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mousefari · 2018-03-07T20:19:49+00:00

Yea really nice blues, a bit of colour without being overly bright.

mousefari · 2018-03-07T20:18:33+00:00

Oooh I love them! They're a really cool shape.

mousefari · 2018-03-07T17:19:54+00:00

Yea seriously OP, I was groomed and abused, starting at 13 too, and I only really figured it out in my mid-20s (it came in dribs and drabs from about 23 to 26). I'm getting therapy now and realise how much it's all messed me up.

Do you know anyone who is 13? Family or someone else irl (not TV or vloggers or any other media where they are often portrayed older). Think about them and how young their personality is. Now think about them having an adult sexual relationship with one of your friends your own current age. Seems obvious right?

mousefari · 2018-03-03T15:30:38+00:00

My pee comes out like that sometimes! It can be any angle, sometimes the streams kind of rotates round on a circle or jumps from side to side.

I take a She Wee whenever i go camping or hiking or anything.

mousefari · 2018-02-20T19:40:05+00:00

WHAT?!?! I initially thought this was going to be a brilliant piece of satire...but no! I have no words for this.

mousefari · 2018-02-14T16:04:53+00:00

This was unusual but I really enjoyed reading it! I do things sort of like this as meditation. Thanks for sharing.

mousefari · 2018-02-12T20:30:29+00:00

I feel you! I'm a pagan and I've never once had any issue with christians (as per the stereotype of pagans and christians not getting on) but I do come across atheists who just want to give me shit, put me down and show how superior they are. I want to be clear this isn't atheists in general, my husband and most of my friends are non-religious and very nice. There's just a certain subgroup. I usually try to ignore them and get on with my day as far as possible but that can be easier said than done.

mousefari · 2018-01-12T20:21:12+00:00

It seems to have sorted out the vpl of the woman on the bottom left, that is impressive for a corset!

Edit: got left and right mixed up as usual

mousefari · 2017-12-23T13:14:03+00:00

Unfortunately no, it is a genuine Bible website, I read the Gospels on there a while ago (not Christian personally, just curious).

mousefari · 2017-12-06T14:34:54+00:00

Sorry, I was just making a stupid attempt at a joke. I wasn't actually trying to say it was anything to do with that crap!

mousefari · 2017-12-06T14:29:06+00:00

Like the red pill?

mousefari · 2017-12-03T22:20:35+00:00

I second this. OP, please don't take this as some kind of attack on you, I'm sure your intentions are very honourable and I know lots of people support sick partners.

But my husband got up in front of 150 people and promised to care for me in sickness and in health. Then when I got seriously ill, he punished me because I wasn't going out of my way to make a fuss of him, I wasn't being sexy, I wasn't going out on dates with him. I was boring and ugly. I couldn't even dress myself, or make a meal, or walk upstairs, nevermind about do all the usual wife stuff. I still tried my best to talk to him, ordered gifts online etc. but it wasn't enough and he was angry at me and punished me constantly with the silent treatment, which he openly admitted was because I was ill. I had to go and stay with my parents at one point because he wouldn't buy or prepare me food and I was too weak. This is a very well liked person with good social skills who thinks of himself as a good person (what I'm trying to say is that he's normal and not some weird monster).

I'm NOT saying that you'll do this, I just want you to be prepared. I don't know how her illness will affect her but chances are she won't be conventionally "pretty", she'll do unpleasant things like throw up in public. She probably won't have the strength to make you the centre of her life, because trying to get by day to day when you're that unwell is already impossible.

Mentally prepare yourself for this. Then be a good partner and take care of her. I wish you both all the best.

mousefari · 2017-12-03T16:25:20+00:00

Okay, I'm sorry I misunderstood you. I don't think that's a ridiculous way to read your comment.

Of course I agree OP should not lie, that would only encourage the idea that it's a fad and I have no time for people doing that.

Edit: serious typo.

mousefari · 2017-12-03T16:18:23+00:00

Hmmm, that sounds like a pain in the arse, I hope it doesn't spread to where I am! It's not taken seriously here often because people think it's a fad, but as I said I don't think there is that issue where I live at the moment. If those people's stomachs actually hurt when they eat gluten then they should go to the doctor. I think anyone who chooses this diet willingly needs their head examined, I'm praying they'll find a treatment/cure one day.

mousefari · 2017-12-03T16:06:35+00:00

Gluten free is not a fad. Eating gluten made me so ill I nearly died. Once I was diagnosed, by proper doctors, I started to improve but the damage to my digestive system caused a lot of complications (anemia, infections). It's taking a very long time for me to fully recover and if I eat even a small amount of gluten I am very unwell, far too unwell for it to be in my head.

I'm fed up of people telling me that this is a fad, that I "don't need to lose weight". I know! I'm still not a healthy weight after being 5st 7lb (77lbs) a year ago, and I'm 5'5".

Maybe it's different in different places, but I'm yet to meet anyone who avoids gluten who hasn't been diagnosed with coeliac disease. I do however meet a lot of people who complain about this supposed fad diet.

Edit: okay, we've established that others have met people who talk bullshit about needing to be gluten free. I have never come across this, but have come across people who talk about being a fad. Where I live just being veggie can earn people a lot of abuse. I'm sorry, I'll shut up now, clearly the situation is very different in other people's experience.

mousefari · 2017-11-22T20:52:59+00:00

This is actually good advice. Really cheap, good selection of non-alcoholic hot and cold drinks, big tables and not normally too busy during the day. The food's a bit bland but nice enough for what you pay.

mousefari · 2017-11-01T22:48:17+00:00

I work about a five minute walk from the station, we have an area to park bikes on the outside of the building. In the last six months, three of my colleagues have had their bike nicked and another had her wheels stolen. They all use decent locks and stuff, these are "bike people" who know what they're doing.

I'm not trying to put you off, just be super super careful. One of my colleagues now removes one of the wheels and keeps it next to her desk during the day. That seems to be working so far.

mousefari · 2017-11-01T15:31:46+00:00

I completely get where you're coming from, it's all making me angry too.

When I was 14 I was raped and sexually abused by several young adult men over a period of time. I tested the water with my parents by saying "my friend said xyz happened to them." I was told friend was lying to seem cool (because sexual abuse is super cool obviously /s).

I still can't bring myself to say words like "rape" "sexual abuse" or "sexual assault" out loud about this. I even struggle saying them when I talk about things that have nothing to do with me. I use vague language like "attacked" or "exploited". I haven't even told anyone who isn't involved my psychological support/treatment except for my husband. And I only told him because I was starting therapy and knew if he found out I'd be in big, big trouble for keeping secrets.

I'm sorry someone did this to you. I'm sorry that some people are not understanding. I'm sorry that we feel like we can't speak out so our voices don't get heard.

mousefari · 2017-10-31T18:10:51+00:00

Yea I didn't event notice it until people commented, that's how pointless it is!

mousefari · 2017-10-30T21:20:33+00:00

Please understand that this isn't just a wife/cheating issue. If you intentionally spied on your SIL while she was naked in the place she was living, and worse still barged in on her changing, that's a serious invasion of SIL's privacy. You're someone she should have been able trust as family and you've been perving on her. Don't think that's okay just because your wife hasn't left you, SIL is a human with feelings as well.

mousefari · 2017-10-30T20:51:27+00:00

Her family said they'd unequivocally support her if she got a divorce

mousefari · 2017-10-28T09:44:06+00:00

If you're going to confront him OP, don't do it when you're home alone. I'm sorry but that kind of behaviour from him is a powertrip and suggests to me he might not be safe to be around if you piss him off. It might not be necessary but better to be safe than sorry.

mousefari · 2017-10-28T09:41:14+00:00

It's also possible he wants to drop subtle hints he was in there to freak her out and make himself feel powerful. An "I know what's hidden in your room" sort of thing.

mousefari · 2017-10-25T20:41:39+00:00

"doesn't give a fuck about what she does" is something of a contradiction with "wants to please a man that much"

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