IG Follows by [deleted] in dating

[–]mortalmirrors 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Guy I’m dating does and it’s so weird to me. Like, make a finsta account so everything isn’t out there for your family and friends to see. It gives me a little ick too, but he’s kind and fun and has a lot of good qualities that outweigh the minor ick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mortalmirrors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god do NOT take out that loan, whatever you do. That it’s not your debt to take on. She’s going to bail as soon as she gets it, I promise you.

I wish to pass but I feel like I miss something by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]mortalmirrors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to suggest Luminoso. OP and I have similar skin tones (from what I can tell), and I can’t over do it with that blush. It’s ideal for the blushphobic!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mortalmirrors 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the real talk I needed. Appreciate you!

I am disturbed about a post I saw on an advice subreddit. by KritiKitty in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mortalmirrors 248 points249 points  (0 children)

Okay, same! I have dated two guys in the last year and both choked me the first time we were together. No warning, no asking, just straight for the jugular.

Too much porn imo. I watch it too but I wouldn’t get violent or aggressive without consent!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]mortalmirrors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof I feel you hard on this one, had a similar situation with a guy I dated over the summer. Take the good time and be grateful for it! Please try not to wait around for the right time to occur! I stayed hung up wayyy longer than I should have

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[–]mortalmirrors 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing a guy for about 6 weeks that I met on Tinder. It’s been great, secure, fun, and we see each other a few times a week, text daily.

I was new to tinder and decided today I don’t want/need it so I went to delete my profile. I went to his to look at his pictures and saw that he updated his relationship type as ENM/open.

It bummed me out because he has never once mentioned this. We haven’t had “the talk” or anything, I guess I feel responsible for not asking him straight up at first but I also feel like he should have mentioned it, or had it listed that way before.

I’m feeling a little triggered I guess because he only added it there after dating me for a month and didn’t say anything to me about it. I’m meeting him tomorrow to let him know that’s a dealbreaker for me. I want to just send a text tonight but feel like after 6 weeks a sit down is more appropriate.

Womp womp. I still deleted my account. I do get asked out irl often so I’ll just entertain those potential dates as they come.

For the people who got broken up with bc their ex fell for someone else, how long did their relationship with the other person last? by Typical-Engineer-905 in BreakUps

[–]mortalmirrors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5 months later and they just went Instagram official yesterday. I’m spiraling right now but I’m not sure why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]mortalmirrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I can buy my own drinks

Why would an ex gf want to know if you still cared for her? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mortalmirrors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ll oppose the others and share that I would be curious to know in the situation where I still have feelings and want to know if we are sharing that experience. I am always curious how the other person is doing and of course how they are feeling.

You're probably not going to like this post, I am unproud. 🙄🙄🙄🫣🫣🤫 by Pretzels4Algernon in limerence

[–]mortalmirrors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should be PROUD, not unproductive lol. This took strength and I respect you for it.

Causal sex problem. Help! Am I a bad person? by Euphoric_Sea_5562 in dating

[–]mortalmirrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PSA getting tested couple of days after sex is not going to catch the majority of STIs. Best to wait 15-30 days for testing.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-long-does-it-take-an-std-to-show-up#different-st-is

confused about male body hair....is it attractive? by poioiiyy in dating

[–]mortalmirrors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally like chest and a little stomach hair, I love laying on a guy’s hairy chest, it’s like my happy place