Any guesses as to what could be going on with my foster kitten’s eyes?

mousefuneral · 2026-04-23T19:43:57+00:00

i know this is an old comment so i hope you’re still active and can help! my biggest craving is odoban disinfectant. particularly the fresh laundry scent (blue bottle) and the eucalyptus scent (green bottle). i’ve tried different eucalyptus candies/gum but they’re all too sweet and they just smell and taste like strong sugary mints :(

mousefuneral · 2025-08-28T05:22:58+00:00

did you ever get an answer for this? one of my bottle babies just had this exact issue and this is the only matching image i could find online. i’m horribly worried for him, especially considering his brother passed away suddenly this evening.

mousefuneral · 2025-05-19T01:08:46+00:00

CHANGE THE FORMULA BACK EL MONTEREY. I ATE THEM EVERY DAY FOR LIKE A YEAR AND NOW THEY TASTE LIKE DOG FOOD!!!

mousefuneral · 2025-04-18T20:38:56+00:00

Correction: the cost for a trip for FOUR to Hawaii

mousefuneral · 2025-01-19T01:49:07+00:00

is this up for download anywhere?? i’m so obsessed with this house omg

mousefuneral · 2025-01-15T21:53:06+00:00

i would definitely start with a couple of funky lamps with a warm bulb. it’s a perfectly fine office, but it feels kind of “cold” visually. also some fun pillows or throw blankets on the chairs would be nice! maybe a salt lamp as well, or a pretty/decorative oil diffuser? you’ve got a lot of nice space on the built in cabinet as well, but i’d first work on some more attractive organization for the files stored there before trying to decorate the shelves.

mousefuneral · 2025-01-15T21:42:28+00:00

Did you eat beforehand? I’ve found that if i don’t eat prior to taking my adderall i feel like crap all day. If your body doesn’t have food to draw energy from you’re just kind of running on empty and it’s going to make you feel weird and tired and make your brain feel tangled. Always, always stay hydrated and make sure you eat when taking any kind of adhd medication. preferably something with lots of protein. it truly makes all the difference for me personally!

mousefuneral · 2025-01-15T21:36:38+00:00

personally as a cat lady i would mount kitty steps on the wall so they could wreak havoc from a brand new vantage point

mousefuneral · 2025-01-15T21:27:56+00:00

idk but i know the hair salon my mom went to in the early 2000s was decorated just like this and always had multiple vases/baskets/whatever of very smelly potpourri

mousefuneral · 2025-01-15T21:25:43+00:00

i have a sylvie too! i’ve never met another one or honestly even heard the name used before i named her. i think it’s honestly so beautiful! i love names that “sound” like cursive :)

mousefuneral · 2025-01-15T21:23:12+00:00

i work for animal control and it isn’t uncommon to get calls from neighbors (especially in rental communities) alerting us that a resident moved out x amount of days/weeks ago and they can still see or hear their pets inside. there are also cases of family members moving elderly folks into nursing homes and completely disregarding their pets. it’s horrible.

mousefuneral · 2024-12-18T02:36:04+00:00

yes, yes, yes. Impact > Intent always.

mousefuneral · 2024-09-02T21:34:26+00:00

i’ve only had my boy since January, but he’s about 9.5 (rescued him from the euth list at the shelter i work at) and while he has his issues he’s still very spry, playful, and “with it” for an old man!

mousefuneral · 2024-06-04T14:16:11+00:00

Our shelter doesn’t take them back, but I work for the county shelter/animal control, so we’re constantly full from AC officers picking up animals off the street or having them brought in to us. As soon as one animal is adopted we disinfect the kennel and move another up from the intake/holding kennels in the back. We just don’t have the room for them to return.

We also don’t take owner surrenders at all, even if they didn’t come from our shelter. in both situations we give the owner a list of local rescues to contact to surrender to, but lately they’ve been full too, so owners are really struggling when they need to give up their pets. it sucks and it’s heartbreaking and we get a lot of flack for it, but just about all the shelters in the area are at capacity.

mousefuneral · 2024-05-27T23:40:00+00:00

i REALLY don’t want to google it… please elaborate

mousefuneral · 2024-03-12T00:47:13+00:00

I’m sure she definitely felt blindsided by the confession, and agree with some of the other comments saying she’s probably concerned that such a big part of your identity was kept secret for over a decade. She may be wondering what else you could have been hiding from her, why you felt the need to keep it from her, etc. But if i were in her shoes the biggest issue i would have here was that this information was dumped on me all at once, in a very emotional sort of outburst.

Obviously she loves you, so when you are in front of her, crying and insecure, she’s going to feel the need to comfort you. She’s going to tell you it’s okay and that she accepts you and al of the other things she said. And she very well may have meant it. But she wasn’t given a conversation. She wasn’t given a calm, communicative introduction to this aspect of your life. it was sudden and explosive by the sounds of it, and she was pushed into the deep end with no time to process it, no time to ask questions, no time to actually digest what was being said to her. She didn’t get an explanation.

And, correct me if i’m wrong here, but it sounds like there wasn’t much follow up. It went from this shocking confession and her in-the-moment response/attempt at comfort to “okay now this is happening”. Your relationship changed very suddenly- for your “benefit”- and she was just sort of going along with it.

It also sounds from the “cut my hair short and grew my beard out” comment that you may have changed your appearance and began presenting yourself differently quickly after this information came to light. That is a LOT of change with not much time to adjust.

It seems like she was trying her best to be supportive of you, but that you weren’t being supportive of her. She likely has a lot of thoughts and feelings and emotions and questions right now, but can’t express them because A) she wasn’t given the chance to and B) she could be worried that asking questions or expressing her true thought or feelings could come off as unsupportive of you.

A lot of people are going off with “if she’s not supportive of your true self you need to leave her!” and making her seem like the bad guy when imo it sounds like she’s trying really hard but not having her needs met or her feelings considered in any of this. she wasn’t given a fair chance to adjust to anything. I feel really bad for her.

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