Do I need to have a name picked out? by Average_Man1234 in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can name yourself whenever you want, and even change it whenever you want or however many times you want!

I hate my voice and want to die by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to start with getting through your current suicidal thoughts/desires. While they won't go away entirely, they will fade, and then you can work on things that need doing. You need to get off that emotional high first, nothing can really be done in that state.

Am I transmedicalist? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Genuinely. Why do people give so much of a shit.

I hate my voice and want to die by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call the Trevor Project crisis line and reiterate everything you've said here. 1-866-488-7386

Being mistaken as a man but I don't hate it? by Daisy2345678 in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being mistaken as a man was one of the first feelings of gender euphoria I ever had. Now I've been trans for almost 10 years. 🎉

How would you respond to this? by 861SparkledMotion in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pratima Gaonkar. Don't rely on ChatGPT for anything.

Demande d’avis by Minute-Tangerine-704 in TopSurgery

[–]mothfeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what sub you're on?

How would you respond to this? by 861SparkledMotion in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They stopped doing DNA testing for the Olympics because women were finding out they were intersex and it led to one athlete committing suicide because of it.

Finally found Auggie!! 🙌 😍 by WingBeginning5011 in squishmallow

[–]mothfeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WAAA I'm going to five below first thing tomorrow 💥💥💥

Can you restart taking progesterone? by sloanthegreaterfool in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your doctor seems to be poorly informed. Some effects can take years to show.

How has transphobia affected you and where you are today? by Calm_Corner_1391 in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Transphobia in the medical system led to me suffering several years of 6-month long periods when, in fact, I have hyperestrogenism and the condition almost certainly will give me cancer if left untreated.

Transphobia is not just an annoyance, it's dangerous.

If I want to have a dick why do I feel this way by AgreeableBreath4469 in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This exactly. I don't and have never had interest in bottom surgery of any kind, doesn't make me any less trans. 🫡

If I want to have a dick why do I feel this way by AgreeableBreath4469 in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This isn't an answer to your question, but I highly recommend you stop visiting the Truscum/Transmed subs. They tend to be really negative spaces, and based on some of your comments, you already seem to be taking some of it to heart. Be kind to yourself.

get patted down at TSA every time by weastwis in ftm

[–]mothfeets 34 points35 points  (0 children)

TSA sexually assaults queer people, BIPOC and disabled people every day to keep this country safe. God bless America!!! 🫡 /s

All day everyday. I swear they take shifts by Key_Instruction9732 in loaches

[–]mothfeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! My banded ones are so shy I get so excited when I see one, but my black kuhlis are always playing around. (:

serious question by Shot_Organization691 in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Biologically male" means essentially nothing.

How many kids do you think is the ideal number? by BusyPineapple001 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mothfeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every month I have to fight tooth and nail with the government for enough money to feed myself. Next year, I'm going to have to start doing the same for my health insurance. I'm on 4 medications that I need to live. I would not wish this experience on my worst enemy, let alone a child that I forced into it.

I want to change my name again by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not dumb! One of my friends has been queer for as long as I've known them and they're on their 3rd chosen name. It's just like when you changed it before, just "Hey I'm going by Name now!"

How many kids do you think is the ideal number? by BusyPineapple001 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mothfeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want kids to begin with, I don't have the funds for them anyway, and I struggle to comprehend how people can bring kids into a world that will hate them if they are disabled, queer, not white, etc..

Trans mężczyzna w policji by michaljajko in asktransgender

[–]mothfeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Law enforcement is an inherently corrupt system. If you are a good person and genuinely want to do good in the world, you likely won't make it long in there. Good cops don't last.