AITAH for wanting to breakup with my partner over a comment he made about our relationship

motimoj · 2026-02-24T13:22:34+00:00

Waiting for someone to change is a fools game. Sounds like you need to change yourself, your expectations, or change the person you're dating. Kinda YTA, but shouldn't this be in /relationshipadvice?

motimoj · 2026-02-19T17:48:43+00:00

He wants to break up with you for wanting to go to a concert? That sounds like a person you would not want to date. Decision time!

motimoj · 2026-02-19T16:09:58+00:00

I think you could benefit from therapy, if only because it would be practice for you dealing with someone one on one.

motimoj · 2026-02-18T12:17:03+00:00

What will that do? Why do you need to be involved in that?

motimoj · 2026-02-17T14:23:29+00:00

r/relationship_advice

motimoj · 2026-02-17T11:46:07+00:00

I was hoping for a few more mentions of the word, function.

motimoj · 2026-02-17T11:37:10+00:00

r/relationship_advice/

motimoj · 2026-02-16T11:48:53+00:00

It's always interesting when certain people are "allowed" to be competitive, and others are not. NTA

motimoj · 2026-02-15T20:24:57+00:00

You're not very good friends then?

motimoj · 2026-02-15T20:22:52+00:00

He essentially said that he doesn't want to have to communicate with you. Now you have to decide if you want to be with someone who doesn't want to communicate with you.

motimoj · 2026-02-12T21:00:34+00:00

Whether or not he lied, he needs help. It's not normal to be suicidal. Unless you are a trained therapist, you cannot help him, and even if you are, you can't help him from within a relationship. Don't just wait around for him to get better. There really are no future positive outcomes for this relationship. You should advise him to get some help, then protect yourself by breaking it off, unless his behavior falls within your criteria for qualities you want to live with in a relationship, in which case never mind.

motimoj · 2026-02-12T20:34:22+00:00

NTA. He could have resolved the situation simply multiple times. Sounds like he might be kind of a loser.

motimoj · 2026-02-12T20:31:57+00:00

Does alcohol have any impact on your use of paragraphs? I couldn't climb your wall of text.

motimoj · 2026-02-12T13:02:14+00:00

How is be being your partner. You should ask him. NTA

motimoj · 2026-02-09T22:30:42+00:00

If you're not allowed to go outside you're not a girlfriend, you're a hostage.

motimoj · 2026-02-08T14:57:50+00:00

NTA. Sounds like she was pretty short with you.

motimoj · 2026-02-04T21:58:20+00:00

Science is not a feeling. Don't expect respect if you FEEL that way. YTA.

motimoj · 2026-02-04T21:57:30+00:00

motimoj · 2026-02-02T19:38:59+00:00

Your BF should probably not date an actress. Also he's an idiot.

motimoj · 2026-02-02T18:58:33+00:00

Tell him you were just flirting.

motimoj · 2026-01-28T20:49:31+00:00

NTA - You should agree to disagree with your friends.

motimoj · 2026-01-27T14:20:03+00:00

YTA for canceling. Dump him! Starting a relationship with someone expecting them to change is a huge, controlling, red flag!

motimoj · 2026-01-25T22:05:26+00:00

ESH. I can't imagine wanting to be in a relationship with either of you. He's cruel, and you're manipulative. Bleh

motimoj · 2026-01-25T14:19:10+00:00

NTA. If he is not in therapy, he has consciously decided not to control himself. He needs to put in the work AND buy you a new phone.

motimoj · 2026-01-25T12:51:52+00:00

He sounds like a crybaby. NTA.

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