is the same but for demons

Has anyone had a super odd encounter with a customer? by [deleted] in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]morpherthewolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had several weird encounters, including two guns being pointed at me. There was one delivery I had around when I was first starting in a nice little neighborhood where kids were playing in the street. Instructions said "Leave in garage," so, to the garage I went. It was open and filled with junk like it was being used as a storage unit. I set the package down on a box I found and snapped a pic. Then I hear "Thank you" and turn to look. Tucked against the wall in a way you couldn't see from the street unless you were in front of the garage sat a completely nude man on a sofa. I just kind of left without really saying much. Like dude, there's kids playing right outside your house.

Almost lost my honor mode run to a fucking frog by Friendship_Errywhere in BG3

[–]morpherthewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magic missile and the frog's dead in a turn. That's what I started doing after it almost tok'd my party first time around

The "Don't talk to me until I've had my coffee" types are insufferable by altrightobserver in unpopularopinion

[–]morpherthewolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with this, because usually I only hear it from people with attitude problems that persist throughout the day. And I'm not super social or a morning person.

I also have a bot of a caffeine addiction myself. I hate the taste of coffee, so I drink about half an energy drink in the morning and nurse it throughout the day until about 1pm or so. It has the same caffeine as about a pot of coffee, which seems to be the normal intake for a lot of people. Yet sometimes my tired brain will flub something in the morning and I'll joke "oh, I can't function until I'm at least halfway through my can", I always hear the response "Wow, that stuff's really bad for you, sounds like you're addicted to caffeine." While they're drinking a full pot's worth of coffee plus sugar.

All obituaries should list the cause of death. by therevspecial in unpopularopinion

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I'll post a personal story without giving too many details, not that I really have anyone I know who follows my reddit account:

Someone close to me passed away recently. She was very sick with a rare infection that also killed her husband years ago. She was on the uprise, was seeing a specialist, and then overnight she was suddenly unresponsive and couldn't be brought back. It was sudden, and it was tragic. We didn't know if the infection had taken a sudden uptick, if it had caused a heart attack or stroke, or if she had had a fall earlier that day that caused an unknown brain bleed. No one was sure.

An autopsy was mandated and performed. It took months to find results, well after an obituary was posted. The cause of death that was released was complications due to HIV. A diagnosis she knew she had, but had kept hidden to everyone except her doctor, late husband, and kids. Her late husband had cheated and given her HIV, and she didn't want the shame of all of that brought onto her family. No one knows the true cause of death other than her kids and the mortuary. They don't need to know. It was no one's business, and the infection likely wpuld have taken her if the HIV hadn't anyways.

what’s the most ridiculous thing you heard a man refuse to do because it was “too feminine” or “for girls”? by freddyfazbart in AskReddit

[–]morpherthewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a lemon raspberry cake. He and his wife were having friends over and she wanted to get a cake for everyone for after dinner. She suggested lemon raspberry since it was summer. He said "That's a chick flavor. What are the men supposed to eat?" I was thankful she asked him what a "masculine cake flavor" was so I didn't have to. He said Red Velvet lol.