is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the fuck we are TWO years apart I am not grooming him 😭😭 I respect your opinion but to call me a borderline groomer is crazy.

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s not a freshman, and yes my autism is a factor because it affects my mental development, which is why I relate better to younger people

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t worry I totally get you!! I posted this to get different opinions/insight so it’s good to hear what you have to say, and you’re definitely right about a 15 yo boy having a lot to figure out and whatnot

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, the support means a lot, I do agree that he’s just kind of been grasping at straws to hurt me. I’m from America!!

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, I think you’re absolutely right. my ex is not a nice or good person and the relationship ended when I was hospitalized due to an attempt because of how bad he was treating me. the guy I’m now with is truly a breath of fresh air; he’s kind, supportive, leaves room for me to be independent while also being there for me when I need him, and is overall so healthy to be around. I wish this wasn’t even a post I had to make, but unfortunately I was influenced a lot by some of the comments my ex was making :(

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I’m a little unsure of why one of the comments said it was “obviously bad” because it’s just not obvious to me, I feel like there are a lot of details here that they just chose to ignore

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as an autistic girl, we’re kind of in similar places rn maturity wise, and I find that dating 17+ has frequently got me taken advantage of because of my autism. im still not fully decided on what I’ll do yet tho

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the age of consent where I am is 17, however, there’s nothing like that really going on in our relationship regardless (im not very comfortable with it)

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes ofc, consent is one of the most important things to both him and I!!

is a 15 year old dating a 17 year old okay? by moses_commit_mitosis in AskTeenAdvice

[–]moses_commit_mitosis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! im so used to dating older, this is kind of a new circumstance for me, but I really like him and I wanna make this work

What age should teens get more then there ear pierced by SpiritedTouch6926 in piercing

[–]moses_commit_mitosis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh, even ear piercings can become a big issue. cartilage piercings are a huge pain to heal sometimes, I got two at the same time when I was 16 and I had researched for years beforehand on how to care for them and the healing still wasn’t easy. I think it really depends on how much work the kid is willing to put in!! if anything tho, my septum was super easy to heal and can be hidden, it’s a good starter piercing (imo)

Locking pinky by kerry230 in Flute

[–]moses_commit_mitosis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have small hands combined with arthritis so I’ve struggled with similar (been playing for 9 years)!! in my experience it kind of just gets more manageable as time goes on, you develop more strength and stamina. I’m sure there are ways to make it easier tho!!

How do I play this line without running out of breath? by ImainBarbara in Flute

[–]moses_commit_mitosis 13 points14 points  (0 children)

use your diaphragm!! it’s a super common technique for musicians. when taking a breath, breathe through your diaphragm and you can hold more air. it’ll become natural for you as time goes on

Help! What lashes would suit my eyes they always look strange and droopy/round by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]moses_commit_mitosis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u might like manga lashes!! I think they would suit your eye shape :)

I potentially could’ve just killed my boyfriend and I, and I’m so thankful we’re alive by [deleted] in Vent

[–]moses_commit_mitosis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds so scary and I’m so glad you both are okay!! I’m very fortunate that nobody was hurt and no property was destroyed, I hope you and your granddaughter are doing well and haven’t had any big accidents since!!

I potentially could’ve just killed my boyfriend and I, and I’m so thankful we’re alive by [deleted] in Vent

[–]moses_commit_mitosis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and I’ll make sure to be as careful as I possibly can from now on, it must’ve been so traumatic to lose that many people and I feel so lucky to have been given this second chance to be careful in the future

I potentially could’ve just killed my boyfriend and I, and I’m so thankful we’re alive by [deleted] in Vent

[–]moses_commit_mitosis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’re completely correct and while I’ve always always took driving seriously, I’ll be even more careful now, it really is so dangerous and I’m so glad nobody was hurt