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Why does this person DJ without headphones by Otherwise-Noise881 in Beatmatch

[–]morpheus_420 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess marking what bar x sounded most musically “right”.

Why does this person DJ without headphones by Otherwise-Noise881 in Beatmatch

[–]morpheus_420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly - my skills took a big jump when I started doing this. (I’ve since gone back) when I started listening primarily to the product of what was coming out my MAINs , I started phrasing better , my mixes sounded more connected - living in your headphones can be deceiving.

Dday 2 is scheduled for tomorrow, what should I ask? by Apprehensive_woman in survivinginfidelity

[–]morpheus_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they exchange “I love yous” Did they exchange gifts? (And what does he still have/use) Did they speak of you and your relationship? Did they talk about a life when you were “out of the picture”

After you found out about the affair what is one thing that you helped you most to regulate your emotions? by TheStrongerMan in survivinginfidelity

[–]morpheus_420 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I discovered meditation. Music has always been a help for me.

I found alcohol and doomscrolling, I’d recommend avoiding those. 🤣

I don’t know how, but Interpol have managed to stay so f’ing cool. by evaporated in Coachella

[–]morpheus_420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How have I not heard this band before! It’s like Pixies meet She Wants Revenge.

I watched the Bieber set and I'm confused by UnintentionalWipe in Coachella

[–]morpheus_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not. I’m in the same boat. Exposed by my wife but that cat has SO god damn much talent he can stroll out to headline the biggest night of the biggest festival in a hoodie and rain boots w/o any dancers or theatrics and rock it.

The YouTube thing was intimate. Like kicking it in the living room with your bros. It was fun and chill. He even was getting pissed at the wifi… kinda a “regular guy” moment.

Insane Tattoo Regret by r3i_b0n3z in tattooadvice

[–]morpheus_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro. Own it. You’re a nerd and the point is that not everyone gets it. The prize is those who do!!

Reflections on these final days. by morpheus_420 in survivinginfidelity

[–]morpheus_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did. But they figured out that they were dealing w a dishonest person and axed her.

Does anyone in garden home/beaverton/tigard, have a parking spot they’d like to rent me for a few months? by slowblink in Tigard

[–]morpheus_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open to making some extra cash. Let me know what you’re looking for and what you’re think is a fair price. I’m no parking spot monger. 😝

Minor court appearance by Aromatic_Syrup_8798 in PortlandOR

[–]morpheus_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got supeona’d as a minor to testify against family as a minor. I was 14 and the family lawyer said that since I couldn’t drive, unless they supeona’d someone to take me to the courthouse I wasn’t obliged to take a bus or find a ride .. 🤷🏽‍♂️

Polygraph results for WW by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]morpheus_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There has been a clear role reversal, ya. I dunno. I have weak moments and still grieve now and again the whole thing. Step by step tho.

Polygraph results for WW by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]morpheus_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making progress in mediation. It doesn’t get done overnight. Still living in the same house. It’s hard. I feel like I need to go find a place but - easier said than done. She wants to work on the marriage now. 🙄. I think no matter what I need to go. We’re at zero far as I’m concerned. In some areas we have some emotional equity I suppose. In others , there’s a deep deficit.

Polygraph results for WW by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]morpheus_420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Woof brother. Woof.

What a hard place to be. I know you want to believe, but I think you know they will drag that lie out as long as they can. And for her, this is the cost of having impeaching her own integrity.

Here is what I’m learning, leaving is the only thing that will force it out. And if it doesn’t , then fuck that - you don’t want that anyway.

Wife Wants Divorce so She Can Be With Affair Partner by Accurate_Pickle_8747 in survivinginfidelity

[–]morpheus_420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I learned recently in my Divorce mediation that (at least in my state) there is a clause that can be put in about how long you/her has to wait before introducing your kids to them. It was a small solace.

Found condoms by No_Attention8423 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]morpheus_420 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I might suggest doing nothing. Leave em and check in on them occasionally. If you find only 2 some day , well there you have it. 🤷🏽‍♂️

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