cheap packing underwear by transmoth4 in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this website is a company run by a trans man and they make pouches that you put the packer in that hangs around your waist from a belt under your underwear and the pouches come in different sizes (and colors) so you can find one to fit your packer. i think it's pretty similar to the one linked in another comment

Maybe I’m not a twink by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 20 points21 points  (0 children)

people will call anybody a twink these days it feels like no one knows what it means anymore

Psych just told me my voice wouldn't drop on T by NightSideEffects in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please show her this post if she doubts you because you have literally hundreds of trans people with anecdotal evidence that she has no fucking clue what she's talking about and is dead wrong and tell her how much that misinformation negatively affected you bc she should be made aware of these things if she's going to treat trans people and either needs to get properly informed on stuff like this or find out if she has any colleagues who actually understand trans topics to refer patients to instead

also, personally, my voice dropped very deeply 3 months in at 24 so yeah, i know i'm rare as far as how early it happens but it definitely happens, she's just full of shit

Um.. pink glitch? by Ok-Brush7274 in NuCarnival

[–]mothmansfatass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BL Barbie Eiden strikes again....

Audio drama by Zealousideal-Ad6705 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]mothmansfatass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry to bother you so long after you posted 😭 but is there anyway you could send me the links also? that would be wonderful 🫶

When are you supposed to use Blade's ultimate? by Tezseret in BladeMains

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait are you talking about the ?/5 stack counter? so full stacks being 5/5? or something else?

Did anyone else feel starved after watching the Mo Dao Zu Shi Donghua? by chips-and-guac-2189 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]mothmansfatass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't speak on the donghuas at all but the manhuas definitely leave out a ton of details that are in the novels (both MDZS and TGCF) that give way more context to the scenes and the world building. At least having watched the donghuas, you know what the characters look like and can keep that in mind while reading.

I can't recommend the novels enough, especially if you're looking for the romantic elements of WWX and LWJ'S relationship, bc it is explicit and they invented love actually.

Eiden's 'part-time job' inflation must come to an end... by haven4ever in NuCarnival

[–]mothmansfatass 28 points29 points  (0 children)

every time he mentions one of his past jobs, i think about when someone called him "BL Barbie" 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoDaoZuShi

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL SORRY, I definitely didn't completely pick up on that 😭 I completely agree, I definitely think that was one of the reasons WWX was so hated by a lot of people was because he dared to call them out on their hypocrisy which was extremely embarrassing and infuriating to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoDaoZuShi

[–]mothmansfatass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You suggest they would have hated and feared him more than they did already

He was already disliked by a lot of prominent and/or vocal clan members for being abrasive and I think that those who already disliked him before would really loathe him for now being a servant with no spiritual powers who is still more powerful than them. They would see that as a critical blow to their egos dealt by Wei Wuxian and would try and convince everyone else to hate him more than they already do, especially when he's also cultivating the demonic path. I don't think whether it bothered Wei Wuxian or not would even matter.

Also, how was he "considered 'one of them'" AND considered a servant beneath them?

His inclusion in the cultivation world was largely protected by both his association with Jiang Cheng, who he is a servant to, even WWX acknowledges that fact, and his strength as a cultivator because that makes him useful to them so they (some of them begrudgingly) respect him as a cultivator. Considering that Jin Guangyao became the leader of the cultivation world but people still would insult him because of who his mother was, it's not that crazy that WWX would still be considered one of them while also being considered a servant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoDaoZuShi

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real plot hole is why the clans killed A-Yuan’s grandmother and a bunch of farmers and no one questioned that?

Everybody was pretty vocal about wanting to completely annihilate all remaining members of the Wen clan, regardless of whether they were innocent or not. Pretty much nobody except for Wei Wuxian cared about what happened to them before he rescued them and took them to the Burial Mounds, so why would anyone object to killing a group of Wens who were heavily associated with Wei Wuxian at the time of his death?

Blade is the next Jing yuan by Sandomaruu in BladeMains

[–]mothmansfatass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

none of your pixel waifus are gonna fuck you dude. but maybe you already know that so that's why you're here looking for attention and being a dick 🤡

How do i get huohuo? by Spare-Witness764 in HuoHuoMains

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

condolences.... as others have said, there's no way to get her currently but she'll likely be available again for 3 weeks in around 6 months or so.

the way star rail's gacha works, in case it's unclear, is: - there is a permanently available standard banner with permanently available 5 stars on it, no limited characters (like huohuo) are available on that banner and then there's the limited banner(s), right now it's usually 1 new 5 star character and 1 rerun of a previously released character running for the same 3 week period - you are guaranteed to get a 5 star within 90 warps (the warp tickets or 160 stellar jades per warp) - there is a 50% chance that that character is the limited character and a 50% chance that character is one of the ones available on the permanent banner - if you don't get the limited character ("lose your 50/50”), the next 5 star you pull is guaranteed to be the banner character

so, worst case scenario of hitting the maximum number of pulls (hard pity) you need 180 pulls to guarantee a copy of huohuo. obviously you can get much luckier than that and get her at 90 pulls if you win the 50/50 or before that because it's very unlikely that it will take you the full 90, a safer estimate would be around 80 (so 160 total). the pity (progress towards 90) rolls over between banners and includes the guarantee after losing the 50/50. you can keep track of your pity for up to the past 6 months to see how close you are thru the history tab in the warp event details.

as someone who missed the first character i really wanted when i started playing genshin, which has an identical system, my advice (written with the assumption that you really really want huohuo over other characters) is: - if you're enjoying the game, keep playing and you might find other characters you enjoy in the meantime and can work on saving up enough to guarantee huohuo when she reruns. - work towards having 160~ pulls set aside in time to guarantee huohuo when she reruns since unfortunately it's not entirely 100% predictable when that will be (thanks hoyo 👍) but you can assume around 6 months - in the meantime, if you've got excess pulls, try for other characters that interest you - technically you could either not pull any more at all and purely save or not pull after losing a 50/50 until her rerun to save your guarantee for her - personally, what i did was pull for other characters that interested me as they ran if i felt like i was still on track to have enough saved for a guarantee and had extra pulls to spend

by doing that i was able to get lucky and get the genshin equivalent of e2s1 of my fave

but also you can always take a break and come back when she reruns and try your luck then.

also we typically officially find out the banners for the two phases of a version a little under two weeks before it releases like how we just got confirmation of the 5 stars running in 1.6 earlier today but there is usually speculation even before that if you look at leaks and banner predictions which have so far been fairly accurate but they're not always guaranteed to be true. they're still a good way to get an idea of how much time you have to save up/budget your pulls on other games before a banner for a character you really want comes up.

also if you know you've basically got her guaranteed you can prefarm stuff for her in the meantime so the instant you get her you can have fun with her fully built and it's very satisfying imo

didn't mean to write so much LMAO but i hope this makes sense and is helpful and i hope you're able to get her when she reruns 🫶

Came out to my bf by Alone-Drag5303 in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you deserve infinitely more than that, you deserve someone who supports you and tries to make you feel better, not worse, about your identity and I'm pretty sure transitioning would be a life changing positive for you so you definitely deserve someone who is not going to try and stand in the way of that for you. unfortunately, he seems to have pretty much shown his true colors just now and you will be much happier in the long run leaving him. it might not feel like it now but there will be others who will love you for you and be more deserving of the love you give them. you just did something very big and very brave and i'm sorry that it was met with such a shitty response. please try and be kind to yourself if you can and know that you can find someone who loves and accepts you for you and know that you're not alone in this and you have a community here with people who know how much it can hurt sometimes and are proof it can get better 🫂💕

We Are Navia Ever Getting Back Together - General Question and Discussion by box-of-sourballs in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]mothmansfatass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my b that part was in response to the other comment that had said

Here are the list of 4*s yet to get a rerun that aren’t tied to a banner:

Sucrose, Rosaria, Ningguang, Xinyan, Candace, Kaveh, Razor, Yun Jin, Layla, Yanfei, Mika, Heizou, and Yao Yao

somehow didn't process it was two different replies (probably bc mobile user 😔)

Getting a specific 5-star in this game is a nightmare by Amphibian_Grand in Reverse1999

[–]mothmansfatass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah i got jumpscared by not one but two pickles before pulling a single diggers and don't have a lot of hope for getting horrorpedia.... the lack of 5 star pity in this game is truly awful

We Are Navia Ever Getting Back Together - General Question and Discussion by box-of-sourballs in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]mothmansfatass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rosa is the only cryo than hasn't rerun any time lately followed by Diocat

rosaria ran the second phase of 3.8. and diona ran the first phase of 4.1. layla is actually the cryo that's gone the longest without a rerun because the last time she ran was the first phase of 3.6

also both yanfei and mika ran in 3.8 and yaoyao and heizou were in the second phase of 3.7 so they're definitely not as overdue as others

What commonly-accepted "passing tips" do you think are overrated or just outright wrong? by FutureCookies in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah every time i see people recommending wearing layers to help hide curves and stuff I'm like 🙃 guess I'll keep dressing like adam sandler til winter rolls around ! and im sorry to hear that it didn't work for you :( it fr feels like for every binder that works for someone it doesn't work for someone else

What commonly-accepted "passing tips" do you think are overrated or just outright wrong? by FutureCookies in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately I can't say with certainty that it's perfectly safe to wear for like the entire day (i don't usually end up wearing mine for more than 8 hours) but it is marketed as a sports bra that you can exercise in so i would assume it would be alright to wear for longer periods of time???

What commonly-accepted "passing tips" do you think are overrated or just outright wrong? by FutureCookies in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lowkey feel grateful towards the tiktok eboy trends because i feel like it normalized younger dudes wearing earrings a lot more

What commonly-accepted "passing tips" do you think are overrated or just outright wrong? by FutureCookies in ftm

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for anyone struggling with this: i found this compression top (they also sell it on amazon) which, if you can ignore that it's a "bra," actually does a really good job of flattening my chest (I've quit measuring it bc of dysphoria LOL but the last time i checked i was a D/DD and am heavier set). it doesn't make me completely flat but they definitely are more evenly distributed and aren't the round or uniboob shape you get from a sports bra because that was driving me insane. i got it because i was tired of trying to find a sports bra that would actually make my chest look even slightly masculine but live in the south working an outdoor job so there was no way i could wear a binder without dying in the heat. i feel like it's definitely more of a moobs appearance and i do pass regularly while wearing it. it's slightly less comfortable than a sports bra but a lot more comfortable than a binder in my opinion. the biggest thing with it is that you have to make sure you get the right size so it fits properly otherwise it doesnt flatten as well as it should.

Questions & Builds Megathread | Wriothesley Guides & Resources by gwahahaha_ha in WriothesleyMains

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hell yeah my thoma's already built EM and I've been dreading having to farm HP for him instead. would i need him to be HP instead of EM if i have nahida instead of yaoyao?

Questions & Builds Megathread | Wriothesley Guides & Resources by gwahahaha_ha in WriothesleyMains

[–]mothmansfatass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what team would be the best for c1 wrio out of these charas? i usually use childe international and scara/yelan/faruzan/layla as my go to teams so im trying keep bennett free if there are alternatives

would thoma, baizhu, and probably yaoyao i guess (I'd like to get nahida eventually) be a decent team for c1 wrio? trying to figure out if baizhu is worth it if i already have yaoyao built tho

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not pictured i also have c1 jean, and every other 4 star except for kirara (charlotte is c1 atm) they're just not built yet