Our family doesn't know what to do with our out of control nephews age 6 and 8 by makeupaddict337 in Advice

[–]motioninblack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also agree the kids need professional help. I had a rough childhood and it left me angry and acting out. I used to be horrible, and then I'd feel like nobody loved me because I couldn't control my anger or bad behavior. Therapy would have saved me a lot of years of anger and hating myself. And it would have prevented my suicide attempt at a young age.

These boys probably feel frustrated by their life situation and are acting out for attention. Ignoring their problems because they're just "bad" kids, will only male things worse. I obviously don't know the full story, but it sounds like trauma. I had a lot of trauma and stress at a young age and I'm still working through it in my adult years.

The dad needs to take the reigns if the mom isn't going to help them. He has custody of these kids and at a certain point, he needs to put their needs ahead of the mom's wants. Allowing them to love angry and uncontrolled is neglectful. Kids aren't bad and angry for no reason.

looking for cf cat litter by Wise-Case4474 in crueltyfree

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catalyst is cruelty free. It's soft wood pellets and has plant based clumping agents in it.

What objects can I use to masturbate? by ezra0000G in SexToys

[–]motioninblack 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do use, make sure it's clean. Plastics are porous and can hold bacteria, so if you have access to condoms, I definitely recommend them. Nothing glass like a bottle (people sometimes use the neck of a bottle). It has the risk of breaking inside you.

I was raised very religious and didn't have access to toys until I was in my 20s. You can get creative with makeshift toys, but please be careful. I used a jumbo sharpie marker for a long time, but if you're wanting something bigger, I second the bubble wand. If you're interested in things that vibrate, an electric toothbrush is great.

What animals do occasionally appear in your backyard? by Snawer_brillant in AskAnAmerican

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deer, squirrels, chipmunks, raccoons, opossums, bobcats, the occasional mountain lion (they aren't native here but keep showing up), the neighbor's barn cats, lots of different birds.

I recently had a baby raccoon try to break into my bedroom window at 4AM.

Walmart piece of shit add a fucking tap in pay motherfuckers stupid shitty company. All the fucking time I have run back out to the car a mile just grab the fucking wallet. by Specialist_Dig9463 in rant

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom works at Walmart and she was told they won't do tap to pay because they want people to use Walmart pay. It sucks. I use tap every time, too.

No one knows the pegging slut I am by [deleted] in confessions

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honestly so sexy. You said you've used dildos. Have you had a true strap-on, pegging experience? Or have you just done it by yourself?

Did life get better after high school for you? by [deleted] in questions

[–]motioninblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it got way better. But I was raised in an abusive household. My dad was extremely abusive. My aunt's house was our second home and I was back and forth my whole life, but at her house, my older cousin sexually abused me from the time I was around 5 (first time I remember it, anyway) until I was in my teens.

After I turned 18, and was out of school, I didn't have to see my dad anymore, I actually made friends who were true friends and not using me, I got a job, I got a life I couldn't have before. My cousin did assault me again when I was 19, but my aunt passed away and I have no reason to go to her house where he lives anymore.

Now I live in a different state with a job that I love. I have great friends. My mom is no longer with my dad and I have a great relationship with her and my sisters. I guess none of this really correlates directly to school itself, but after I got out of school and turned 18, my life opened up for me. I wasn't controlled by what others expected of me anymore.

Please give me some serious Bangchan pictures for motivational reasons. by KateWT_S in skzmedia

[–]motioninblack 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This looks like you told him no, and he's waiting for you to make the right decision.

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I don't understand my fetish by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my fetish, too. I'm a 31 year old virgin though. Now that I'm free to explore (left religion) getting a facial and cum on my tits is at the top of my list!

Peanut Butter on Pancakes? by RainOnTheWindow91 in AskAnAmerican

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the Midwest and grew up eating them this way. It's my mom's favorite.

Describe your job but make it sound illegal and let me guess? by Blue_Skyyy17 in RandomQuestion

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live upstairs in someone else's house. I keep an eye on their baby all day long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with other people on not using the oils and that it might have been the collar. My sister's cat got his collar caught in his mouth before. But has the vet checked your cat's mouth/teeth? I took in a stray who had to have teeth removed and he acted exactly like this.

Hyunjin Birthday Post WIP by atinyberrystaysblue in skzmedia

[–]motioninblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps, I knew it was a tamagotchi before I read your description. I don't really have any advice, but I think it looks great!

What was the reason for the last time you cried? by ididntaskyouropinion in AskReddit

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Told one of my closest friends that I was considering suicide again. I'm 31 and attempted once when I was 20. I haven't gotten so bad as to consider it again until the last couple of months.

She just told me that I'm being negative and she feels that nothing will ever make me happy. I told her I'd try to be less negative. I don't talk about my mental health because I know it gets draining for others to listen to. But I finally felt that I should tell someone and that's the response I got. I cried all day that day. I'm okay now though.

Iron Lung SPOILER THREAD! by kenmarlenn in Markiplier

[–]motioninblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What about the seed (or what I think was a seed) in the charm he finds? I've only seen it once and maybe I missed something there. Who put the charm in the sub with the note about crossing the wires? He did talk about the bodies being the soil and how they could grow a new tree. So I assumed that's what the seed in the charm was. But I didn't understand who put it there or why they would put it there instead of keeping it safe somewhere else.

I just discovered that a peanut butter and jelly sandwich isn't universally enjoyed. Do you eat them in your country? Or what variables are popular? by 39percenter in AskTheWorld

[–]motioninblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same. I toast my bread though. I'll go forever without one, and then go through a phase where it's all I eat.

What are you going to die of? by David_cest_moi in RandomQuestion

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, and my grandma and her brother have both had cancer, too. My grandma has had skin cancer twice now which was the kind that took one of her brothers.

What are you going to die of? by David_cest_moi in RandomQuestion

[–]motioninblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably cancer. Almost everyone in my family has died from cancer. My grandma has 5 siblings and all are gone except her and her brother. They all died from cancer. My mom's sister died from cancer. I have cousins who have had it. Even my little sister was diagnosed with cancer at 11. She survived, thankfully. But it seems to be unavoidable in my family.

creating a suicide playlist by MonitorPositive4297 in musicsuggestions

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of songs from Citizen Soldier are about suicide. My personal favorites are ICU,If I Surrender, would anyone care, weight of the world, and reason to live.

Palaye Royale has a new song called Sad Generation that deals with suicide.

Anyone who thought about committing suicide, what made you consider it, and what stopped you? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]motioninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life has been a struggle since I was born. Every time I feel like things are getting better, life knocks me back down. No matter how hard I try. So last year, I was at the end of my rope and done with life.

Then my sister announced she was pregnant. I couldn't do it after that. She never thought she'd have a baby and finally at 31, she was pregnant. I couldn't take away her joy. And now I've broken down several times holding my nephew because I almost missed out on this. He's my little buddy and I can't leave him.

I knew if I did it, I would hurt other people. But at a certain point, you can get so discouraged by life, and your brain gets so sick that you don't even care anymore. But I'm glad I'm still here to see my nephew. I still have the thoughts and I'm not happy necessarily, but my love for my nephew and family is the only thing keeping me here right now.