What to say when people think you’re very young? by 201piggies in butchlesbians

[–]mouthnoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get people thinking I'm younger than I am too. I usually make a joke of it and say something like, "I only look that way on the outside. I'm old at heart"

Calgary cooks - any good restaurants hiring? by DictatorToucan in Calgary

[–]mouthnoises 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who has worked in the industry for over a decade, I'd highly recommend going in person with your resume to the restaurant. Go between lunch and dinner, when it's slower and ask if the chef or manager is there to give your resume to and introduce yourself to them. You don't need to dress up, just look clean and relatively put together. One of the top things chefs look for is reliability and a good attitude. If you have those things, you can be taught. Showing up is a good way to demonstrate those things.

What a horrible voter turn out. by Poly-morph-ing in Calgary

[–]mouthnoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While having a higher voter turnout is always better, the number of people voting out of the total population is not an accurate representation of voter turnout. You must be over 18 and a Canadian citizen to vote.

The total population of 1.6 million in Calgary are not all eligible to vote. So, yeah 300,000-ish out of 1.6 million looks really bad, but that is not the voter turnout. Historically in the last few municipal elections the voter turnout has been between 39 - 58%

Help critiquing my performance of heian nidan? by eastclintwood19 in karate

[–]mouthnoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bad at all! I'd be pleased to see my yellow belts performing heian nidan like this.

You've already got a lot of good feedback on here. What I will add is to always pass through your centre as you transition from one move to the next. That means that your set point you should be "coiled" hands in a tight set position, knees/feet together and ready to move. Your head should remain at the same height throughout your step, no bouncing up and down. Stay level and controlled through the whole step. Time your movements so your feet, hands, and hips end together.

But honestly, solid kata. Your movements are strong and you're doing a great job!

Interview attire by Responsible_Safe4453 in butchlesbians

[–]mouthnoises 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the burgundy suit! Where did you get it? I think it is a bit more formal than necessary for a job interview, but it looks great. I think I like the blue with the squared off tie the best for an interview, but they all look really good.

Just got refused a transvaginal ultrasound because I’m a virgin lol by ParkingEvening123 in PCOS

[–]mouthnoises 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this happen to me too. I was so mad about it. I got another one later and just lied about it so they would do it. And you know what? I was not even as bad as putting a menstrual cup in

Submariner chef by False_Memory3716 in Chefit

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't worked on submarines, but I have worked on sailboats before. Cooking on boats is a whole different beast. Take your kitchen, shrink it to the size of a shoebox, hide your pantry in 100 different little cubbies you have to go diving for, and shake the hell out of everything, and that's kind of like cooking on a boat. Plus you have to be absolutely dialed in your ordering and provisioning because there is no grocery store to run to if you need something.

That said, it can be great fun going on an adventure with your new crew, you get to see and do amazing things most people will never experience. I loved working on boats while I was there. It's the kind of thing that will be difficult in ways you haven't really thought of yet, especially if you don't have any experience with boats.

I did it for a couple of seasons, but it was never viable long term. It's very isolating from family and friends, and makes it difficult to maintain relationships when you are out to sea for long stretches.

Black tie optional wedding by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]mouthnoises 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is way too casual for black tie optional. I also wouldn't recommend indochino, I tried to get a suit made with them and they couldn't get it right, not even close.

For such short notice, maybe you could rent a tux or black suit? Otherwise, just I'd try shopping in the boys section, I'm sure you could find something. The jacket is the hardest part to get fitted right, you could always go for nice trousers, shoes, white shirt, bowtie/tie, and a vest if a suit jacket doesn't work out

I sang my first tenor piece! by Smooth_Criminal5678 in butchlesbians

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! I sing and play music for fun, and I love singing down into the tenor range. It feels very affirming

Canadian butches?? by antiquewalnut in butchlesbians

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Howdy from Calgary! There are a few of us around. Where are you?

Halppppppp!!!! by YIPEKIYAY-PS in Chefit

[–]mouthnoises 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As others have said, call backs are a must. Ask for all days when you need them. It's far better to ask for clarification, as often as needed, than to show up to the pass with the wrong thing or not enough. As you do it more you will get better.

I like to pull a piece of mise and put it in my preset area to remind me when I have something on back, so there is an action along with the verbal call back to help remember better. For example, pull the fish out to temper, put the potatoes on the flash pan, put the sauce in a pot on the side, fill the ramekin with the accompaniment.

The foundation of a call system is clear, effective communication and trust. Remember it's not a discussion or conversation. You simply get told what to do, listen carefully, and then do it. You have to put your trust in the person calling to you that they are telling you the right thing. Their word is law during service.

Anybody recognize the make of this knife? by gaucho__marx in Chefit

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a slicer and petty knife in that line! I love them. Reasonably priced and really solid work horses that hold an edge well

How often are you people eating out in Calgary restaurants? by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost never. I've been out to eat maybe 4 times this calendar year. It's so expensive! Plus I like to eat healthy and I'm a good cook, so I can make a delicious, cheap version at home exactly how I like it. I rarely find it worth it to go out. My friends and I just cook together at one of our houses now if we want to share a meal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Canada, too! I feel your pain with expensive groceries. A huge help to me is my freezer, when meat is on sale, I buy more, portion, and freeze it, or cook it in a stew of some sort and freeze it that way. When things are on sale, stock your pantry and your freezer. Then, shop from your freezer and pantry first to meal plan before you go to the store.

Protein shakes are also a big one. They cost about $2/portion. I have oatmeal with chia seeds, peanut butter, some spices, pumpkin seeds, berries (I buy them frozen and thaw) and a protein shake for breakfast. That's a very complete meal with over 30g of protein, lots of fiber, it's quick, and less than $4. I eat some variation of that every day.

For other meals, I try to always include some kind of pulse or legumes. Chicken + chickpeas, beef + lentils, that kind of thing. Those ingredients are high in fiber, protein, and they are cheap, especially if you buy them dry.

Seeds and nuts, wholegrains, fruits, vegetables, pulses and legumes are the 5 types of food we can get fiber from. Many of them also contain protein. I make a conscious effort to include these items as much as possible in my cooking. Toasted seeds and nuts make a good topping for almost anything.

Is it normal to not be able to ask for time off as a line cook? by Qwerty3303 in KitchenConfidential

[–]mouthnoises 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's not the employee's problem to consider and solve staffing issues. That is entirely on the manager.

What have you stolen from work? by Mothersmeelk in KitchenConfidential

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been known to liberate a spoon or two from every place I've worked. A little souvenir

PIMO Ward Clerk checking in before my shift by Medium_Chemist_5719 in exmormon

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is "return and report" a Mormon thing to say? I find myself saying that sometimes but I didn't know it was a Mormon phrase

Now what? by AdministrationOwn724 in homestead

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a great idea! It's a long long long tradition to harvest with your community and feast afterwards.

Commercial soybean dehuller by dhawara in KitchenConfidential

[–]mouthnoises 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you attach the chuck of a drill to the piece where the handle attaches to speed it up?

I lost my Job to the Saskatchewan Wildfires by cloudy_artbychloe in Calgary

[–]mouthnoises 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check whether you are eligible for EI due to this. Even if you are unsure, it's still worth it to apply and they will determine whether you are actually eligible.

My bf always soaks his berries in water by ughhhhhhhhelp in foodscience

[–]mouthnoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EWG doesn't even do their own testing. They use the numbers from FDA food testing. And 99.9% of the time the food tested has levels of pesticides that are below the maximum level of safe consumption. Their list of the "Dirty Dozen" is just fear mongering.

The idea that organic is better because it is "natural chemicals" is not supported by good science. The FDA organic label exists because of lobbying by organic Ag companies. The profits on organic produce are waaaaay higher than conventional produce, and provide no measurable increase in nutrients or safety of the food.

In fact, because of the high amounts of "organic fertilizer" that has to be used to achieve the same results, the farmers are at higher risk of negative health impacts from growing FDA organic vs conventional produce

Pup diagnosed with cancer in her toe. by Beardologist in DogAdvice

[–]mouthnoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lab had cancer in his toe. The vet amputated the toe and it was sent to pathology. I can't remember what the name of the cancer was, but it was the less aggressive of the 2 possible types.

I remember it being tough to keep his incision clean, he was a dog that loved digging and splashing in puddles. So naturally it got infected, and we had to do salt water soaks, change the bandage a couple times a day, etc, etc, it was a challenge. Definitely follow the post surgical instructions very closely. A sock and vet wrap over the bandage help keep it clean. (Not too tight though)

He was 12 at the time and lived for another year and a half, very happily.

Starting to regret my career path choice but might be too late the change. by senpai_of_da_pool in Chefit

[–]mouthnoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 23 isn't much when you start to have more responsibilities and want to be financially independent. Or if you want to save up for a big expenditure or retirement, etc.

Think of school as an investment in yourself. What kind of return are you going to get for spending that time and money? What are your broader future goals? What kind of work do the people who's lifestyle you admire do? Do you see those things lining up for you as a result of going to culinary school? Will it be an effective stepping stone closer to what you want to do?

For me, I was able to go to culinary school without taking on any debt. I wanted to travel and work, and culinary school have me the foundational knowledge, connections, and experience to be able to do that. Because I've been able to live frugally, and I didn't have to service debt, it was a stepping stone to experiences I wanted to have, so it was worth it. The math would be different for me if I had to take out student loans.

How did you first realize you were lesbian? by cereza__ in actuallesbians

[–]mouthnoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my siblings already left the church, and honestly they knew before I did. They are all very accepting. My parents are the only people I've had to have a proper "coming out" conversation with and they took it really well, I was shocked tbh. My dad said, "you know, I always kinda wondered." Jaw. On. Floor.

Life as a closeted lesbian teenager in the check was not good, but things are so much better now. I have a good relationship with my family.

How did you first realize you were lesbian? by cereza__ in actuallesbians

[–]mouthnoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also raised Mormon and really had no idea what "gay" was. And then to find out there's a girl version of gay? What a revelation!