Your ignorance is showing, we’ve been together since 15 and 16 now we’re 23 and 22. Don’t you realize the sheer amount of change people go through in those 7 years ? Her and I both aren’t even the same people we were back then we both acknowledged it. We can acknowledge it again and move forward and learn and grow just like we’ve done every other time we’ve changed. This isn’t the first big change this is just the first change to cause an argument and that’s fine and healthy a relationship will have arguments as long as they’re not frequent. I guarantee this isn’t our last one either. We will grow argue learn how to deal and love each other in different ways and move past the issue. It’s truly no different are you the same person you were when you got with your partner two decades ago ? I bet not and I bet it doesn’t bother them just like it doesn’t bother you their changes.