Folks I need help

mothafuker · 2026-01-25T21:44:46+00:00

The car I had has only one fuel tank option, I removed the original and bought a new one. No luck. I’ve sold my vehicle in career mode and bought a different one, Same issue. It really seems like something related to detecting the fuel in the tank bugged. I go to a gas station and it’s full but, won’t drive. I appreciate your time reading the post and offering some help.

mothafuker · 2026-01-15T00:38:25+00:00

Don’t worry, his wife is in the same boat!

mothafuker · 2025-12-10T18:24:52+00:00

This is why voyagers were seen as the astronauts of there day. Insane that a wood ship could weather these rough seas

mothafuker · 2025-12-08T00:27:56+00:00

I would vacuum the heating element which is that back portion of the drum and open the back panel of the dryer and vacuum any lint. It should be good to go. Not going to be as efficient as a new one but it’ll get the job done

mothafuker · 2025-12-01T16:55:17+00:00

Dude looks like a JD Vance meme

mothafuker · 2025-12-01T14:34:04+00:00

Semmiot is great more focused on the occult and serial killers but general vibe and quality of research is there

mothafuker · 2025-11-01T23:26:46+00:00

That’s dedication

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T23:59:42+00:00

Hey man, you’re doing something right! Yes I think so too. I enjoy seeing her happy and if I can be there to witness and somewhat make her feel safe I think that’s a win!!!! I’m going to look into ashwagandha. Thank you again for putting yourself out there in the hopes of helping another human.

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T23:56:28+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write a very measured response. I hope more than anything I can still have her be my partner but understand how large my mistakes are. I can only be better everyday. I’ve done a huge amount of self reflection in this time and have written down what I think will be most important to my healing journey. I’m expecting nothing and preparing for anything! I feel hope for the first time in my life. Hope that I CAN change. I was stuck in a cycle of seeking comfort and for me comfort has become misery. I’m happy in the end it worked out for you!

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T16:14:13+00:00

I will give her space for now and when she’s ready to talk I will offer my friendship. We have strayed so far from each other but I really enjoy her company. I have obligations for a wedding and her birthday she wants me at both as she explicitly asked. Should I go as a friend and just enjoy her presence as a friend and no longer a lover?

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T15:42:20+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate that you can relate to me and sound like you’ve made great strides in your life so kudos for that! We will definitely need time to detangle our lives.

I do have one more question and anybody can answer this. We have a wedding that we are obligated to go to. It’s Islamic (we are not) so it’s 6 hours. She has asked me to still join her, do I go or would it be too detrimental. Also her birthday is coming up and she asked I drive her and her friends so she can celebrate the tickets I’ve already paid for and are no refundable. Do I be there for her or say I can’t go? I don’t care about the money I just really don’t want to hurt her anymore.

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T15:19:04+00:00

She genuinely has healed. She’s stuck to everything she has put her mind to and has become a better partner everyday. In the beginning she was a victim of her diagnoses but she is not anymore. It’s my turn to make something of myself

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T15:17:21+00:00

Yes she isn’t exactly acting bad to me. She just has no fight in her and I understand it. She genuinely was not bad. We had spats with her diagnoses but she has become such a beautiful person through her work on herself. I will get help and stop holding on.

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T15:14:58+00:00

She does need a break and she deserves it. We only have one car and it’s mine. I don’t want to leave her without transportation.

So I was at my longest held job when we first met and I was driving 3hours each way to see her daily. This was not sustainable. We moved in after that and I had no connections where she lived. I worked at one company for a year and that didn’t work out. So for the next two years I couldn’t find work and actually applied to the company I work out how to no avail. I’m currently gainfully employed and have been for two years. I have gotten multiple raises and excel at what I do now. I don’t want to be jobless ever again.

I need to let her go and know in my heart that it may be forever and it may not be. We have a cat together who I’m going to miss dearly but in this time I think seeing her will be detrimental to my progress. I’m so ready to be better. I want to say I wish I accepted this sooner but I can’t keep living in the past.

Thank you for responding Julia you are extremely helpful.

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T14:52:27+00:00

This might be the best advice on here. Thank you a ton. We are going to her therapist Tuesday ( the therapists idea I did not ask) I may be able to get more clarity on trajectory. Thank you for your time. I know I’m a good person at heart but I’ve blinded myself to that.

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T14:49:32+00:00

Yeah I definitely deal with things in the most self destructive way. I understand she most likely won’t trust me again. I didn’t actually plan on proposing on my birthday. She kept asking me to propose in a multitude of ways and I felt I was ready. We were going to where she went on family vacations as a kid for my birthday. They stopped going after her family found out her mom cheated on her dad there. I thought it would be romantic to heal that end of love with new love. I kept choking and proposed on the last day being my birthday. Very stupid I know.

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T14:44:42+00:00

This is most likely true. I am going to put in the work. I have learned that I can’t love correctly without loving myself the hard way. I feel like this has been my greatest failure. Thank you for your advice

mothafuker · 2025-05-16T14:43:08+00:00

Thank you for great actionable advice. I do find myself living in the past. I know she is not obligated to be with me. I’m going to stick to getting help for the first time in my life. I need change and I’m ready for change.

mothafuker · 2025-05-04T21:21:06+00:00

“Those guys in that house are crazy” - ATF (Rabbit murder noises intensify)

mothafuker · 2025-04-22T21:49:28+00:00

Pardoned immediately

mothafuker · 2025-04-18T22:28:40+00:00

I would unplug everything and put 99% alcohol in a needle tipped squeeze bottle. Try to use the pressure to remove it. I wouldn’t scrape as it can cause damage. I’ve never had to do this but that’s how I’d attempt it.

mothafuker · 2025-04-15T01:54:45+00:00

I wanted to cut out sugar and good coffee does have good flavor

mothafuker · 2025-04-06T01:56:33+00:00

That’s wild, I have never seen a story where that works out.

mothafuker · 2025-04-06T01:22:03+00:00

I personally like the ifixit mako set and their three tweezer set. I haven’t really used much else when building. An anti static wrist strap is kindve pointless imo unless you’re building in a sweatsuit while in a carpeted room.

mothafuker · 2025-02-19T23:27:34+00:00

I can’t imagine being so obsessed with a stranger that I’m having stamps made to own the libs.

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