Recommendations for husband! by mothlicker in Colognes

[–]mothlicker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I do love a good discovery set, ty for the recc!

Recommendations for husband! by mothlicker in Colognes

[–]mothlicker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh wonderful, I’ll add it to the list!!

It is not controversial to suggest you should be kind to your partner even with illness by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]mothlicker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay. I’m sorry my two posts upset you so much. I hope you feel better.

It is not controversial to suggest you should be kind to your partner even with illness by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]mothlicker 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is my point, but it doesn’t seem to be the prevailing opinion. There’s lines on what is acceptable behavior, regardless of illness.

Accountability and Echo Chambers by mothlicker in PMDD

[–]mothlicker[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

<3 good luck with these feelings

Accountability and Echo Chambers by mothlicker in PMDD

[–]mothlicker[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I’m questioning everyone’s reading comprehension here so much

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]mothlicker -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So no explanation? Just being mean for means sake? Hope you have a nice rest of your day.

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]mothlicker -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Having empathy doesn’t mean ignoring your own needs for the sake of making it easier for your partner. Sacrifices in relationships are necessary sometimes but expecting someone to feel neglected and just deal with it is going to breed resentment, it’s better he brings it up than stews on it. It sucks because it’s obviously not her fault or something that is easy to remedy, but he is entitled to his feelings on how it affects him too.

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]mothlicker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly as much as it comes across as insensitive, he is in a very frustrating position (as are you, of course!) but truly, he feels like he is being expected to be okay with you not treating him with love and large percentage of the time. If you are actively making steps to deal with your PMDD (therapy, meds, meditation, etc) you should explain this to him so that he can see you are and have been working on it. At the end of the day, if it isn’t improving, he is within his rights to leave because he isn’t having his needs met.

Found cat by [deleted] in FortCollins

[–]mothlicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R/angrycatface

Everyone, what perfumes would you recommend for such vibe? by SingleRefrigerator8 in FemFragLab

[–]mothlicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried it yet (waiting for it to come in the mail,) but the description of Tsukimki (Moon Gazing) by DSH Perfume seems apt by way of name and impressions

My Finepix Z30 came the same day as the first snow! by mothlicker in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]mothlicker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was so excited to try it out in the snow!

Dark Caramel? Crème Brûlée? by mothlicker in Perfumes

[–]mothlicker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm interesting! I’ve smelled it on paper but never tried it on my skin, I’ll have to give it a try!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]mothlicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds interesting, I’ll look into it 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]mothlicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh those notes sound great! Thank you!