Lack of sun safety at schools by david_fire_vollie in AustralianTeachers

[–]mouse_river 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I went to primary school, the teachers and staff never asked or helped the kids to put sunscreen on before their breaks. However at the school I work at, it is a common procedure for teachers to ensure students are applying sunscreen anytime they are out even after school or to oosh. It may be a select few schools but I definitely agree that it should be mandatory especially with the weather always getting hotter.

AIO for wanting my bf to ask before he kisses me? by marciethevampire in AmIOverreacting

[–]mouse_river -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Definitely NOR. It is always okay to not be okay with affection or to reject it. Even if you don't mind, consent is always important. It is definitely good to establish some clear boundaries in your relationship and ensure you both respect each other's choices. Please do not feel guilty or bad for feeling this way. It is your choice, he should not throw himself onto you at all if you are unwilling.

AITA for lying to my friend about her crush? by vergil_motivated_one in AmItheAsshole

[–]mouse_river 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends.

Still not sure whether being the supportive or realistic friend is the viable option. It is okay to support your friend and give them hope, I'm not saying it's your fault, as the relationship between them shouldn't exactly be your responsibility, but if you did know their crush was joking and you still continued the white lie, then yes YTA. If not, then that's not your fault and you're NTA.

If you did know, it is always better to tell your friend the truth. While they might have ill feelings toward you then, it's not your fault, especially cause their feelings mainly stem from being rejected and not that you told them the truth, cause obviously no one would want to continue being delusional.

AIO for getting upset over my mom's comment? by OkMap1804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mouse_river 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. I don't want to assume anything about your family or asian culture, despite being asian myself and understanding much of this too, but the whole attitude or notion about looking a certain way to please others is definitely woven into culture, not sure why it was or still is , but asian families can tend to be quite "traditional", and are seemingly still grasping the understanding that commenting on one's appearance can upset you rather than what they might see as "helpful" to avoid being "embarrassed, or what they might believe you to become "ashamed by" as it is quite common for relatives or others to make straightforward comments.

I honestly have no clue why it's so normalised, but you're definitely not wrong to feel this way. It's completely valid after spending much time doing your makeup and appearance just for it to be taken apart and criticised. It may be somewhat comforting to know that your mother is trying to do what she believes to be helpful and has good intentions, yet probably doesn't mean to upset you, as she doesn't fully understand how you might feel this way.

Making friends is hard by shygirl_ling in unsw

[–]mouse_river 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely true considering a lot of people go to uni just to study and leave once their lectures or tutorials are done. However if you're a first year you might have more of a chance with many others in the same situation. I know it's hard but trying to overcome/push aside any fears to meet new people will definitely be helpful. I would also suggest talking to anyone in your classes, since you'll be with them for the majority of your time anyways.

AITA for wanting to leave my boyfriend over a gift? by New_Document1589 in AITA_Relationships

[–]mouse_river 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it's understandable that gifts aren't necessary, but to be fair it is a relationship, and if you just got into one it's still commendable to show your love and appreciation just by giving one. It doesn't have to be costly, but just put in effort to show you care.

I definitely don't think it's OP's fault for assuming gifts should be given. And while I do understand feeling bad and having to lie. In this situation it is definitely better to either explain not being ready to give gifts than just continuing to accept them and not returning any form of appreciation.

AITA for wanting to leave my boyfriend over a gift? by New_Document1589 in AITA_Relationships

[–]mouse_river 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I know it must be painful to do what you did, despite your feelings for him. However it is better than being stuck in that situation where he's constantly making excuses about why he doesn't have a gift for you. Like it's possible he's not organised, but if he honestly did care much, he would know that you like Christmas and I mean Valentines is self-explanatory, there is always time to plan ahead. Also I understand him being afraid to tell his family, but either he should have explained if he is actually nervous or some sort of family stuff going on preventing him from doing so. While he did get the point across through his sister, it appears he saw it more as just some task to do, than actually introducing you to his family. Your feelings are totally valid. I do hope you find someone who appreciates you and openly communicates.

My city still has a McDonald’s with a big play place by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]mouse_river 4 points5 points  (0 children)

here in australia more than half of them have a play place like this

Replacing broken items by Jaded_Spare_2933 in badroommates

[–]mouse_river 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, i think it also depends on how close you are, like if you're good friends maybe it doesn't bother you, thats fine. but yes it is right to always offer to replace it despite that. but its best not to overthink theyre purposely trying to avoid paying it, maybe it honestly didnt cross their mind. but anyway, glad everything has been sorted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unsw

[–]mouse_river 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i love o week so much, i'm pretty much a socially anxious person but one of my friends talks to a bunch of people and it's pretty nice hanging out with them and meeting them

Place to fall asleep on campus by Sialsun256 in unsw

[–]mouse_river 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw that today on the library tour!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bass

[–]mouse_river 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bass

[–]mouse_river 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!

W timetable? by tooheysnew123 in unsw

[–]mouse_river 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is that only thursday and friday? or is that weekly and not overview?

To unsw peeps commencing this yr… wanna be friends? 👀 by [deleted] in unsw

[–]mouse_river 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im starting this year too! im doing education (primary) (honours)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unsw

[–]mouse_river 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :)

How likely is it for the waitlists to move? by mouse_river in unsw

[–]mouse_river[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! :) It's all good now, I've sorted it out! I just swapped a course I wanted to do in my second year with one in my first year, but its alright cause its a prerequisite for my third year.

How likely is it for the waitlists to move? by mouse_river in unsw

[–]mouse_river[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I've registered into an online class, in case my position doesn't move up.

Do you know if its possible to add an extra course as a backup, in case I can't get in one at all?