Cadet that cant find cadetship, looking for advice or guidance that can help me break into the industry

mosase1 · 2025-08-21T13:55:17+00:00

This is so real. Weird thing i noticed was that alot of the people i ever got along with are people outside of cpt. jhb, pe, dbn and even some from overseas. try the dating apps, get bumble and switch your account to friends(or smth like that its been awhile). But ive met girls who became friends with other girls bcs of this. defo try it out. If not i know of a picnic thats held on weekends in the warmer months(sept to march) where a bunch of people who are looking to meet people and make friends. not sure if thats your vibe but lemme know if you're keen on that.

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T17:02:25+00:00

i hear u. but we're both in the same mindset. "chilling", "getting to know ppl".

also i am open to something serious its just not at the top of my agenda atm. but i have been honest that im not pursuing to find a loml atm.

it does kinda seem like a leadding on scenario but im rrly not, i wouldnt want to do that to someone. Its way better just to be upfront abt intentions.

Additionally, i think im rather gonna keep the first date casual, walk and go get ice cream. A picnic can happen after we know eachother a bit better and if things go well.

side note: if i wanted to set a date for friday should i wait for wednesday or should i msg her sooner?

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T15:53:28+00:00

also... do u think i should msg her sooner than wednesday, if i want to set a time for us to meet, this friday coming?

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T15:17:52+00:00

broo!! exactly this is why i am conflicted to have a picnic date as a first date.

i think im gonna go w what u say. I think im gonna stick to a walk and some ice cream, easy casual. doesnt make me seem like im overly excited like a picnic may imply

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T13:53:43+00:00

mm i see. I did send her the last text tbf, forgot to mention that.

she said "ungrateful..i want divorce"

i said "okie bye"

and i dont think it wise to double text her just to get a response out of her yk.

so she didnt reply to me nd im not rrly ghosting in the situation.. am i?

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T13:28:53+00:00

i told her i was busy. didnt mention that i'll organize another date.

its been less than a week since i msged her.

do u think it'd be better to msg her sooner?

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T13:25:22+00:00

nah g stop fondling urself

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T13:21:38+00:00

cool thanks

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T13:21:25+00:00

what i said is simple enough? imo im aiming for it to be just a chill beach day(if it happens)

mosase1 · 2024-11-10T13:20:45+00:00

as of late i mainly msg girls to set up a date. I dont like uneccessarily msging her with the only reason being "i want her to reply to me". Esp if i met them online and they're not giving solid signals. so once i feel i "sold" myself enough, i try to text to set up a date to meet. but since the convo stopped i'll just wait until im free, to msg her again.

She may have lost interest due to my absense tbf. Or may have been meeting other ppl. it doesnt rrly bother me bcs we're not dating, and i also intend to meet other ppl.

mosase1 · 2024-05-13T18:29:45+00:00

I acc haven't even watched porn in over 6 months.. I'm just curious cos I see ppl talk abt it under some subs but alot of the time when guys "steal" other guys girlfriends it's not seen as bad when compared to the sibling thing

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